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Accidental anal sex cause this reaction has this happened before to anybody?

My guy and I were fooling around and he ended up putting it in my anal I was standing but at an angle... I totally wasn't expecting it and I felt such a sharp pain as he put it in and I told him to stop. He did when I got up and I started feeling tunnel vision, my hearing on my right side seemed like it was going away and I was sweating I had to sit down and wanted some water. I felt scared.. it later passed and for 2 days my butt hole was very sore. is this normal? What did he do wrong?
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  • He put his cock in your arse to early, well I suppose he shouldn't of put it there in the first place, but if you were up for anal he should of used lube and finger fucked your arse first, got you hole losened up for his cock, it was just a shock reaction from you, even experienced girls who like a good arse fucking, would take a cock without lube first,

    • Yeah I had no intentions of anal sex and from experience not anytime soon

  • He went in you anal you wasn't expecting it he could least ask you
    if he is big than there is your answer for being sore and he wasn't
    using any lubrication

    • Yeah he said it was an accident but yeah it was horrible.. never again.. omg!!

    • Oh yeah i don't blame you :))

    • :) I feel better tho now because i was feeling worried because I didn't know it something was wrong with me because I felt like passing out when that happened

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  • "putting it in my anal"

  • Never had something rammed up my ass, but I have gotten tunnel vision and that queasy feeling before from extreme pain.

    What did he do wrong? He pulled out just a bit too far and missed on the re-entry

    • Well thank you for making me feel normal I was starting o freak out the fact I felt like passing out but the pain was a pain I never felt before.. and oh thank you for your input yeah I was wondering what cldve happened

    • I know it is rough now. But try not to let one bad experience ruin a whole genre of love making. Let's say instead of the accidental anal, he dropped to his knees while you were standing, and slowly worked his tongue into your butthole. Do you think that would have hurt? Nope. From the sensitivity in your asshole, you may have even orgasmed. And you are most likely capable of anal orgasm -- thrusting and shaking and cumming really hard. This was just too much too soon. But try not to let it ruing everything.

  • Nothing if it was an accident. If you do want to do anal, relaxation is a must at first, so it won't hurt much but then again what you experienced was probably a reaction to the pain you got, or might not be related at all.

    • No trust me the way it felt I am traumatized now lol

    • I believe you :P

    • OK I get it. But remember. If your anus has that much sensitivity, done right, could not all that be used for pleasure? I have cummed in a girls ass and watch her drop -- like a wounded moose. I mean asleep before she hit the pillow. The French call it petite morte' -- or little death. Funny when she woke up? She wanted to do it again. The cum in her ass acted like lube, and she was SO relaxed. I lasted a really long time, and she ended up going ATM for the first time -- and came doing it.

  • Obviously the punk doesn't know how to properly satisfy a woman anally.. tell him to "Learn Proper technique" before doing something like that... its men like him that make women fear anal and he gives such pleasurable act a bad rep when it could actually be very pleasurable for both when properly done correctly.

    • Yeah trust me i dnt plan on having anal soon it was tramatic for me lol.

  • Why he didn't put it in your vag?

    • We were just fooling around and the way I was standing and in the dark guess he thought he had it rigt.. when I told him what he did he was very sorry and has apologized multiple times

  • Your guy is a horrible person.

    • Why do you say that?

    • Because something tells me it wasn't accidental. It was very rude of him.

    • Oh I see yeah I don't know that's what he says I even told him look me in the eye "did u do that on purpose" he said he sweared n no he didnt. So?

  • Are you dating a black person?

    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL That sounds so wrong.
    Well, for anal you must go slow, try masturbation first. Like one finger for 1 week, later try 3 finger, and then try inser all of them. In one month you should be ready for anal

    • Why a black person? He wasn't but I love chocolate

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