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How do I ask the guy I'm with if he wants to cum in my mouth?

I can't give him a standard blowjob because I have TMJ and easily get lock jaw, but I like playing with his balls with my mouth and kissing and sucking him as much as I can down there and I really want to taste him. ... I just a don't know how to bring it up. Cuz I really want him to cum in my mouth, it's just that I wouldn't know how to get him to that point since I don't know how to give a good handjob, so the only way Ik I could is if he jacked himself into my mouth. Does this sound gross/ like a total turnoff? I really don't want to scare him off or appear like a freak/slutty in any way:(
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  • If he's your boyfriend you should be able to dicuss this normally, like anyone in a relationship does. But if it's just a random guy, don't do it. Men talk, just like women talk, everyone will hear about you swallowing.

    But when you give a blow job you use your hands to right? Just ask him how he likes to be jerked off, that way you don't even have to ask him to come in your mouth. You ask about the technique, so you will learn how to please him, which is better than him having to jerk of into your mouth.

    To each their own, but I would never do it with a random guy I'm not in a relationship with. Also because of diseases, oral sex has it's risks as well. It's not safe sex when you let a guy come in your mouth. If you have even the smallest issue with your gums, or you have the tiniest wound around your mouth or in your mouth you can get infected. A friend of mine (gay guy) got HIV because he swallowed while he himself had minor gum disease. He used condoms so you can imagine how devastated he was when he found out that he was infected.

    • Not a random guy haha. It's the guy I'm with sexually. It's really open communication, I just don't know how to present it

    • Weird.. if it's really open communication than why do you still not know how to give him a handjob until he comes? Isn't that the first thing you discuss, how you like things to be done.. especially oral sex? How can you please each other if you don't know what the other person really likes, how he or she likes to be touched, licked, fingered, etc? Just say: "can you show me how you like to be 'handled'" or "can you tell me how to..." Open communication right. The point is you don't have to ask him about cumming in your mouth. if you know how to make him come ;)

    • That actually makes a lot of sense haha thanks :D guess I've just been overthinking shit

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  • That's a very good thing, not gross and not freaky. He should understand that. Like I said to someone else a moment ago, tilt your head back, open your mouth wide, talk "dirty" to him, beg for cum, tell him that you want him to cum into your mouth so that you can enjoy swallowing his cum, have him stroke his cock and cum into your wide open mouth, enjoy swallowing his cum, suck and lick his cock squeaky clean, then tell him his cum was delicious and that you enjoyed swallowing it. You'll quickly have him mentally trained to cum for you! Now he may need to stroke his cock for awhile before he cums, so keep up the dirty talk and begging for cum until he gets there. Once he gets there keep your head tilted back and mouth wide open. Don't move your mouth towards his cock, let him move his cock towards your mouth. Works for me every time. :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Form an exaggerated kissing mouth and suck/lick him that way, a sort of French Kiss of the tip of his penis. You need only part your teeth enough to let the tip of your tongue through. Of course he wants to come that way. Suck on him that way for a while to get him aroused, then stop and tell him that you want to suck him while he jacks into your mouth while you watch. Watch as he does it and learn to do it for him. Sure, its a little edgy but his arousal will make it appealing to him.

    • Thanks, this sounds perfect

  • Cultivate a great hand job technique. There are some p*rn videos that show exquisite hand jobs. When he's getting close, just look him in the eye and say urgently, almost begging, "Please! Come in my mouth? I need to taste you!" I presume you swallow?

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  • Just dont ask or say anything.. give him a handjob with your both hands. use one on balls and then both on rod. u can judge if he id ready to cum by the look of his penis cap and his facial expressions.. stop handjob at that point and start licking cap of penis with tongue tip keeping mouth ready... he would never ever stop u to do that and love it when he unload in your mouth... do tell him that he is yummy so he will do it again and again

  • You can say it any way you want to, he will be aroused.

  • HAHAHAHA.. turnoff? Seriously? If he doesn't apprecaite that, I'm sure you could find 100 guys who would take his place. Learn how to give a good handjob, and just as he's about to cum, put your mouth on the head of his dick while jerking him.

  • Give him a hand job and do it or during sex let him know you want him to cum in your mouth. He can pull out a few seconds before and you would have time to put your mouth around it.

  • No, it's not slutty sounding or a turn off. I think since you have a medical condition and will have trouble doing a traditional blowjob the best way is for you to lay on your back and open your mouth. Then just have him masturbate while you play with his balls and when he is ready to ejaculate have him shoot his sperm all over your tongue. Then you can eat it and be happy. Hope you enjoy it.

  • Well in the bedroom freak/slutty is a good thing. Just before you start you can ask if there's anything he wants to and then mention this, im sure however it happens he will be up for it. Or ask him in a dirty talk kinda way whilst your at it, nothing more of a turn on than a girl asking for it.

    In terms of how you could read some guides on HJ's and practice on him or you could ask him to pull out before he cums during sex.

    Have you considered a facial? Its on most guys top to do lists, fun, he could jack himself to do it and then you could taste it

  • Jst ask him for a date and go to a room or in a vehicle and touch his dick then you are through

  • You are AWESOME!

  • Be Honest With Him, Tell Him That You Want Him To Cum In Your Mouth And How You Would Like to Do It!

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