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How to make my labia minora or the inner pussy lips, larger? Naturally. Or should I get them surgically lengthened?

Does anyone know or has anyone tried to make their labia minora larger? I have puffy labia majora, the outside pussy lips, but my labia minora is smaller. I'd like to have them sticking out the vagina, or at least a little bigger. I hear guys much prefer the "outtie" vaginas with larger labia minora. When my boyfriend goes down on me, I sometimes have to open my outer pussy lips with my fingers because my labia minora is small and my outer pussy lips are so puffy. He says he likes sucking on big juicy inner pussy lips, but I don't have that. I feel so self concious now and I don't even want to show anyone my pussy again, not even him because he prefers them larger. Guys everywhere say they prefer the labia minora to hang out from the outer pussy lips. How can I stretch mine naturally? Should I just get surgery instead? I'm also going to get breast implants because I have small breasts. I'm a fairly pretty girl, but I have small breasts and small labia minora. I'd like to fix these things because guys are always saying bigger is better, and now I don't even want anyone seeing me naked anymore because I'm not good enough. I feel like the guy won't like my vagina. I wish I had larger labia minora, can someone help? Should I just get surgery like I will with my breasts?
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  • You are SUPER trippin. Are u going to change your body for what u "heard" guys like. Natural is always better. You are going to be happier having a guy love u just the way u are tons more than having a guy love u for your unnatural parts. Leave your body alone. Please. You'll only regret it later. As for the pussy lips thing, I'm pretty sure the opposite is true, but whatever. The moral of the story is don't do anything stupid.

    • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      Large labia minora is by far the most preferred. Guys say it all the time. And breasts size its common sense bigger is better. What am I supposed to do? Wait until Im 50 until someone actually prefers my body and not just accept it because they like me? I dont want to wait that long.

    • Who says u gotta wait that long? Why are u putting yourself down?

    • Because it hasn't happened yet. Im losing hope.

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  • I can only hope that you are not serious. If you have a guy who doesn't like the "design" of your pussy, drop him today. No, I did not say tomorrow... I said today! Please do not do anything like surgery and somewhere along the line become a little more self-confident about what you have. Really!!

    • But most guys are like that. What am I supposed to do? Wait until I'm 50 to find a guy who actually not only likes but prefers my body? I dont want to wait that long.

    • I would take you the way you are. The guys you are talking about are ones you don't want. I don't know where you find guys like this, but most of us really don't care. I mean REALLY! Every guy and girl can describe the body and the body parts we want to see in the opposite gender and you know what... love is actually not founded on the shape or size of each other's genitals. I have been with girls have size A and size C boobs and innies and outies, and if I like them, it actually does not matter in the heat of sex.

    • Guys always say that. it sounds like you're just settling or putting up with their small breasts, labia minora just because you like the person. but if the girl had larger breasts or inner vagina lips, it would be better. Guys always say big breasts are ideal, but small work too. That just sounds like your settling or tolerating them just because they happen to be attached to the girl you love.

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  • I have small inner labia and a fatty. Who cares? Girl, run that shot all over his face. I'm married to a man who absolutely loves my lady bits. I also have small breasts. Don't worry so much about what your vagina looks like. Everyone has a preference but won't always get it.

  • If this is real, he is just saying that so he doesn't have to go downtown. I doubt all vaginas are that different. He is rude, too, because I'd never tell my husband I wished he had a bigger dick or something.
    This isn't real is it?

    • No he does go down. But he's said he loves large labia minora, large breasts, but he's fine with mine. Just fine, not loves my parts, just likes them

    • What are you going to do to please your next guy? Get butt implants if yours isn't fat enough for him? And the guy after him? And so on...

  • Most guys are happy being able to have sex and will think your pussy is beautiful.

    Tucked in pussies and luxurious labia pussies are all perfectly wonderful and fun to eat.

  • pull on them. they stretch, so if you do it routinely they will stretch, but you have to be gentle. Too much can stress the tissue.

