What do I do I gave my boyfriend a hickey and his mom saw it?

I gave my boyfriend a hickey because he asked me to ! Of course I did it where his mom or family won't see it but when he was sleeping (with a tank top) his mom came in and saw it now she hates me (but she doesn't know me ) she knows that the day we chilled the person he was did it what if when I meet her she will know it was me.. or am I over thinking it? And its not a big deal what do I do?
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I am 19 and he is 18
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think she is over reacting. It's normal when you have a relationship. Are you sure she hates you? Or the person her son was with. You know, it takes two to dance. Her son can't give himself one. Most people I know just laugh about it. It usually just turns into a thing to rib each other about. BTW, she may be concerned if the relationship goes further then first or second base. I've known couples who had children while still in school. Some make it with work, some don't. Most aren't able to care for a child while still in school. I know two couples, at present, that their mother takes care of the baby while they go to school. Just my two cents. Good luck. :-)

    • Yes I get you. Its just that we haven't had sex we just play around. And no I do not want a child right now I'm in college and that's what I focus on. But thank you this helped me (:

  • Forget the mother, he's your guy not her ;-)

    If you go about making such a fuss about how the mother thinks etc you probably won't even be dating him :-)

    • Truee he is my guy (: thank you

    • The pleasure's always mine young lady AND forget the age part of it too - you guys are old enough AND the right age. If you don't give each other hickeys and stuff at this age when will you? On judgment day? lol

    • Ahh so truee I this I was just over thinking it to muchh lol thnks tho (:

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Your profile says you're between 18 and 24 so I'll assume he is around that too. If so, she has no reason to hate you, that's silly. People give and receive hickeys, it happens. No big deal.

    • Yeahhh thats what I was thinking plus he asked for it thanks

  • Relax, it's not that big of a deal. How old are ya'll?

    • Im 19 and he is 18

    • okay, yeah its not that big of a deal

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  • How old is he?

    • He is 18

  • Over thinking it girl, hickies are a normal thing. Next time give him one where nobody sees it (no, not there lol) and explain that's better for him too so he avoids uncomfortable questions.

    • Thank you c:

  • It is what it is. However I've never enjoyed getting one so why do it in the first place? Marking your territory? Did his other gf see it?

    • Other gf? No his mom saw it.. and no he asked me to do it

  • Dont leave hickeys unless they are on or near private parts.

    • Thanks (:

    • honestly I think hickies are childish. but can be fun on an near genitalia. ... and your welcom