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Are there some guys out there who DO NOT enjoy cumming in a girls mouth? Why?

My boyfriend and I have not been dating for that long and we've only been intimate with each other the last month or so. The second blow job I ever gave him I made him cum in my mouth. I didn't really ask him if he wanted to or even tell him I was going to make him do that, when he told me he was close I just kept sucking until he was done. He acted like he really enjoyed it and he did not try to pull out when he started cuming, but then again maybe he wanted to pull out and he just couldn't because he was sitting on the couch and I was on my knees in front of him and really the only option he had was to cum in my mouth if I didn't stop sucking him. The reason I say it like that is because for the last month now I've asked him numerous times if he wanted to cum in my mouth again and he always tells me to squeeze my boobs together so he can cum on my boobs. That's why lately I've been thinking maybe he does not like to do that. I've never really asked him if he enjoys that or not so last night I did a little experiment with him. Last night I laid down on top of him in the 69 position we were giving each other oral sex and I kept saying dirty things to him such as '' I can't wait to swallow your warm cum '' etc. etc. When he got close he told me to pull him out and jack him off but instead I went down as far as I could and made him cum in my mouth. It seemed like he was having a really strong orgasm and that he really enjoyed it but I can't figure out why he never ask me to do it for him. You think maybe he does not like it? Are there some guys out there who don't enjoy cumming in a girls mouth? Personally I've always thought it was really sexy to show the guy that I am enjoying his cum but evidently I may be wrong.
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  • I personally love to cum in a girls mouth and would do anything to please her. But I am very open like that. I was thinking he might not like being talked dirty to. That would be retarded but I know a guy like that. He would say his gf sounds too slutty. Which is also retarded. I lo e slutty girls to start with but you guys are dating so it doesn't matter if you talk dirty or not. I am 25 and with my experiences I know to just be blunt. Ask him. be honest.. I would just straight up ask him. Do you not like dumping your loads in my mouth? And then explain how much you love it. That is what it is all about. Being honest and expressing what you like. If you do that the pleasure is endless

  • I presume you enjoy swallowing as well. It's a fetish of his to cum on your boobs. Titty fucking is something a lot of men and, to my surprise, some women really get off on it, too. As for me, in a perfect world, I want to have my evil way with a woman and then she deep throats me while I cum so that she doesn't even get a chance to swallow but just consumes my gift whole, so to speak. I also love to cum in her mouth, have her show it to me, kiss her deeply, and then watch her joyfully swallow that big ol' load. I'd just negotiate that sometimes he can cum on your boobs but other times, you want his gift in your mouth to swallow. Then make sure you get it your way half the time.

    • Yes I enjoy swallowing as well. The first time I did it was in the ninth grade with my high school boyfriend, I had never given a blowjob before and my inexperienced understanding of a blowjob was that I had to make the guy cum in my mouth. After about two months of dating I finally built up the courage to give him a blowjob and made him cum in my mouth. It wasn't until many months later after talking with my girlfriends I realized a blowjob did not mean the guy had to cum in your mouth but by this time I was already used to it. this is the first guy I've come across that may not enjoy it. Don't think I'm I ho or anything it's only been three other guys and my current boyfriend would be the fourth in the last 10 years.

    • I don't think it has anything to do with enjoying your skills, he just wants to add another outcome to his choices.

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  • My boyfriend was really shy at first about it. He couldn't cum in my mouth even if I begged for it.
    Finally one day he got himself to jizz inside my mouth and he loved it.
    He thought I would be grossed out because it was soooo much baby batter, but I swallowed like a champ.
    Some guys are just too self-conscious about it.
    That's like some guys won't give you a facial even if you really ask for it.

    Another guy I was with had never cum in a girls mouth ever. And he had been having sex for at least 7 years.

    • I wish I could get a blowjob and finish in her mouth, if she swallowed even better

  • everyone is different and if you haven't figured it out, then here's the news flash: NOT EVERY GUY IS THE SAME!!! He may not enjoy it as much as you think. You even stated that you never asked him if he enjoys it... maybe you should! besides it's good communication.

