This is a guy that will get you pregnant some way of another, sooner or later.
Of course once or twice might be a mistake but there's no better FEEL than to be sucked/hoovered completely dry, then a kiss goodbye on the head.
BUT
to continue to do it against wishes = you are his toilet
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his love for this feeling is more important than his love for you
When you continue to this service after he breaks the rules = the rules mean nothing.
Wouldn't you think there's a million guys out there that would love this treatment?
Some of which would respect you enough to follow the rules? ... even some that love the full treatment like him would wait until someday you might change your mind.
All this advice is based upon the assumption you are "legal" age and not condoning this pleasure that often ends in your life as serving fries out a window instead of reaching your academic potential/career.
Certainly you might try older, more mature guys but never, ever stop defenses against STDs and pregnancy.4 7 0 0Perfectly said
No need for me to reply - this is perfect.
Hear this man out. Tell him no more blowjobs, or if he cums in your mouth again, he has to drink your piss. We know u really like him and all. But you shouldn't do something you dont like.
oh my god. what is it with this site and paragraphs?
but no, he can definitely tell when he is about to finish. You should be able to tell as well, by the way. It gets a little stiffer right before. When that happens, pull out and stroke it.
He's thinking that if he does it enough, you will get used to it and eventually learn to like it. And technically, it isn't 'disrespect,' but it is rape, fyi..1 1 0 0
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he is doing it on purpose because he knows that even though you dont like it you'll keep giving him blowjobs anyway. all of my exes and my current boyfriend can feel when theyre about to cum and have the control to pull out of my mouth or say something so i dont believe for one second he accidentally came in your mouth 8 times especially as he's shown he has the ability to control himself and finish on your face instead. dump the guy he doesn't respect how you feel, he just cares about himself
2 1 0 0If he is blatantly going against your request and finishing in your mouth, then it is a huge form of disrespect.
I would stop giving him BJs and consider ending the relationship because I would feel so disrespected
Maybe when he cums in your mouth again, you can spit it back out right there and emphasize that you don't like it
Guys know when they are about to cum. Don't let him tell you otherwise3 2 0 0what islands7 says:
"to continue to do it against wishes = you are his toilet
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his love for this feeling is more important than his love for you"
That's what you are.. a dumpster for his cum. This guy does not love or respect you. You need to dump him.4 1 0 0
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10 10he's doing it on purpose. Next time bite him and say ooops lol.
Usually u can tell if a guys about to cum just watch for the signs n finish him off with a handjob2 2 0 0no biting, that's jus mean
@SIR_LICKS_ALOTT It's no more mean than repeatedly violating her sexual space. I would dump him before it gets there, but I understand the sentiment and don't totally disagree with the suggestion
I know I was joking. No but her guy is obviously being an asshole maybe she should reduce it down to only hand jobs till he learns his lesson. Or tell him to fuck off
Well, it's not disrespectful. Male orgasms are extremely powerful, almost crippling, so it'd be hard to pull out and sense when it's coming. I personally believe what he did was a genuine accident, but it's still wrong. Here's a tip. When the blowjob starts to reach the end, just finish him off with passionate licks to the shaft so he doesn't cum in your mouth. He would on your face, but at least it's better.
0 0 5 2If you cannot respect your partner's wishes and not cum on her mouth, then you need to NOT BE HAVING SEX, violating a woman's space and instead focus on learning some control all by your lonesome. Until you master that, it is not cool for you to be with a woman. It is a sign of a lack of self-control and discipline, which are necessary for you to be a good lover. I've never heard of a guy not being able to know when he's going to cum, and any self respecting man would honor a woman's wishes Her instincts are not wrong. She senses he is lying to her. Her intuition is spot on
Maybe you should start to lose track of your teeth a lil...
2 1 0 0he doesn't respect what you want
1 1 0 0Yep he's being an ass.
1 2 0 0He knows when he is going to cum.
And you should know the signs too.
He is disrespecting your wishes.
I would not blow him for a week at least if he cannot control himself.
He will quickly learn, or go without.0 0 0 0I have a suggestion, don't put your mouth near it!
4 0 0 1What the do you think you're doing giving BJs if you're not prepared to accept what comes (pun intended) as a result of them? Of course he knows he's about to finish. He also knows that if he's at the critical moment and stops suddenly, he might not get there and YOU will have several more minutes work to build him back up to that point.
You told him you'll give him BJs whenever he wants. This is what a BJ is.0 0 1 1He just doesn't understand no means no. You dont enjoy it. Period.
0 0 0 0Yea for sure he is. Maybe use a bit of teeth on him see what he thinks of it?
0 0 0 0i would never do that beyond ur wishes , he's a jack ass... threaten to end the relationship if he does that shit again no "and" "buts" or second guessing it , over!
3 1 0 0next time he wants a blowjob, open your blouse, push your tits together and tell him to tit fuck you. let him know that is as close as his dick will get to your mouth unless he smartens up.
0 0 0 0time to stop sucking him off suck him... but way before he finishes, jack him off instead.. tell him that for being a fucking dick and cuming in you mouth. Or get rid of him..
0 0 0 0He can tell when he's going to cum. He's not doing what you ask of him. Stop sucking him off and see what happens.
0 1 0 0It's probably just a major turn on for him but you've told him to stop so it isn't right that he continues. Just tell him in a serious tone that you don't want him cumming in your mouth
0 1 0 0Ich glaube nicht, dass das passieren würde. Allerdings, wenn Sie es wollen, aber Sie wissen, dass diese Dinge haben hunderte.
0 0 0 0You don't like it, but, why don't you like it. Nowhere in there does it say WHY you don't like him doing it
0 0 0 0Don't tell me the answer, tell him. I don't need to know, since I'm not your boyfriend.
He is using you for sex. He just wants you for sex. I remember putting up with that crap at your age. Don't do it.
2 1 0 0Also- I married him! (Divorced now) it never changed. You are there for sex to him. You exist for sex to him. Your feelings don't matter to him. Only his feelings and his wants. I doubt this stops only at sex. I am angry for you.
Tell him your pregnant he'll soon stop lol. He's only 17 he'll have a heart attack go and google it and panic that he can't find the right information
4 1 0 0Lmao!! Omg yea do this thats too funny
he is being disrespectful. maybe you should stop giving him a blowjob for a while as a punishment
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