Alright, I'm almost 28 and I NEVER had a girlfriend!!

well i'm a down to earth, simple guy!! i'm not asking for much all i want is a girlfriend. i dont know what i've been doing wrong my whole life. been chasing girls ever since i was a little boy but failed every time. i know now that i'm probably not the most handsome guy out there (no i dont have a low self stem) but i am a smart guy with a lot of potential. i'm not afraid to go and talk to girl, actually i think i'm pretty good at it. i can start conversation with a girl anytime anywhere. i go to clubs, hangout with friends (i'm very social) and i have a great personality. also i can make a girl laugh and i've been told i'm funny many times. but i guess all that is not good enough to impress girls these days. it seems like they all like just as a friend. i'll be with my friend or my brother and some random girl with come up and tell him he is cute or send her friend to get his phone number, it see it all the time to them but not ONCE a girl will show interest in me, seriously is there something in my face and my mind is playing some psychological games on me to hid it? the only girl that would show interest in my are BBW or old women and to be honest not my type one bit, sorry but that's me. i just moved to the middle east last month and it's just like a big giant cock fest in here. there are zero girls in this place. so i'm not expecting to get laid anytime soon lol. also so far i only had sex once!! so i'm bit (by bit i mean a lot lol) sexually frustrated at the moment !!! all i'm asking for is one average looking girl is that too much? i'm 28 years old and i feel i'm missing out on life. i tired everything from meeting girls at a club to tinder. ohh please no "dude you need to relax" , "dont worry it will happen when you less expecting it" or " you need to go out more" advises. i assure you i'm relaxed, chill and i got out and socialize a lot. these advises are not helping anymore. soo ladies any of you would honestly tell me what's wrong?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think it's your look man. Try a hat and lose the glasses. I think that could really help you out if you've already got the social skills. Are you asking for numbers? Asking them back home? If you're looking for sex you might as well be pretty straight forward. Be nice but straight forward cuz girls are gonna see through your shit anyways and might as well not waste time on a female that doesn't just want some sex. If you're looking for a gf maybe you're just coming on too strong and they assume you just want sex.

    • haha i wear contacts when i go out. but yea i ask for numbers and to go home. i get numbers. no it's not just sex man. i mean it depends on the girl and her personalty. some girls are just too much drama and full of shit to make her a girlfriend. one time i went out with this gorgeous girl but i couldnt take the amount of bullshit she throw at me. she's like "well i'm getting a record deal for a million dollar" and "you are lucky that i agreed to go out" i was like bitch for real? you are broke ass girl who works at a coffee shop and just left.

  • there are probably more male late bloomers than female late bloomers in the world of dating and relationships, sex

    • I remember an American Anthropologist make an article about this, not sure if he is right or wrong

Most Helpful Girl

  • You are 28. You said you have potential. Give us an example. What do you have potential for? Are you in school? Do you have a career (NOT! a job, a CAREER). Or are you just floating through life with no real purpose or formal college education trolling through questionable-at-best advice websites after midnight while doing nothing to advance your own life?

    • i did talk about my personality. but if you are asking in details, here is it. i speak three languages, Arabic, English and Spanish. got my master in engineering. and i make 100k a year (dont know why how much i make should be a factor ) so am i still floating in life without purpose to you?

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  • how often do you go out, how often do you get yourself out of the house?

  • from the way you look, you are definetley not ugly, average looking at the least, no offense bro, but i can sort of relate to you in a way

    • also what is your height? height is obviously a huge factor in getting girls

    • Also since you live in the middle Ebeautifulwhat country to be exact? Because middle Eastern girls are beautiful, gorgeous

    • *Middle East