    • Have you tried it on yourself? I hear that isn't permanent

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  • you best be trollin leave! your boobs and bits be girl!

    • Not trolling just hopeless at this point

    • if he's complaining about your body ditch him and find someone who thinks you are a goddess! (it's a lot cheaper than surgery!) plus my boyfriend prefers small breasts and silicone feels nasty! plus small boobs are more sexually sensitive!

    • Under 24 and hopeless? Have guys not dated you because of your body? Or something else? I certainly would date someone with your current stats. How many ran away when they saw your nice petite pussy?

  • The guys that are bothered by things like that are focused on all the wrong things so just blow them off and for God's sake, don't pay any attention to that criticism.

    • But its most guys. Its not just few. Most guys say that larger inner labia just look more juicier and womanly. They say only pedophiles would like innies because they look prebuscent. I dont want to look like a child.

    • Most guys have not even seen a vagina up close, this is an irrelevant claim and you shouldn't waste your money on this.

    • Then you are guiding them to focus on how your pussy looks. For the rest of us, if I'm into her and she's into me and we agree to get naked, it's about what we do to each other and not the details of her pussy. As long as it works as prescribed, it's fine. If anything, I've always been in search of a girl with a big clit but indeed they are as rare as the proverbial hen's teeth so I'm resigned to never finding her. Do you have a fetish for them to look closely and give you an opinion or for them to do down on you? If so, stop.

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  • Why go through surgery to change your pussy for one guy? All guys have different tastes. If you break up with this guy and then start with a guy who likes what you have now - will you get more surgery. Relationships are not about the shape of your pussy lips. this is an insane question

    • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      Not one guy. Its most guys.

    • I do not see the problem, personally. Then again, I have not seen your pussy, so I can't give you advice. I am NOT asking to see your pussy, mind you, I just said I don't understand. Best of luck.

    • You dont see the problem? My problem is most guys would teject my body. And Yes I know that your going to say "find someone who loves you for you" but Im severely out numbered. I have small breasts and inner labia. Im hopeless and thats too much for a man to compromise

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  • TROLLLLLLLL

    • No im serious about this. I hear there's labia surgeries to lengthen them. I prefer a natural way if its possible.

    • that happened fast! yesterday women were enduring painful surgeries to cut off the extra hanging bits, either way please dont chop yourself up for what you think a guy wants... guys -like women- like different things... its going to ruin sex for you. it will cause nerve damage plus there's nothing wrong with it..

    • Scientifically 50% of men like the labia minora smaller and 50% of men like them larger, find a man who loves you the way you are they are definitely out there, and by the way your boyfriend is a douche you really need to dump his ass. Take Care Rock

  • You should have made this a poll question. You would find that the only issue guys have with a girls pussy is do they have access to one. Apart from hygiene a girls pussy is about the worlds most perfect! Regardless of shape!

  • you're considering getting surgery because a guy said he likes "big juicy inner lips"? what would you do if he said he likes girls who drive fancy cars? or he wants a girl with a butt as big as Kim Kardashians?

    my point? everyone has things about themselves that they may not love but that's how we were made. try and just appreciate what's good about yourself and realizing that everyone has things about themselves that they may not love but it is who are

  • I think you should totally get surgery or maybe attack dumbbels to your inner labia.

    • Attach**

  • That guy is a moron. I'm actually the reverse in that I like an innie a bit more than an outie. And breast size does not register to me at all (as long as a girl has an hourglass shape, the size of her breasts is not important).

  • You say guys everywhere say they like bigger labia.
    Guys everywhere also say they want smaller labias.
    So which group are you going to please this week?
    So many guys like smaller boobs, too.
    Now you are going to turn them off also.
    You are obsessing about the wrong things.
    Not all guys say bigger is better.
    Search the posts about boobs.
    Most guys say they like smaller, not bigger.
    So where are you getting these ideas?