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  • Personally I don't like cumming anywhere on a woman unless it is inside of her (not her mouth). It just feels like there is more of a pure connection when both partners can be eye to eye at the climax of intercourse and be able to communicate. I'm a hopeless romantic, sure, but that is just what works for me.

  • Yes you think right most guys do love to come in there woman's mouth. Everything you have described as doing would thrill any guy. I think your guy is just amazed at what you are doing for and can't believe that you love doing it. Any guy would be very happy to be made to come.

  • In my longest relationship I liked doing it at first and she was kinda resistant but started liking it after awhile. After my feelings grew stronger for her I only wanted to cum IN her vagina. Oddly, after that she still would basically demand it every now and then and I somehow managed (lol) to accommodate her. :)

  • Options:

    1, He is shy... despite you wanting him to do it.
    2. He likes spraying the breasts, some odd sexual fantasy.
    3. He wants to spray it on you so he can eat it himself?
    4. He is just strange.

  • I think he probably just prefers finishing on your chest.

  • You are correct, that by taking the cum in your mouth it is desired by most guys.
    Like everything, there are some things that are not liked.
    Your guy might have a thought that cumming in your mouth may be gross or nasty.
    Where these ideas come from, I don't know, but they exist.
    If you still want the load, just keep saying how much you want his cum in your mouth, like before.
    He should cum around eventually.

  • the only reason I can think of is because if you don't stimulate the cock as it's cumming, it will be ready for a 'second round' much sooner. Or, it could be that he is extremely sensitive - any stimulation to the tip of the cock while it is cumming is very intense. It may be that he's afraid he won't be able to control himself and he may grab your hair and try to force it down your throat?

    These are the only things I can think of..

  • Marry Me!

    Maybe he wants to kiss you after the blowjob and doesn't want to taste his own cum.

  • A lot of guys do enjoy it. There are exceptions to the rule and it sounds like your boyfriend is one of them. But most would love it.

  • The hygiene factor.

  • I'm married. But I will never do it because I find it disrespectful.

  • I have no interest in jizzing into anything other than a condom. I have no interest in threesomes, anal sex, cross dressing and pegging. I guess I'm one of these old fashioned men who would be utterly shit in bed. Good, I can concentrate on that crossword I have yet to finish...

  • Uhm... first of all i find it degrading for the woman.
    People nowadays want to copy stupid p*rn videos - i can't stand cum shots on the face, hair, or her eyes it's fucking idiotic, it breaks immersion and it is disgusting.

    Oh yeah and if i wan to kiss you afterward i have to swallow my own cum, dafuq.

    • I by no means do it to copy or imitate p*rn. I do it because it has strong sexual intensity and not all but most guys would love to have their orgasm inside of their girl whether it be the vagina or the mouth. I don't agree with you that it is degrading to me if it's something that I want. If I felt that it was degrading to me I would not let him do it. As much as I enjoy watching my partner orgasm I also enjoy feeling his orgasm with him whether it be in my vagina or in my mouth. It's something that is intimate to me

    • Ah ok, then good for you. I personally would not touch a woman who enjoys this crap - personal preference.
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  • I for one am a member of the 'Cumming in a girls mouth is AWESOME" club...

    Could be reading too much into it... keep doing it... see what happens.

    Talk to him. Be straight up. Ask him directly if he likes cumming in your mouth.

  • Vagina much more excited my penis than mouth, because I love always to com in pussy. That is the best for my orgasm.

  • Your guy is so lucky you do this for him I love licking pussy but have never had a blowjob to completion just sucked a bit before sex.

  • I absolutely love girls like you! To answer your question: no, I can't possibly imagine that there are guys who don't enjoy cummin in a girl's mouth, as it's the best feeling ever.

  • This is considered whore behavior.

    Many guys, do not want their beloved lover to act like this, they feel it's something best saved for the crackhead they kick out of the car back onto the street with a bunch of $1 bills tossed at her.

  • Good girl!

  • I wouldn't, because I don't like blowjobs in general.

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