My fuck buddy is always the one who decides when we can see each other. How do I turn the tables?

Because he's busy and I'm not. I can only see him on his terms. But I don't like how he has the control over our situation. How do I turn the tables? When I ask when I can see him again he complains that I'm pressuring him...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Give him a dose of hos own medicine, don't try to have sex with him and when he tries tell him you are busy. I personally don't have time for games if a person is supposed to be your fuck buddy and can't even make time to satisfy your needs then I would have cut him off because its not like you are in a relationship and demanding other things so if he can't make time it is because he does not want to or he is spending his time elsewhere. This is why I don't do FWBs you can still have issues with those kind of situations and for what it is worth I will continue to fuck myself.

  • Turn the tables by ignoring him, don't contact him at all. When he comes around begging for sex - refuse. It's the only way to turn the tables

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him you are considering supplementing the fuck buddy experience by adding another person to the rotation. Just say you have more needs than he is able to fulfill at this point and see if he doesn't either get motivated to give you more.

    It comes down to the fact you have shown him he has the ball in his court because he has the ability to turn you down but you don't. But this should turn the tables in your favor. At the worst you two stop for a bit and then he will realize how much he misses it because guys are like that lol

    • i say this deserves mho

    • Thank you :)

  • Deny him the booty until he gives you power. He will give you power pretty soon after that unless he's a player who can get another fuck buddy quickly.

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  • He does not respect you or your services. Cut him off.

  • lay into him, tell him that either he can make time for you when you ask for it or he can take a hike. just reading this makes it completely sound one sided.

    • Yeah I know. I don't like it at all! I feel like I'm the weak looking one here like a dog waiting for it's owner to throw it a bone. He's the one who dictates the day and time we meet and it's irritating. He's extremely busy so I get it but I just want to turn it round so I can dictate. Maybe I need to not be so available and have someone else to go to in the meantime...

    • yah, your best bet is to take charge and tell him "this is how its going to work from now on, etc etc."

  • Tell him you are busy or that you are on tour period... wait if you were on your period I would want sex all day long each day:)

  • When he wants to see you next time tell him you are busy