Nearly 19 and still a virgin. Is it bad?

Im 18 and a virgin. all of my girl friends have done it and have had real relationships over time. my longest relationship has been 1 month. i dont know why i always date guys that i dont reaaaallly reaaaaaallly like. i always end up lowering my standarts too much. now i feel like a loser cuz im a virgin not by choice but because i can never seem to attract the boys i like. i look too young for my age even though i try to wear make up -.-' its very annoying cuz everybody thinks im 14 :@ hope this will do me some good in the future when im older and will need it :p
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  • Don't rush it. Let it be someone who really cares about you. I'm 19, a college student, a soldier, a personal trainer, and guess what? I haven't done it either. People put way too much emphasis on sex. Don't feel pressured to lose it. Now, I've never had a relationship, but I've been on a few dates and talked to a lot of people. The one thing I've learned, don't give it up unless you're ready. Just keep being you and eventually some Prince Charming will come sweep you off your feet

  • Lost it at 21 :) - Arranged a meet-up with a girl I had been talking for a while online. I just wanted to try sex, was not overly into her :/ - Do I regret it, not at all. So really it does not matter how long you wait, you just need to be comfortable yourself.

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  • Don't rush, wait until you meet someone you really care about who really cares about you. If anyone is trying to pressure you into doing it then you don't need them in your life. You'll find the right person sooner or later, and dating people you're not really interested in might be keeping those you are interested in away, it's better to be single for longer and find the person you really want to be with then to date whoever just to be dating someone.

  • Don't rush it. I lost mine when I was 19 on a drunken night with one of my close guy friends. While I don't regret it, I would definitely change it to be where I waited for someone I loved. The guy had upmost respect for me which is a definite plus (and a difference from every single guy I've dated), but I dunno... I don't have that for the guy that I will come to fall in love with. Kinda sad.

    • I d rather be a virgin forever than do it with someone im not comfortable with and then regret it. i just feel like a weirdo u know not being able to be with a guy i really like. its messing with my self-esteem very badly. Im glad you dont regret it. whats your relationship with ur friend now may I ask? by the way next time u ll have sex with someone you love i believe u ll feel as if you were a virgin and thats the time ull remember as ur first so dont worry :)

    • My friend and I are still really close actually! It didn't affect our friendship at all. Don't let it bother you at all, I haven't been in an actual relationship either. In my mind, I'd rather wait for someone that's worth it than waste my time with someone who isn't.

    • Thats good to hear :)) thank you

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  • yes it's bad and shameful try to pretend that you're not

  • You're still young, virginity isn't the be all and end all of everything. Don't worry about it, you're not a loser. Focus on getting an education. You might meet a great guy one day if you take the right path.

  • i'm 22 still a virgin... forever virgin i think

  • No

    Besides, some guys love virgin girls and knowing they are the first.

    move on , nothing to see there.

  • not bad at all.. stick to your principles and values.. do not do it because what people say to you.. theytry to pressure sometimes.. do it when your totally comfortable hun..