Why doesn't my girl make noise during sex? Is my penis not big enough?

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I've been dating my girlfriend for about 4 months now. I have grown self conscious recently because SHE NEVER moans or make any noises when I fuck her, even in the ass. Is my penis not big enough to satisy her or what? Thus is embarrassing, but I recently decided to measure my dick with a tape measure and it just barely crosses the 7 inch mark. Do I have a small cock? Be honest. She just lays there like a carcass. Wtf.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Talk to her. Maybe she just isn't noisy to begin with. I had an ex like that, he wouldn't say a word, not a sound, during sex and it drove me nuts because I'm loud and I like to know what is turning my man on and what he wants/needs from me. So you need to talk to her. Maybe she's afraid to be noisy?

Size really isn't a concern when it comes to satisfaction. Please abandon that thought right now. The best lover I've had so far was the smallest but he knew how to use it and he would ask me what was working for me, what wasn't, and the same for him. Great, mind-blowing sex isn't just about skill and knowing what spots turn on your partner, its about communication and emotions. It's about the whispers, the laughter, the moans and the "a little bit more... just a bit... OH." It's about asking if the other person came if you're still learning each other. And its about speaking up and saying, "this isn't working for me, could we try it this way?" The first and only guy to get me to go down on him, got me by just turning to me and going "is there anything you'd like to try?" In that moment, I was willing to share my fantasies and try them with him because he was willing to listen and it wasn't about him getting off, it was about both of us having a great time and finding pleasure together.

Quirky29 · Accepted Answer

You may have a great sized penis, but you're probably not hitting the right spots.
I'm going to try and explain to you where the gspot is and how to penetrate it.
When you enter her vagina, go 4-5 inches in, and aim for her stomach/bladder. This will be tricky if you are just doing normal missionary. So try different positions. Doggy style will get you there fast, lifting her legs up around your shoulders will get you there. There are some men that unforunatly have a downwards shaped penis (even when erect) so they can't hit the gspot at all because its located by the stomach/bladder area.
Just try and aim up, and thrust HARD and FAST!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well give her something to get noisy for!! Get her into positions that will stimulate her clit, and if you're going at it like a jackhammer then I'm not surprised that she is lying there bored rigid...

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

She's a rotten lover. It's not about your cock size. She may be the victim of sexual abuse and just hasn't told you. I'd talk to her, away from sex, and just ask her if there's a history that precludes her from enjoying sex with you or what do you need to do to get her to engage.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If that was my problem, I'd get a vibrator and keep it at her clitoris while thrusting. That's kinda one of my fantasies because there's no way that doesn't work.

Rockstar06 · Answer

use your hands more... A lot more!!!

Tokana · Answer

8 inches is average, so I would say that you're a little on the small side. Are you hard as a rock? If not try boosting testosterone levels. I think test boosters works.

Anonymous · Answer

Most likely she is nervous and self conscious during sex. A lot of people get really quite and still when they have sex because they are so afraid of being judged. To be honest it sounds more like she is really bad at sex, not you.

Anonymous · Answer

You have a tiny tiny cock. She can barely feel you inside her.

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