Girls: If you saw your new boyfriend's penis for the first time and it was huge how would you react?

Would you be afraid to try anything? Would you consider breaking up with him because you wouldn't want to have sex? What would be your thoughts? (By huge I am talking about 8.5" long, 5.7" around) Would any girls just be excited, and not at all intimidated by that?
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  • I'd be very sad and disappointed. I don't like big penises. They just don't please me. Just like some guys prefer small boobs or butts, I prefer small dicks.
    But if I see a guy's dick, it's in a relationship. So I'd have no choice but to accept you and you're big dick. But I think I'd prefer oral from you and not vaginal. My ex was 8 1/2 inches erect, he was bad at sex, and it hurt like hell. Some girls like there cervixes being bruised, not me. No pleasure at all. He couldn't even fit the whole thing inside me, but he still tried. Not pleasurable at all. My pussy can't stretch that big lol So we'd have to do a lot of positioning modifications, or some positions we'd have to avoid completely. With my ex, only me on top was pleasurable for me, and maybe missionary.
    So I'd be very disappointed, but if I loved the guy, I'd be willing to work with it. I'm not gonna break up with someone over penis size, big or small. Though I think 4-6inces is perfect for me.

  • I would run out of the room and go to the store and buy some decorations. Then I'd come back and throw a giant penis parade for him. Then we would give it an award and take pictures. Then we would make it a national holiday for it. Then we would make an outfit for it.

    Seriously though, who cares. Why is this a question? Hahahaha. People obsess over their bodies too much. Whether it's bigger or smaller it's you. The end of it.

    Whether you end up with some shallow girl or a genuine one, their all going to have their own individual feelings about it and preferences.
    If a girl is into you, she's not going to just run away because of your dick.

    If you are worried about your size have an upfront/adult conversation with her. Ask her about her past, what size she's had, or even bluntly 'what's too big for you?'...
    Who just whips it out anyway? LOL Well I guess if it was some casual hookup. THEN maybe you this could really happen to you hahaha.

    • The last girl who was into me did run away because of my dick, that's why I'm asking.

    • Well she's immature or shallow. The vagina is made to give birth to a child. A penis is not going to hurt it. You might have to ease into things and have a lot more foreplay so she's ready for it, but it's not that big of a deal honestly. Like I said, any girl genuinely into you, isn't going to just dismiss you as a person because of one physical feature that you cannot control or change.

    • You've just ended the size debate forever hahahahaha

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  • I would be a bit surprised. I would take him considering the biggest I've had was 7 1/2 and that felt amazing.

    And what is with you people and your measuring? What the hell is 5.7" inches?
    There is 5 1/4, 5 1/2, 5 3/4, if you want to get technical, there is 5 1/8, 5 1/16, 5 3/8 and so on, but what the hell is 5.7"?

    • 5.7 is just shy of the 5.75 mark

    • 5.75? That sounds like 5 3/4. Why can't you just say 5 3/4 so people understand. Last time I pulled out my measuring tape, there was no 5.75 there. Or any.75's for that matter. There is plenty of 1/4 1/2 & 3/4 on it.

    • Alright, 8 1/2" long, 5 3/4" around. I just prefer decimals over fractions.

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  • All the horny anonymous girls ha

    • Yeah, this kind of surprised me. From most of the "is my penis ok" questions I've seen trolls give huge sizes asking if they are average and they get slammed. That's kind of why I was pretty reluctant to ask this, I know the actual statistics on probability so I know exactly how rare it is. I guess making sure to format it so that it was more of an open ended question was a good idea.

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  • First thought would be "NO BUTTS! NO BUTTS FOR YOU!"

    • yeah. I have no intention of ever asking a girl for that, from the amateur videos that I've seen, it's hard enough on the girl for an averaged sized guy to try that.

    • No idea where you watch yours but the ones I've seen, they oil it all up and it slips right in. Them buttholes on are big that it freaks me out D:

    • Well, the pro stuff just doesn't count. And a lot of the amateur ones are all after they've been together for a while, and have done anal quite a bit. But when you find a couple of the "first try" ones, or ones where the guy is just an uncaring douche, you can see she does not enjoy it at all.