    • IRL. On the internet. Most guys my age say that. On that question 14 said bigger the better. 4 even expressed complete dislike or turn off to have smaller labia minora. Only 2 said they prefer smaller. And the rest didn't care. More than half said larger, some even said smaller is complete turm off. Thete was another question that said innies are p*rn star pussies and look fake.

    • Even if you were to please a slim majority, what if your future long time BF liked smaller boobs/labia like myself? How would you feel if you deliberately changed these things to find out that he really liked smaller? You just can't please everybody, every time. Speaking of p*rn stars, then wouldn't bigger boobs equal p*rn star boobs?(supposedly bad)

    • Its not a slim minority. Its almost all guys. it wouldn't hapoen because more guys say bigger is better. Very few say smaller is better. I have a higher chance at finding a man who prefers larger than smaller. Im getting hopeless at this point. If you catch bad fish, change the bait. The bait is me and is not good enough. I dont want to wait until im 50 and then I finally find someone to accept me how I am. Thats 30 years of lonliness ahead of me.

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  • Please be trolling.

    • Not a troll. Im hopeless at this point

    • I would say so. Honestly, your vagina appearance doesn't matter to 90% of guys. AT ALL.

    • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      Most guys here made it clear bigger is better. Some even said smaller labia minora is a complete turn off.

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  • I thought the majority are more into small labia. The question you referred to is an example of how people tend to agree with the question asked. That's a phenomenon here on gag. People that agree with your point of view are much more likely to answer. I personally could are less about labia size.

  • Holy moses, he honestly won't mind either way because he gets to have sex with you, I think most people can't even properly differentiate between the different types of female genitalia, like... sheesh, just... just don't.

    • You can tell mine. The only way to see the labia minora is if you spread the outer lips. My outer lips are very puffy and inner lips are small. Most guys say they ptefer larger labia minora and its an instant turn on. Some guys even say small inner labia are a complete turn off. I dont want to experience that. here's the question

    • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      Most guys say bigger is better and instant turn on. Id like to be able to instantly turn a guy on just by looking at my body.

    • Most females that have turned me on just by looking at them in the past usually could do that even without taking their clothes off, lol.

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  • Guys don't care about your vagina they will like it believe me they don't care
    the only ones who care are the ones who are immature

    • a lot of guys say the larger ones turn them on. Mine are small. The inner labia. Id like to fix that

    • Well, least you got my opinion and i really mean what i say yes immature guys will have a particular type of vagina they like

    • What about the guys that want smaller lips? How are you going to please them? HUH?

  • Just leave everything the way it is. You're fine. Guys always prefer the natural you. You'll look worse to yourself than to any guy.

  • I've got a man part that's way below average. Does that mean I should get surgery to potentially please a girl or two who is used to bigger ones? No. People should like you for you. They should love all of you on your worst days and all of you on your best (and I mean every part of you). Don't be self conscious about stuff that doesn't matter/can't change

  • Finding a new boyfriend sounds cheaper and easier. But I tend to be pragmatic about these things.

    • But the problem is most guys prefer that. A vast majority say that outties are an instant turn on. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      What am I supposed to do? Wait until Im 50 to finally find a guy who prefers my parts? Stay lonely for like 30 years? I dont want to wait that long until I find a guy who prefers my body as is. If you want to catch better fish, change the bait.

    • Interestingly enough, I've never seen a question here so majorly answered by older men. That might have something to do with it. I'm telling you now, no guy is going to be turned off by an inner. Lots if not most actually prefer it contrary to your finding. Think about it, you said that it was the p*rnstar type. It wouldn't be so prevalent in p*rn if men preferred otherwise.

  • Smaller is always better. Bigger is for fat lovers

  • Get Mandingo to do it for you.

    images.excaliburfilms.com/.../Mandingo.jpg

    • What does that mean?

    • google "mandingo xxx" he's a doctor.

    • That sounds like P*rnography

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  • This really isn't something to worry about. Large labia can look good, but so do small ones. It's certainly not something many guys would consider when going into a relationship.

  • Ew, you want it looking all saggy?

    • Not saggy. Just longer

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