I'm very shy and super horny, how can I get my bf to bed as soon as I get to his place?

I've been so horny lately like I masturbate several times a day. I told my bf I was horny and went and spent the night with him, I went to bed early because I had to work in the morning but I thought he would have woken me up when he came to bed but instead I got the best cuddle session. We both have issues with getting close to people and although we've been together quite a while he's just now getting comfortable with being close while cuddling. That morning when he got in bed he wrapped his arm around me and held me tight and close to him which was amazing but I still wanted sex. It's so bad that I want to just walk in his apartment and push him up against the wall and start kissing him and head to the bedroom and kiss more as I start to rub his dick through his pants and once he starts to get hard I'll start sucking him but this time I won't let him cum until he has sex with me, last time I have him a bj he came a lot sooner than I expected and came hard and was too sensitive for sex afterwards. I want him to be rough and fuck me good, I like it when he's on top and puts his arms around me and it's close I want that too but I also want him to be rough as well. I want to do this so bad but I will never be able to because I'm so shy, what will happen is I'll go over and because he's doing stuff around the place I'll watch him and be thinking about what's gonna happen later and parts of it will happen but not how I would like it to. Even though I can't do what I'd like to is there any ideas on how I can get him to go straight in the bedroom as soon as I get there and then after we cuddle he can mess around with whatever.
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  • The best way to go about this is to start with a kiss. Like as soon as he opens the door for you, say Hi and give him a kiss. Put your arms around his neck, and run them slowly down to his crotch area. You can keep them around the area over his pants for a bit before slipping them inside his boxers and giving him a hj right there on the spot, all while kissing passionately.

    I get that you're shy, but hopefully as you get more comfortable with him you'll be able to work up to this. Of course try not to have it turn to head unless he starts begging for it, and even then make it sort of a tease. Like flick the head with your tongue, but end it there before saying you want him inside you.

    I do this almost every time I go to my boyfriend's place, and we have yet to make it to the bed. We usually have to make do with the floor. But yeah, if you show him how badly you want him it's pretty much a guarantee that'll get him super horny as well, and as a result he'll fuck you silly.

  • I feel kindof blind on this since I have no idea how old you are, he is etc. I usually ignore the anonymous posters but I got the link from a follower.
    I'm guessing you're not a virgin and at least 16. That might explain the awkwardness.
    Sex is a two way street. It doesn't sound like he is ready, for whatever reason. He might actually be afraid if it's his first time. Start having some non threatening activity, like massaging each other, wrestling around a bit and so on. It offers some groping opportunities for you that would seem accidental, but still stimulating to him.
    You might flirt a bit by letting him see you partially nude or something. I ( my sisters too) made a career out of that since I was 14 or so and found it was stimulating for me too.
    Don't sweat the masturbation thing. We all do it, it's natural.
    I hope that helps.
    XX

    • I'm 26 and he is 33, we have amazing sex together it's just hard for me to be able to just walk in and go right to the bedroom. He's always messing with his plants or cleaning or doing something or there's days he's sore because he was in multiple car accidents and has metal in his hip/pelvis region. I really like him and enjoy being with him without the sex but I need him to have sex with me, I masturbate 4-5 times a day and really the only thing that helps when I get to this point is sex.

    • I know my awkwardness comes from I was hurt when I was 15 and went I to depression for 8 years. I didn't talk to anyone or go out with friends or anything. I lost my birginity when I was 25 and haven't had a lot of sex, I know the basics and apparently how to give an amazing bj (he came so hard he couldn't have sex after like he'd planned) but we have these awkward moments where I don't know what he wants me to do which I guess everyone goes through that.

    • Wow! I misread that altogether. Look, sex is the first thing that disappears from most relationships. You have to be creative to fan the flames. I'm just deciding how graphic I should be here. Hmmmm! Try a bj with some ice in your mouth once you can get him going. It will catch him totally off guard, fun, and wondering what you might do next time. Look... guys like sluts. Not dangerous crap, but hot stuff. So do most girls. surf the net for some ideas. Ever try watching p*rn together? works for us.

  • I say don't have sex. 1. U could get a SDT
    2. You could get pregnant 3. It is a SIN and you should wait till marriage. U might not be a Chirstan and care less but everything catches up with everyone like when I was little I ran around pantsing people ( crazy right?) then like a year or 2 after I stopped I got pantsed myself. Just PLEASE wait till u are married!!!

  • If he's shy, he will need to be more comfortable. He could just be clueless. You could try being blunt and telling him what you want. Hearing that from you might make him wanna rip off your clothes right there!

    • He's sorta shy but I'm the most shy out of both of us. Usually when I tell him I'm horny we have sex but didn't that time, next time I go I'll try just telling him.

    • I also do have much sex experience so that probly holds me back a lot because some things I'm not sure of.

    • I meant don't not do

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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you're really too shy, just send him a text saying what you want. It's a lot easier to text, although guys love it when a girl makes the firs move (say you wanna watch a movie, sit close with his arm around you, and after about 10 min of the movie out your hand on his thigh and slowly move towards his crotch, whisper in his ear that you want him) it'll work for sure. Otherwise he's gay, haha

    • We usually do text each other what we want or how good things were that night, for some reason it's just awkward for us to talk about if in person. I wanna start things one time because he always does or he'll put my hand there before I can work up the courage to do so myself. Even though I know it leads to awesome things I still feel weird just reaching over and going for it so it takes me a few to work up to it.

    • If you two are already sexually active, it shouldn't be awkward to talk about those things. My advice is to be open with each other. And mixing things up is great for a good relationship. So don't feel weird about making the first move.

    • Also. You don't have to grab his dick to get him in the mood. Touch his chest and put your fingers through his hair when you make out

  • I'm shy too but I'm gonna be blunt. Wait for him in the bed naked. Seriously that's literally all you have to do. He'll go insane. He will want to give you the most amazing sex ever.

    • Like when I go to bed get undressed or just when I get there go to the bedroom? He likes to sleep naked and for me to as well and I usually do when we go to bed together but I leave my clothes on when I go to bed before him because it's weird to me to sleep naked and without him being in bed with me I just don't do it. I guess it makes me think of being with him and makes me miss him and want him in bed with me, It weird I don't like being naked but with him I love just being naked together and cuddling.

    • When you hear him come in, be waiting for him naked in a sexually welcoming position or just outright tell him you're horny.

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  • 4 words.

    I want you now.

    • hahaha I like that. Gonna try it this wknd

  • Easiest solution? When you get to his place, undo his pants pull his penis out and go to town. I guarantee you will get laid then.

  • Get him alone and show him what you want, fuck him really hard and fast just the way you want it,

  • Sorry but who talks like that¿

    • Um apparently I do. Just expressing how I'm feeling and what I'd like to do and get help to achieve that goal.

  • WHAT THE FUCK?
    This question was all serious until I got to the middle section and couldn't stop laughing at sexual details you through in. Sounds like you got horny while writing this. Llololol.

    • Haha I'm horny all day long, def gotta get him in bed.

  • he's a very lucky guy