I think it'd be only disturbing in that it's someone else he's thinking about and getting turned on by, and that makes me curious. So no, in general, it's normal and I don't mind at all if a man does it. However, there's been a guy far away who's into me, he has a woman but thinks of me and masturbates often. I had no idea he had someone else so I'd love your input on why guys do it. Is it just a variety thing? Or is that sometimes the woman in their life is not making herself sexually available so they have to find other outlets?
0 0 0 0Why would anyone be bothered by that? Sometimes life or schedules get in the way. Sometimes people have different sex drives. Sometimes it's just nice to get off without having to worry about someone else. And it's a much better alternative than cheating on them.
0 1 0 0The reason why is because some people think masturbation is due to lack of sexual contact with their partners... which in a way could bother some females
I think that's a highly insecure and not very evolved in the relationship way of thinking.
I have to agree with both of you I can see how someone could feel insecure if they found their partner masturbating. I can see how someone could feel they weren't doing a good enough job taking care of their partners needs. But I agree this is a bad way to start a relationship. I don't take care of my needs to spite my partner. And I don't expect my partner to take care of her needs too. It isn't cheating and it's a healthy way of re-leaving stress. Life is difficult as it is and schedules do take priority. We always find time for ourselves but it may be early on a Sunday morning when nothing else is in the way.
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8 0it doesn't bother me if my boyfriend masturbates or watches p*rn. we only see each other once or twice a week, so it would surprise me if he didn't.
0 0 0 0Not really, I take things in my own hands too so I can't expect him not to do it too.
0 0 0 0i mean i don't really care. although my ex would masturbate up to twice a day (only once a day when we were together according to him) so he would last FOREVER when we would have sex which just gets annoying. but if we don't have sex one day or he's just extra horny or something i don't care. as long as he isn't choosing masturbation over being with me.
0 0 0 0if we are together most of the time, yes i would mind but if its a distance relationship, then no i wouldn't mind.
0 0 0 0Of course not. If it doesn't affect our sex life, then he can masturbate all he wants.
0 0 0 0If he was kind of hiding it from me I wouldn't like it. Like it's a dirty little secret I'm not meant to know about. It would make me feel a bit insecure. I mean he doesn't have to tell me but if he goes out of his way to make sure I don't know I'd feel like I was doing something wrong
0 0 0 0not at all lol, especially i only get to see my boyfriend once twice a month. we exchange private pictures and videos as well
0 0 0 0I would only be bothered if he masturbated to pictures of girls on Facebook or something like that.
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