Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Is it bad to give blowjobs everyday?

I love giving BJs to my husband. I'm an amateur :) but everything I heard/read about BJ's isnt' true at all - for example, my mouth/jaw doesn't even hurt even if I do it for 20 minutes, also cum doesn't even taste bad! It just tastes like salt water? It's very mild. So I have no problems swallowing either, and deepthroat isn't that bad!!! Although I can only do it very slowly, and for one second, and I always gag.. Once I vomitted on his penis. Total mood killer. >.< Anyway, my husband and I haven't had sex yet (intercourse) because his penis is too wide and doesn't go in. We tried coconut oil but it didn't help. I have been giving him blowjobs every single night since we started being intimate.. On Saturdays/sundays , we do it twice a day, or sometimes even three or four times a day. We are both virgins (in India, we don't have sex before marriage in our culture). Anyway, the BJ's haven't been as effective lately. It takes a long, long time for him to cum and I have to use my hand to help. So are BJ's every day bad? Will he take it for granted? or will it not feel as pleasurable for him anymore? I know that even western women don't give BJs everyday , and I'm pretty sure most Indian girls never give BJs. How do I say no to blowjobs though? If I say no, he asks why not, then what do I say?
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not bad in any way, and I'm sure he appreciates it. There are no rules for sex between consenting adults. Just do what pleases you and what pleases your partner, and take no notice of what other women do or don't do.
    I hope he's returning the favour, and eating you, fingering you, etc. He should be interested in you sexual needs too.

    Your problem with penetration is much more common in India, than it is in western society. It's something like 30%-40% of Indian marriages that are still unconsummated at 2 years after the wedding. Get some medical help for your condition.

    There are doctors that specialize in this sort of thing.
    80% of western women would accept a penis 8" long and about 5.5" girth, with only a small amount of practice. I think the problem in India is more of a cultural one than a physical one, but that's only my opinion. If you're told from a young age that sex is wrong and immoral, it can be hard to change and suddenly accept it.

  • I feel like it's vital that you work to get him fully inside you. I hope you're on birth control because if you're that tight, a condom might just slip off. Get on top after having an orgasm from him or yourself. Just persist working it in and it will fit. Use a good water based lube. I'm not sure what available in India but Astroglide is great here in the US. When you have children something much, much larger comes out so it'll fit. It just takes determination. Once you've had intercourse, I predict that will become you favored form of sex. He's still gonna love the blow jobs. Also work on staying down longer. Use your toothbrush on the back of your tongue to gradually reduce your gag reflex. That said, it does feel amazing to feel a woman's throat spasm around a cock.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No, but we can get used to anything and kind of desensitized to it after a while. That may be why it's taking him longer to cum. He's getting regular release now, so that happens.

    "How do I say no to blowjobs though? If I say no, he asks why not, then what do I say?"

    Rather than say no, why not just suggest something else? You don't have to say no to BJ's, but don't you want to spice it up a bit, try other things, and get some pleasure too? He can go down on you, finger you, etc. Also, try having sex again. There's lots of hot and fun positions to check out. Get water-based lube and see if that works. You just need to relax and be wet enough down there. If a baby can fit through, you can bet a penis will too.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

If you had the power to snap your fingers and make something happen instantly what would it be?
Do men like being woken up with a blowjob in the morning?
HERPES! Did I do the right thing?
Why are men sexually insatiable?

What Girls & Guys Said

1 15

  • I do it

  • I don't think it's entirely bad to give blow jobs everyday, however you get used to something over and over again it doesn't have the same effect. Also just doing that is more of the problem. I have never heard of a dick being too wide. Everyone is different put the vagina can expand and you be amazed the size and girth of things women can fit in there. I think you should do more sexual foreplay (like fingering) and lots of lube and take your time putting his dick in so you can have intercourse.

  • It's ok every day if your husband likes it.
    You can certainly mix a hand job with a blow job.
    Ask him what he likes.
    Keep working on having sex., that will take the pressure off of blowing him.
    He will fit inside you, you just have to relax, use lube, and go slow.
    Have him press against your opening, and he should slide in after a few minutes.

  • Nope it's not bad at all

  • Oral sex is an important part of a relationship, especially if you cannot have sex.
    I experienced similar with my girlfriend. She wasn't able to do penetration and didn't enjoy receiving oral so I blowjobs are the best way for us to be intimate. She usually wakes me up with oral and when she's horny I suggest a blowjob to calm her down. It's a really great solution for us. I think that more couples should try it.

  • I really envy your husband. He's one damn lucky bastard.

    You can tell it as a quote to your husband.

  • A woman can never give too many blow jobs. :-)
    You are also blessed to have a husband who has a large and especially wide penis. Other women dream of that. Persist with attempts to have intercourse. Use proper sexual lube and go slowly. Your vagina will stretch to let a baby out, so it will have no difficulty stretching to allow a penis in.
    When it happens, it will blow your mind.

  • Bah are fine and healthy for both of you. I'm more worried about no intercourse. Try water based lubricant. And maybe try a finger or two inside you to help open your vagina. And I hope you are getting orgasm s too.

  • How can it be premarital sex if he's your husband?

    And no, its not bad, not for him anyway.

  • Nope... give em 10x a day.. I know i would get them as much as possible lol... wtf not.

  • Oh wow.
    Sounds so sexy...
    U r husband is a lucky guy
    I wish i was ur husband...
    And no its not bad if both of u love that.

    And ha yaar kaas tumhari tarah meri vi koi gf hoti lol

  • No es malo.

  • Just work the pussy a bit more really slow then go to a blow job. Eventually it will happen. I personally like oral better than intercourse so I certainly would not complain.

  • No reason to say no. Presently it is all he has until intercourse begins.
    It is good to include hand stroking with a BJ.
    If he needs an extra push to come, finger him anally with your palm cupping his testicles. Shallow fingering will add stimulation. Deeper will be very exciting if he is agreeable to it.
    2 and later 3 - fingering your vagina (him, or you masturbating) with plenty of lotion will help prepare it for intercourse.

    You seem very thoughtful and considerate.

  • I need to marry a girls like that

  • Lucky guy! Go for it!

Latest Questions

Guys do you think your smooth when you look at our boobs? And girls how often do you see guys looking at your boobs?
Did I sleep with too many guys?
Does sex actually feel different without a condom?
As a man, do you like giving anal? As a woman, do you like getting anal? How was your first anal experience? How did it feel?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Is it bad to give blowjobs everyday?