Why is it alright for girls to experiment with other girls, but not guys with other guys?

It kinda sucks. I have a few guy friends who 'experimented' with other guys, but then the dick in our school found out and told everyone... Not okay. They aren't gay, but he told everyone they were. He said he was kidding but... he's an ass.
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  • Most guys are homophobic when it comes to sexual activity, myself included. I'm not against gays or anything, I just don't want to get mixed up it their business. Commercials and ads usually show girls together in a provocative manner, don't forget movies etcetc.. so lesbians are kinda promoted through media.

    :)

  • The real problem in your anecdote seems to be the fact that there was a "problem" with being called gay. Isn't it sad that we live in a culture where that is used as an insult? (And that's leaving aside the "don't be such a girl" insults for a moment.)

    • That is very true. I didn't even realize that. I was most likely just overwhelmed at the time, and I hadn't been thinking. It really isn't an insult... I need to read closer in to things. Thank you.

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  • because guys like girl on girls. guys dont like guys on guys.

    simple as that.

  • It's just not that interesting. I certainly don't think it should be paraded around and shamed (although quite a lot of guys are guilty of that unintentionally, including myself; if every topic that could conceivably shame someone were abolished, there would be nothing to talk about), but most guys just don't really think about doing it to the best of my knowledge. There's not much interesting about a penis to me.

  • The old double standard.
    Gays are looked down upon, and in some ways they deserve it, for being overly aggressive.
    Many of our rest areas have been closed down due to MM gay activities.
    You don't see girls giving each other head in the rest area.
    Girls are at least a little more tactful about it.

    • I totally disagree. How must it feel to be gay in a culture where straight love and sex is the cultural norm and permeates everything, from art to entertainment to advertising to religion to lawmaking? If I were gay I'd sure as hell shag in the bushes (not that all gays do, at all). Out of pure exhasperation at the intolerance of contemporary society. We still have a long way to go.

    • They certainly can find a motel or house like the girls do. No need for public sex, thats what makes them looked down upon

    • I hear more about straight people having public sex that I do about gay people.

  • It's just one of those things that guys have to deal with. Dan Savage (the sex columnist) calls straight white males the most sexually repressed in the country.

  • Guys can experiment. They just usually don't.

  • he probably is just as curious too and does that to make himself feel better

  • There is nothing wrong with guys experimenting with other guys in my opinion.

  • Boi no wonder their so much diseases because of batty boys/gays boys like you