My boyfriend fingered me yesterday in a cinema and talked about getting married?

[sweetgirl23]

My boyfriend fingered me yesterday while watching movie. Most of the time he does that. But yesterday was the best because he made me cum. I was surprise when he started talking about weddings and stuff. Like do i want to have a church wedding or a simple wedding? How many children do i want to have, where to go during our honeymoon... I was touch by these questions and all i can say was 'thank you'. I really love this guy and of course i want to settle down with him. But the thing is i dont think my family is ready to let go of me yet and they haven't met my guy yet. Though they know i have a bf but they dont want to meet him yet. While on his family side, he introduced me already. They approved on our relationship. I am 23 and my bf is 31. Do you think that family can be an issue to postponed things we want to do sooner? by the way im a virgin and my guy said that once we have sex, he wants to marry me right away. He's a keeper i know and i dont want to lose him. But we're just in this relationship for 4 months but we've been friends and knew each other for almost 3 years now.. Hope u can help me guys and gals.

[ReneDS]

dont want to be judgmental but he sounds like a sex crazed maniac who seems to be in a rush, no wonder if he is 31 and you are 23. '' so he did finger you before but yesterday was the first time you cum, then he isn't very good at pleasing his GF. He sounds weird to me, making a whole bunch of promises he probably can't keep. my honest opinion, without making you doubt, look for someone younger who isn't rushing it , and talks about getting married after just 4 months, but only when you have sex. thats really really weird. i wouldn't do it but its your life, you can fuck it up as much as you want it. and i thought i rushed things sometimes, to me he sounds weird, but you clearly love him a lot, but sometimes its good to listen to others and really think. love is a matter of the heart but we shouldn't leave our thought process out of it.

[Red_Arrow]

"by the way im a virgin and my guy said that once we have sex, he wants to marry me right away." Why does he not want to get married first. If you want to get married right after sex, it would make it simpler to get married then have all the sex you want.

[Anonymous]

Don't marry him if he wants sex first. He is going to leave u after he gets it. If he loves u he shouldn't care about sex all that much

[Anonymous]

He hasn't proposed yet. Worry about it after he does that

[spankingthemonkey]

Sooner or later you are going to have to stand on your own two feet and make a decision, wait for your family to decide that you are old enough to date then some century later marry, or you can stand on your feet and do what you think is right.

[William_Kendrick]

no offense, but you'll eventually fade from your familly one way or another... before you rush out to get married, make sure you're ready, and he's willing and ready.

dont rush into anything too quickly.

[jmmmfi]

It sounds to me like he's telling you what you wanna hear so you'll put out.