Why did he ask if I want to see his penis?

[princessshy]

So this was my first date with him... he's a white guy im a black girl. So he took me to a restaurant and than at night he took me to the dock and we just look up at the stars. I notice when we would cuddle... he would get extremely hard... like he kinda seemed embarrassed. So he would try to avoid contact. Everytime he would look at me, it seem like his heart is racing. (Im a really pretty girl). Like he was hugging me from behind and I felt something long and he said yeah we got to go. So this what really pissed me off... when we got in the car (he is very open person) and he asked me have I ever saw a white man penis... I said no (I looked confused) and he said you want to see it... that whole drive back... I didn't talk to him... he tried to make conversation... but I ignored him... why did he ask that? Im waiting till marriage

[RestlessYouth_]

Yeah, if it's the first date, you guys haven't developed that kind of relationship yet so that's not cool. Most likelye he was interested in you, tried to make a move, then was embarrassed when it didn't work.

[iste_kuzukuzugeldim]

You must feel in a contradiction because of this statement which comes after his emotional behaviour. Maybe he got horny in car and couldn't control himself.

[crazyincalifornia]

I've been out with my share of guys. Never had that happen. Just saying.

[iste_kuzukuzugeldim]

:) Just saying: for example? sorry, English isn't my native language

[Wondorous]

Either you have a reputation or he's a piggy player.

[princessshy]

No reputation...

[puddles]

chances are, it was not his winkleberry, rather a snake/maggot that had got lost and attached itself, and he was looking for help on how to remove said beastie :/

[Realistic07]

did you let him know you were saving yourself before that?

[princessshy]

No I didnt.. Before our date we didn't talk about sex

[Realistic07]

well you have to understand although you choose to have a certain mentality about sex he may be just more open with his sexuality. That's fine and your choice to live is fine as well but by not communicating about it things were kind of left up in the air weren't they. so what happened he made a move and you clearly didn't like that move. so the question now is what do you want to do because there are options still you can talk with him about it or you can leave things where they are and move on. that really all depends on what you want.

[crazyincalifornia]

Geez! To be a fly on that wall. LLOL!

[beastman88]

LOOOL

[princessshy]

LoL... made my day

[lumos]

Uhhh yeah, he doesn't seem very normal. That's not something you ask a girl on the first date. He asked it because he's a major perv, and he has probably been watching too much p*rn.

[bDizzie]

I don't understand waiting until marriage, but he showed his true colors on the first date. He is very immature and I don't blame you for ignoring him.

[princessshy]

Im not having sex till marriage. Does this mean he doesn't like me?

[bDizzie]

It may filter out some of the guys out there, but he isn't normal. You don't go out on a date with a black girl and ask her if she's ever seen a white man's penis. He's a pervert and it doesn't matter if he likes you because you should not like him!

[cavmanier]

It sounds like he thought you might want to see it. He probably wanted to show it to you too.

[βιυεsκγs]

First of all I want to say that it is great that you're waiting until marriage, thats the way it should be.
I wouldn't see him again- he's probably just after sex.

[jmmmfi]

Because he wanted you to do something to it

[Anonymous]

Well, no sex till marriage doesn't automatically mean you won't see a penis.

[iste_kuzukuzugeldim]

True :)

[Anonymous]

he wants blowjob duh