Walked in on my mom masturbating!?

So I came home from work early the other day. I thought the house was empty because I didn't see my moms car there. I came inside, walked down the hallway past my moms bedroom to see her completely naked and masturbating with a big dildo. I was in shock to say the least. The naked part didn't really bother me but seeing her playing with herself was a bit odd. She's pretty free with her body and lays outside topless a lot. It's been weird lately around the house because I don't know if I should say something and joke about it or what? This ever happen to anyone else?
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  • My first thought was to just keep it hidden because it would be so awkward if she found out that you saw her. But then I read that she saw you at the same time you saw her, so she already knows. Since she lays around topless a lot she would be more accepting of many things than a "normal" mom would be (one that is never exposed to her kids), but this incident went way beyond that.

    Two things are important. How do you feel about it? And how does she feel about it? chances are that she will never bring it up with you, but if she does, or hints at it, my suggestion is to let her know that you are fine with discussing it with her. I mean this in the same way that a mother that discovers her boy masturbating might use the opportunity to have a talk with him about his sexuality and how masturbating is normal, etc. She may need to know that she did not shock the hell out of you, so if a discussion comes up you can do one similar and let her know that you are aware that women need release, also, and that you realize that it was normal. And you are not traumatized. But that she might want to close her door when she is doing that.

    Like I said, it will probably never come up, but if there is any hints about it, she may want to make sure that you are not shocked or think badly of her.

  • Sorry you saw that. I'd just leave a note in the car so she'll find it on the way to work and ask her to close her door when she's pleasuring herself. I suspect she'll be at least mildly embarrassed and doing it this way won't put her or you on the spot.

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  • I know how you feel, well I've seen my parents have sex twice by accident and I just pretended that I hadn't seen them, I felt so awkward that moment like okay its pretty normal to do sex because they love each other but why when Im in the house? Like it would be the easiest thing to see them. Anyway, the best way is to pretend that never happend because if you tell this to your mom then it will be really awkward

    • Yeah I hear ya. I actually caught her legs spread and working the dildo. She saw me when I saw her..

    • If you tell her what happend you will either feel really awkward with each other or discuss it and still feel a little awkward. So i recommend you act like nothing happend

  • I would definitely make a joke or of it, from what you've said, she sounds pretty laid back... everyone masturbates, it's natural and safe... but hella awkward when you see family doing it lol

  • Aw man.
    It's like catching your sibling doing it.
    Try to keep a humorous attitude, and don't think too much about it.

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  • Wowzer! Never happened to me but the reverse almost did.

  • Now you walk away and if she catches you chopping the tree in the future , you can make a joke about it lol

  • Omg, this is so fucked up. Felt uncomfortable just reading it.

    Just bury it deep in your subconscious and NEVER mention it... ever!

    • hahaha

    • Lmfao XD

  • I say someone's getting an AWESOME Christmas present this year.

  • Wow, dude, I am so sorry.
    I would leave the country after getting a lobotomy.

  • Well yeah this has happened to me. But actually i didn't saw her. Nobody was at house except mom. I went to the library but i forgot something so i came back. I always have a spare key with me so I entered the house and went to my room. At that time i heard my mom moaning and maybe she was using a vibrator coz I heard something like that and I have seen a vibrator in my mom's room before. Obviously it was weird, weird thoughts started coming in my mind. But in such cases I put myself in their situation. I though would I masturbate too if i was of there age? LOL and the answer was yes so went back to Lib silently.
    Now if she hasn't seen you there is no point of saying anything, I mean can you even make a joke? I don't have the nerve to do it. Even if she saw you don't say anything just do your own thing

  • Just try forget about it and move on, otherwise it could cause un-needed friction (no pun intended)

  • Keep in mind that she is human being, needs sex satisfaction. If she masturbates, what's problem in it?

  • Why not ask if she needs a hand next time

  • Poor you..
    I would just let it go, never mention it, ever.

  • why didn't you get naked go in there and tell her you make love to her if she horny

  • Got any pictures of your mom? :-P