Why is my girlfriend acting so weird after our threesome?

One of my my girlfriend's biggest fantasies is getting fucked by two guys at the same time AKA a "DP".. We had recently been talking this past week about inviting my cousin Brandon over if he would be interested , so she can finally get the real deal. My cousin has always been a horn dog and sex addict and I figured since my balls would most likely be touching another dudes during this experience i'd feel a lot less gay if the other male were my cousin lol. So last night he came over and after some beer and chit chat, we all got started. She loved it as she expected and I thought it was awkward but nonetheless I wanted to do this for her. She has been acting really weird today and has barely talked to me and slept most of the morning. She says everything is fine amd wants time alone, but I know her and I know something has her upset. WTF? I did this just for her, to make her happy. What did I do wrong? This os drivinge nuts and making me feel really bad.
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  • Regrets, man!
    1. it wasn't as great as advertised
    2. she didn't think about next day... what to-dos, e. g. how her relationships have changed in the light of day, rumors, being asked to do it again because that's WHO she IS now
    3. if she doesn't blame her self (mature) then those supposed to protect her DID NOT = villains = you... after all if she was mature... would she have set this up in this take-a-chance manner... or at all?
    4. she's also thinking thoughts of being wild, then dismissing them
    5. long sleep = physical tired + not wanting to face the light of day/music + depressed

    Now... how about YOU? Your after glow feelings about sharing this... body? ... love of your life? ... whatever? ...

  • 1. Although she may have had fun and enjoyed it, a lot of women fear judgement. She may think that your opinion of her has changed. She just needs a lot of reassurance that you love her. Nothing has changed between you and her and the threesome was just for good sexual fun for you and her.

    2. Sometimes we can get pretty heated and in the moment our sex drive can make things seem like a good idea at the time. Being that it was with your cousin, she may feel awkward towards him now, or fear that he will act different towards her. Again just reassure her that everything is cool.

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  • Well... if she took it in the rear end.. she probably feel like some of her dignity got taken away.. or maybe because it was your cousin she felt weird that she did it with her boyfriends family member?

  • Sometimes want you think you want in your fantasies isn't what you actually want, maybe she figured this out after the event and regrets it.

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  • When she wakes up, you should suggest that maybe things will be better if you guys try a threesome with one of her "equally-attractive and sIutty" female friends.

    If you think she's acting weird now... oh... just wait

  • I’m sorry did you just have a threesome with your cousin? That’s still intimate, not that it is gay but still very much powerful experience and now your girl is just wanderlust, sounds like she has to figure out some issues but on the side of you, you had sexual relations regarding your own cousin?

  • What you did wrong is try to make her happy. This is why threesomes are a bad idea. She's probably feeling slutty and guilty

  • If a woman suggest a threesome never agree to it
    It's usually a test