How can I tell when he will cum?

Either being a blowjob or handjob, is there any signs I can watch for so I have a warning if he is gonna come in my mouth, or all over my bed. Please? Does it vibrate? or move a certain way, just ANYTHING. please?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You'll see his balls will tighten up a bit, and of course - that one of the many reasons you should look into his eyes while giving him head - so you can SEE by his expressions how close he is. and of course - you can always just tell him "hey dude, say you're gonna come so I know".

    Why don't you just swallow? It's an easier way to prevent any mess :)

  • For me the head gets bigger, I'm not sure that you will feel it while giving oral but you may see it. I think that the pace increases a little & thinking about it I believe that I may tense up a bit too.

    You can just ask him to let you know when he's going to.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Of course! I find that guys will get really hard when they're close (which I can feel), and also they'll get a little louder or push into my mouth more, so all of those are telltale signs. But it's generally a good idea to just ask him to tell you when he's gonna come so you're ready for it :o)

  • o well.. you can tell by his expersion.. he will hold ur head and push you on it harder and harders then ull know that he will most defently come in ur mouth. BUt also you can till bythe way his penis is if it starts getting stiffer and atiffer you know he's about to come on u..

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  • There's actually a little light on the underside of a cock head which will turn from a dark red to a bright green right before ejaculation.

  • He would probably tense up some, maybe grunt or groan a little bit too.

    • R us ure about that lol.

  • "does it vibrate" hahahhahahahah

    we're not machines

    anyway...depends on the guy really...i actually said it aloud...so that shed know...cause I didn't know if she was gonna spit or swallow (btw, she wound up swallowing)...if he doesn't say it...I'm pretty sure you'll start to notice heavier breathing and all that...

    good luck

  • When he get's that devious little smirk like he's about to unexpectedly come on your face,

    That's probably your sign.

  • there will be slight things that change a little form guy to guy like what all those guys said are true but usually by his face/vocal expressions it is no problem to a guy for you to tell him to tell you when he is going to come absolutely nothing wrong with that

  • One way to tell, is if he tilts your head back and tells you to open your mouth. Then you know for sure he is about to cum.

  • honestly you should be able to tell when... i mean its pretty obvious lol

  • Things will start to thicken at the base and start to pulsate after it expands, enjoy.

  • my girl friend insists that as she is giving me a hand job it my penis gets harder and harder until its as hard as it gets and that right about when I am going to cum

  • If you have not had much experience with touching a penis outside of sex it might be hard to tell. Heavy breathing, I tend to move around a lot shake like I'm having a mild seizure. It will be really hard and the look on his face will look very painful. I tend to breathe faster and close my eyes

  • He will most likely tense up right before he is going to cum.

  • you could just ask him to tell you, I'm pretty sure he'll know