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Why do guys like swallowers not spitters?

Why do guys like u to swallow instead of spitting out cum? i dont get it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Spitting it out seems like a rejection of our essence. Swallowing it is a symbolic act of acceptance. It's goofy, but it's got a short cut to our subconscious in some cases. A guy who is a bit insecure will probably be more hurt if you spit out his seed.

    My best guess is it's a side effect of the fact that planting your cum as deep in a woman as possible is an evolutionary advantage. We're instinctively driven to do that and spitting it out sort of invalidates our efforts to plant it.

    Regardless of why, having a willing girl eagerly suck the cum out of his penis is one of the most awesome things that can happen to a guy.

  • As long as you let the him cum in your mouth I have never known a guy to care if you spit or swallow. I know I do not care at all. I do have a thing about being able to finish in her mouth. My ex swallowed for 7 yrs. then just stopped and said she couldn't do it anymore. never ever complained until that day. It left like a hole in me for 18 yrs. so it is a deal breaker for me as I start to date again after the divorce (no, divorce was not my idea and sex had nothing to do with it. our sex life was one thing that was always awesome).

    so maybe you just have met a lot of assholes?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because it turns them on. Its gross to spit it out. If you spit, you basically telling the guy that he is gross. When you swallow it makes them feel good that you care for them enough to swallow. It looks sexy and most probably feels really good for them. I always swallow.. it pleases my man so much.. and I like it too! It tastes good and it only lasts two seconds. So girl, just open your mouth and swallow it all up.

    • I did swallow lol. i get what ur saying.:)

    • Ha good =)

  • my bf said when i swallow its like saying i dont care if you might be a little gross i want you (and your bodily fluids) in me. its kind of like rejecting when you spit. but i think its sexy and so do most guys

  • It's only a little protein just swallow. It feels better to swallow, mor e intimate. I'm in the moment too it brings me pleasure to make him feel good

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I actually have no preference with that, I don't even know where it started where we started to prefer swallowers, cum can be an extremely gross liquid. I can't say I would blame and woman to spit

  • It feels like it went to waste if spit out.
    it isn't very ladylike to spew.

  • I just feel like she's super into me.

  • Eh I honestly wouldn't let someone swallow my cum or even have it in their mouth for that matter. Feels kinda twisted to me

  • A girl ingesting our semen is welcoming and pleasing.

    Spitting out the cum, to some guys, is seen as u rejecting a gift he made for you.

    • That is either really funny or really fucked up. Depends on if your kidding or not.

  • I think its a testament to your commitment. Honestly I don't really care either way. As long as you keep the motion going until I'm done - I don't care where it goes afterwards.

  • Less mess.

  • Would you prefer someone to swallow or spit the food you make?

  • It's a power kick. 'Look what I made her do'. Many men find it hard just to talk to women. Making them swallow your cum feels like victory.

    • That is the fantasy anyway.

  • It's sexier when you swallow. If you spit it out it's like you are rejecting us.

  • Maybe because its a turn on or an approval of them. By you swallowing its emotionally gratifying. Also your acknowledging that you enjoyed receiving the ejaculated semen. Performing filacio should not be demeaning on your part , you should want to do it or not at all

  • It's just the kinky factor to it. It's hot watching a woman finally swallow all my cum that she worked out of my balls.

  • Ask yourself this... how would it make you feel if after your boyfriend made you cum orally he jumped up, ran to the bathroom and spit and washed his mouth out? Put yourself in that position in your mind and I think it will help you understand.

  • I think its because its shows him your in it for the long haul and like everything he is including his cum.

  • I would imagine spitting would kill the moment

  • I actually love facials, and prefer it when the women spits. Just me though.

  • How would you like it if we went down on you, and immediately after washed our mouths and spit everything out.

  • Psychology. When a girl swallows it's like she is saying that she accepts all of you, and she wants a piece of you to remain with her.

    Doesn't make a lot of sense, but when a girl spits I feel kind of like she rejected a part of me.

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