  • I'd be excited. I wouldn't want a guy with a small one. What fun is that?

    • Lol shallow...

    • So is liking people who are tall, redheads, big boobs, small boobs, ect. Having a preference that not everyone meets is part of what makes some people more attractive to some and less attractive to others.

    • well i'm not shallow, but if I wasn't sexually happy with a partner because he didn't fulfill my needs, I dont think it's shallow. I go by personality as well, but that was not the question so... Hop off @JoeE21

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  • I would be afraid, cause my ex was 6 and that felt big for me, so idk, i would be afraid, but i would try, if it damages me in any way i would be reluctant to try again

  • I'm not sure that I would be able to tell how big it was just by looking... as in, seeing as I haven't seen one in person. So I wouldn't be able to estimate inches or whatever. I wouldn't say anything to make him feel bad about himself though.

    • Rough lengths that I know of are the shorter length of an American office paper is 8.5" long, and 5.75" is just enough to not be able to fit into a toilet paper roll. If those measurements help, I know it's pretty much the same distance around as my wrist, I think my wrist is a little thicker.

    • i have a better idea now. my response stands, i wouldn't say anything to make him feel bad, would act normal :)

    • Would you be nervous or excited or anything like that? It sounds like you might be a little intimidated but try to play it cool.

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  • "By huge I am talking about 8.5" long, 5.7" around"

    That's flaccid, right?

    • The world record largest dick isn't that long flaccid, nice try. I know the statistics, only one in a couple thousand guys are that size.

      https://i.imgur.com/aZRkeMm.jpg

    • So you're admitting to using dick inches? I appreciate that.

    • Well, I can see that you are completely useless. This exchange is over.

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  • be surprised but i wouldn't be scared XD

    • Do you think it would be an excited surprised or more of a what the fuck surprised?

    • like oh thats a nice surprise. I mean kind of excited but never a wtf surprised kind of way

  • Would not be afraid. I just hope he knows how to fuck. You can have a big dick and still not know how to use it.

  • Sore throats, here we come.

    • Lmao

  • I would probably be intimidated and scared but i would never break up because of that

    • What would be the best thing the guy could say or do to help you be more comfortable?

    • Tbh, I have no idea bruh

  • I would be like, "u ready to bump dirties?" Fyi that other girl is right... u gotta know how to use it ;)

  • Inexperienced girls and virgins will be extremely afraid, that's for sure. I would be intimidated but I wouldn't break up over it. I just prefer smaller.

    • How much smaller? Like still above average, or closer to average/below average?

    • Average is fine by me. Slightly above would be okay

  • I'd probably just pull out the lube.

  • "Whoa there" *stares* "You're HUGE... Can I try it out?" ;)

    I wouldn't be intimidate, hahah yes, I'd definitely be excited. Let's go!

  • You mean as a virgin? There would be no point of comparison and any size will probably look huge and be scary... still not a good enough cause to break up with him and run away.

    Aren't you afraid of hurting the girl yourself?

    • Yes, that's the number one things that is on my mind. That's exactly why I'm asking this, I know that I'm way above what the average is, and it scared me what I could accidentally do to her if we aren't communicating.

  • No I would love it but be a little scared it would hurt me or I wouldn't be able to satisfy him because I am really really small I'm about 90 pounds but my current boyfriend has about that size duck as well so

  • I would be like, Oh god lawd help me.. I really hope I could take it in, otherwise it would suck.. Wouldn't dump him though.

  • If I was in love with him; it wouldn't matter to me big or small... I would just ask him to glow slow at first.

    • *go*

  • Ask Arroxal or Sarah_Smith... They love big dicks.

    • Sara_Smith*

  • "Is that going to fit inside me?"

    • Would you be reluctant to try having sex at first?

    • No I wouldn't Id just like him to take it easy first.