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I want to break up with my girlfriend because her body is 'too hairy' and she has 'too much pubic hair that traps odor'. How should I tell her?

I have been with my girlfriend for a year now but I wan't to break up with her because she is too hairy for my own liking and she doesn't make much effort to shave her body or even trim downstairs. She is of Greek and Italian descent so she has dark prominent hair in all the usual places but in general she is just more hairy than I can tolerate. She is way hairier than the average woman and I know she can't control her genes but she could at least make an effort maintain it. Even after I have asked her, she still won't shave 'down there' so she has an unpleasantly hairy vagina and that is the final straw for me. I want out. When I am breaking up with her I feel that I need to come clean with the reason why so she knows for possible future partners. However, I may lie and sugar coat it as I know she will cry and feel hurt because she is an emotional girl. I plan on sitting down and telling her tomorrow night when I arrive back in town. Whichever option in the poll is winning by majority in exactly 24 hours will be used...
Break up with her, tell her exactly why.
Vote A
Break up with her, lie why and spare her feelings.
Vote B
Stay with her, tell her the issue and force her to shave.
Vote C
Stay with her, put up with the issue (no chance).
Vote D
Disappear and cut off contact with her to avoid issue.
Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I didn't vote. I feel the options are from a very narrow tunnel of thinking.
    And I should say you are very shallow if u seriously think to break up with the girl due to a physical attribute such as body hair. Don't u hv emotional bonds? Don't u think a relationship is more than just physical? No wonder she doesn't listen to u cos u r too shallow and relationship is so hollow without a value for emotional attachment, love and caring.

    • What if I told you I can't bring myself to perform oral sex on her because she smells and it's clearly because of her public hair. I know this because she did shave it just once for our vacation six months ago, and low and behold the smell vanished for a week or two… She should take note but no, instead she acts like everything is fine. The smell can stink my bedroom out sometimes to the point that I have to open my bedroom windows to vent it out, and also she doesn't do a good job of shaving her underarms. I think a year of putting up with that is pretty good of me so you can stick your fucking opinion mate.

    • If you truly loved her than body hair would not be such a big issue for you.

  • Tell her how it makes ya feel and hint towards things like "i find it so sexy when ya shave" and that kinda jazz.. if nowt changes... tell her its a big enough deal to make you walk.. and you do certain things for her and its only fair... still nowt changes, then leave

Most Helpful Girls

  • haha man.. you serious? you dump a girl cause of body hair? i guess you don't like her too much anyway, break up, you're an ass. and i think if you wouldve brought this topic up and tell her to shave, she wouldn't have been bothered. COMMUNICATION, my friend. thats what relationships are about

  • What about just trimming and try to control it? Shaving and waxing down there can be really bothersome and even painful... especially if she is that hairy.
    I hope you're doing something for her and not just demanding this and that. Like many guys do.

    • It's girls like the idiot who just downvoted me that make men feel entitled to this and that. Just because shaving works for you and you're so willing to do it, doesn't mean it works for everyone! It's not an opinion to disagree with! And if he wants to break up with her, he will do it anyway.

  • Are you seriously breaking-up over pubic hair without even discussing it with her? I mean, you didn't even tell her that you consider it a deal-breaker, you just told her that you would prefer it if she shaved.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • So i take it your body is a sculpure of perfecton?

  • Perfect girl for me ;)

    You: stop watching porn, get some real action with you girlfriend.

  • Stay with her, put up with the issue (no chance).

  • I hope you spare her feelings as much as possible. She will be better off without someone as shallow as you in her life.

  • If you brought up this issue indirectly or if you bought her some hair remover and a nice feminine body wash kit and she never did anything about it then I personally don't blame you for leaving her

  • I picked A, even though you have a really dumb reason for breaking up with her, she deserves the truth and you can't force her to change, and she clearly deserves someone better anyway if that's your only reason for ending things

    • I'm pretty sure that if a guy had a smelly cock you would consider breaking up with him as well

    • well my boyfriend does but I care about him to much emotionally to think about breaking up with him because of that

  • Stay with her, tell her the issue, request (don't force) that she shaves... if she doesn't... leave.

    • That is the option I would have chosen. Should've been a choice.

  • Tell her you would like it if she gave waxing a try

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