I prefer we are both in control but I like it when he is gentle and I'm in charge most of the time but him taking over sometimes.
Me 70/30 him
But I'm not into dominant or submissive.
Behavior and honestly I don't see the fetish or why the words are used so loosely an often I accurately.
I like fluidity. Just like sometimes you decide ergs to go sometimes through go and sometimes you decide together but no one Is being controlled or dominated in any of those situations.
The power It's really about whose feeling more creative not more aggressive. in my opinion
The question is target towards people who know, understand and act out dominance and submission in a relationship, books like 50 Shades of grey have created a lot of fans for the "lifestyle" who don't truly understand the concept of dominance and submission. But thank you for your comment and giving another take on the question
My boyfriend is submissive and it really turns me on. It's a personal thing everyone will have different preferences but it just turned out that he's naturally more submissive and I'm more dominant so it worked out pretty well. I don't really like super kinky stuff but I do like to bite and scratch and I orgasm most easily when I'm on top.
I've heard that women are more likely to actually reach orgasm if they are on top
I'd say it's true!
I like a guy who is dominant but can sometimes let me do what I want to do to him. :) Variety is the spice of life.
What types of things do you do to switch things up?
Yeah I thought so to I prefer dominance but I want to take control at least sometimes ;)
@redheadsdoitbetter that is something I don't want to share to everyone. Sorry. @Asker IKR ;)
I was once with dominant, or should I say a woman that tried to be dominant and it was strange. She didn't like what I was trying to do to her, no chokin, no pulling of hair, no slapping, I felt so out of my zone.
The term in femdom or dominatrix. So sorry about that. Did you take her over your knee and try to spank it out of her?
No it wasn't femdom or dominatrix, she just want to be on top and in control. I should of.. :-P
She probably wanted you to show her you could actually take control ;)
I would rather have a girl who is interested in both, because I like to change it up sometimes and be her sex toy.
Mmm a sex toy doesn't scream submission to me but I can be wrong. Its not about the control but the actually pleasure is more catered to you
being dominant is about focusing on the sub and making them enjoy what you do as much as possible, being submissive is about trusting your partner and giving them full unquestioned control over your body. at least that in my opinion
I totally agree I was just wondering what you classified as a sex toy
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like a guy who can be both.
And the majority of time you prefer?
For him to be in control, but I after a while I get the urge to push him back on the bed and take over.
Thank you for answering!
I like when they take initiative and are playful enough to toss me around a bit but hate when they try to take it too fast, rough, hard, etc.
You would be quite challenging exactly where all those zones are. Do you think you'd enjoy that whole package if he turned you on fully?
So basic dominance but no hard core dominance?
Basic dominance sounds about right. I guess my thing is that I like them fluid but leaning more towards dominance
I like dominant men or just vanilla sex. Depends on the guy. I'm not into submissive guys, seems so unmanly tbh
I totally agree I would be able to take the lead once in a while but if he is submissive I don't think I would know what to do
Yup, same. It'd be fun to take the lead every now and then but a guy that actually wants to be dominated would just kill the connection
I like both. I like for him to be dominate but sometimes I like for him to lay back and let me be the dominate one.
Kind of like a treat for him
Dominant for sure! But even i wouldn't mind taking controll some times :)
I'll take charge 9/10 times.
She can have all the fun she wants the other 10% of the time. I think that's something both her and I can be okay with.
Sounds like something the majority of women actually want
What is a man doing in my bed?
Probably a question we should ask you?
Damn, was a greek sculptor. Knew I shouldn't have uploaded that picture.
Yeah it attracts male stalkers and that's probably why they are hiding in your bed
The majority of women prefer dominant.
as seen by the results
Not surprising given the classic male/female dynamic.
I don't like men, I like girls... dominant girls to be exact.
Why?
Dominant girls turn me on.
Of course I prefer my men submissive ;)
Why if I may ask?
Because it makes me feel better that way ;)
I've only had one girlfriend and well she was dominant as she was much more experienced, but I think I could be dominant too if she wanted, but I'd want to be submissive too sometimes
Defiantely dominant ;)
nah i am a strong female and i always was a strong woman in everything i am always in control and in the lead
That's actually interesting women who have a lot of control in their life are more likely to be submissive because its a form of relation to them
Although I like the guy dominant, I try to fight back. It turns me on if you both fight for control , but in the end i prefer him taking the lead.
totally with you there he should kind off earn your submission. Show you he can handle the trust you give him
A dominant assh*le
Tat irony though :P
Lol I think that's where the term bad boy originated from
I don't swing that way, so I'd rather not have a man in my bed at all
(Not a serious post, js)
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