Honestly, do you like sucking cock or do you do it just to please your man?

I just gotta know. Every time I tell my girlfriend how much I enjoy the way she sucks my cock, her only reply is "I know it makes you happy and pleases you". That leads me to believe she hates doing it but I don't want to ask her and put her on the spot. On the other hand, Ilove eating pussy and everything about it, I just don't feel like the feeling is mutual when it comes to oral sex?
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  • Honestly I don't hate doing it I just get bored and it hurts our mouths. Plus we do have gag reflexes so maybe if your too big for her to go down all the way and that is what you like she might feel obligated to pretty much try and choke herself for you to be pleased. I do it for my guy but I kind of incorporate my hands into it too when my mouth starts to hurt. Try asking her to do it and then tell her she can use her hands too. I love to be eaten out although I think it is gross that guys like it cause I don't think I could ever personally do it but it's different for all types of people. Be open in your relationship, don't grab her head and push it further down while she is sucking you. Cause I personally hate that.

    • men like pleasing women believe it or not it's sort of a pride thing

  • I like it very much, what I don't like is when a guy holds back to make it last longer, I feel that is very selfish and if he does that too often, I will eventually stop giving them on a regular basis. It's really hard on the jaw and for him to prolong it is very uncaring. But when a guy doesn't do that, I love giving BJs... it's nice to see the effect we have on our man.

  • Every girls is different some are takers some are pleasures. Me I'm a pleaser I love sucks a nice cock but I'm very very selective but with my boy friend now I trust him so I give him head through out the day wake him up to it while he's brushing his teeth all do it washing dishes seating on the couch playing games I just love a faces and the sounds cause I'm a pleaser

    • What an awesome girlfriend you are!

    • Wow!!! :)

    • I wish I had a chance to marry you

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  • Some girls indeed don't like to perform it based on factors such as smell or being down there makes them feel a bit awkward. BUT, a lot of girls like to please their man so they do it because they do care about seeing you happy and it turns them on seeing your facial expressions etc... so they proceed anyways.

    Here's what you should do... ask her..

    simple as that.. tell her, babe, do you LIKE going down on me? Don't answer that you do it to please me, I know that, but baby, just tell me if you actually enjoy performing or not.
    And whatever her answer may be, don't tell her you're upset or nothing.. just be mindful and respect it... if she does enjoy it... good for you man

  • I am all about going down there because I like her reactions. But when it comes to my turn, I literary would say say that to myself "oh man this is going to be so damn awkoooooooh shit this feels good... right there"

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  • I only hate it because of my gag reflex always happens. Other than that I don't mind it.

  • I like doing it because I know he likes it so much. It doesn't do anything for me, but I'm still happy to do it for him.

  • I don't like it, but I don't mind. It makes him happy and I'm the only girl that's ever gotten him off that way.

  • Oh and whenever I found myself with a mouthful of dick, you can bet 100% of the time it was because I loved sucking cock and I was enjoying myself.

    I know sometimes people may feel obligated to eat pussy or suck dick, but honestly I enjoyed going down on women and men and willingly do so as much as possible. Plus if you enjoy doing it, the person receiving can definitely tell..

  • She'll get too self-conscious if you give her that type of speculation. Either way, be appreciative & love her for it.

  • Some do some don't. Personally if he's into it I am to.

  • I do not know how many girls will answer your question or even take it seriously using such a word.. lol. I do no mind giving my boyfriend that oral sex. I enjoy it, but it is also because we have been together for many years now. I will be honest, when we started dating, it was literally disgusting to me and more like a chore - or simply do it just to please him. As years passed, something change. I cannot get enough of it now, to say the least.

  • A little of both.

    It's fun and excites me a lot, but now that we're older, it also seems to take forever and makes my jaw sore and inner lip cut up. In my experience, guys go down for a shorter duration and also I try to be more mindful not to thrust or do other things that make it physically uncomfortable.

  • Personally when a guy wants to give me oral I kind of panic this happens every time it's like I can't get comfy but I enjoy giving oral but I've been told that's weird. I just don't like oral on myself for some reason