It definetly depends on the underwear he wears and the pants. My friends with benefits guy is about 10" but when he wears boxer briefs you can't see any bulge, even when he gets a hard on! But boxers I can. Jeans also conceal a lot about a guys size. Generally a bulge when standing is a good indicator, most pants all bulge when they sit.
Maybe its balls?
Maybe his pants just sorta settled outward and its an empty bulge? I mean sometimes I sit and it looks like I have a pants bulge and I don't even have a dick...
It's a possibility, but it can also be what you said: the grower vs shower thing. Or maybe, he has it in a position were it creates a bulge, but in the end he's an average guy.
There are several possibilities, like the type of pants he's wearing, is not the same to be in tight jeans than in sweatpants.
u are right its all about showers and growers but exceptions do exist
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It really doesn't mean much. It could be invisible (under clothing) when it's asleep, but it could be a monster when it wakes up. How much it shows, with clothing on, depends on a lot of things and flaccid size is just one of them.
You wouldn't notice any bulge on me, but I'd have more than the next few hundred men (when he wakes up).
... or could be socks.
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most mens clothing tries to extenuate a bulge and make it prominent but the dick isn't the only thing there if he has big balls then big bulge and that's not going to to anything if you end up having sex
i don't have big balls or a very big flaccid but im 8 inch erect so depends on the guy
No it does not, flaccid and erect are to very difference sizes, and how big the difference is, is individual.
Who knows in most cases it's most likely just simply large. Though if it gets hard at an odd angle then it can also give the impression of it being larger then it actually is.
Meh, I think it means he's got a big one. I never understood the "grower not a shower" thing. Kinda seems like it would be an excuse for a dude with a small dick but who knows.
I bulge if what I'm wearing is tight, doesn't have to be real tight either.
my bulge is obvious in slacks at work and catch females look at it. my dick is like a can of beer 8 inches by 2 inches.
I am a "grower" from zero to a ground splitting 5.5" x 4.75" Love Monster. I do have quite large testicles (no tea bagging for me) which make me have a large bulge even though Junior may be retracted like a box turtle.
I have very big balls that cause a large bulge no matter what size my flaccid cock is
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