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Should I Just Give In And Act Out My Fantasy?

I'm a good girl. I do my homework. I get good grades. I don't do drugs. I don't mooch off of my parents. I've only had sex with one person and we were in a very serious relationship. Now, I'm single and very horny. I like p*rn ( A LOT) and whenever I watch it I find myself watching videos that are degrading towards women. It's nothing too freaky, but it's along the lines gangbangs, blowbangs, or bukakkes. I know it's awful but I want to be used. I watch these women have sex with 5, 10, 15 guys and I get jealous of them. I want to experience that or something similar. Should I? Is it wrong? Is this a phase? Is it normal to fantasize about this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • the thing about a fantasy is its not real... its something to wish u could have happen... if ure really interested in trying it for real... consider setting it up with a few friends or find a fetish meetup... groups of people with like minded interests as u meet up to enact such fantasys in safe and clean environments...

    beyond all this what makes something right or wrong... cause people say it is? fuck what other people or what society thinks... if u enjoy it and want it y is it wrong if it dont hurt others...

    i think the biggest problem witht he world today is society... if society didn't exist we wouldn't have stereotyping... anorexics looking to be 50 lbs under weight... bullys picking on some1 cause their different... people wouldn't be embarrassed with what they think and feel and people would be more honest with themselves and others... the downside is losing society we wouldn't be human anymore but i can live with that LOL

    at the end i will say this... p*rn isn't real... them women giving deep throat go home with raw throats... the p*rn dont show the setup and lube for anal... ure only seeing the hardcore stuff that makes p*rn exciting... the real thing will be very different and prob won't be what u expect

  • You need to be aware that fantasy and reality are a very very very different thing! The girls in these videos are paid to do what they do and often they get mentally and physically abused beyond all belief.

    If you want to explore this type of scene find a partner who you trust and will control and protect you in the case that it gets out of hand!

    Do not allow your self to be restrained in any way until you are sure you true the people you are in the scene with.

    Dont rely on a safe word! once several guys are taking you any way they like often they will not be able to or want to stop no matter what you say.

    Be aware that this type of scene is one of the easiest ways to contract HPV even if a condoms are used!

    Become fully aware of the risks short term and long term before you go down this track!

    If you still want to o do it enjoy :-)

Most Helpful Girls

  • there is nothing wrong about. a lot of girls probably have such fantasies (at least those who watch regularly porn). but only because you like watching that stuff doesn't mean that it is fun doing it yourself. if you really like that idea then you should give it a try. but you should definitely start small with a threesome.

  • There is nothing wrong with having fantasies or with acting them out. Just make sure it's with people you trust enough to respect the safe word. Have fun, if you decide to act them out and enjoy it.

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  • You've discovered that you're a sexual submissive. Not that unusual and perfectly normal. You need to be in a relationship and know you can trust the guy. Then tell him to just go all cave man on you, take exactly what he wants however he wants it. Set up two safe words: mercy to tell him to give you a couple of minutes to adjust to what's he doing before moving on and red light to stop things immediately. Don't use them unless you just have to.

  • The way women are portrayed in the P*rnography industry is definitely wrong. Here is a question to consider though: would you prefer to get old with a husband and a family, or as a worn out childless woman? Obviously you don't have full control over the way your husband and you children will treat you, but if you attempt to find wild sexual pleasures outside of marriage, staying happy and satisfied within marriage will be impossible. Will you be looking for someone special or just pursuing physical pleasure for the rest of your life? It cannot be both.

  • I think you should give the idea itself more thought and why you feel the way you do, beyond the point where you mention the liking of feeling used.

    • Can you elaborate? I like where you're going with this opinion.

    • You know when people say there's a reason for everything? But they never delve too much into understanding it because "it's just the way it is"? Well, I do find a deeper understanding and meaning to something when it is rightfully justified. Ask yourself why you're fantasizing about this, why you like feeling used, and is this a decision that will affect the rest of your life? Will it hurt or heal your future? Why? How? Ask this 10 times over. Let ideas fester unbiased. Challenge what you think you know or want. Need more elaboration?

    • Nope, you're making perfect sense. I really like what you're saying and I've never considered this approach before. "Let ideas fester unbiased"-- that's good stuff. Thanks!

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  • How old are you? Really?

  • That's pretty common. You want to feel like an on object that all men desire.

  • Don't do things because others do because guys love having sex with bad girls but go into a sincere relationship withthe good once and rrespect them more
    What can u hide if all the boy fuck you
    Ask yourself one question where will your pride be

  • If you want to do it, no one will stop you.

    But once you've offered yourself up like a piece of meat to a pack of dogs, don't you dare ever expect a decent man to respect you as a woman who could be a girlfriend or wife one day.

  • Try 2 first.

  • Your amazing I bet your not real, one question could you imagine ten years later your married to one you’ve had blowbangs with?

  • You ever thought about getting mental help? The thing is all them men
    going use condoms while doing this to you? What happens if word gets
    around to all your friends about this, you know talk does get out there?

  • Having a fantasy is one thing and making that fantasy is entirely another.

    I don't consider you to be normal and I think you need some professional help.

    Stop watching p*rn, it's clearly having an adverse effect on you.

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