Size queens? What about size kings?

[Anonymous]

I realize that "size queens" are probably more common than size kings, but it does not subtract from the fact that size kings do exist. I think of a size king as a guy who does not have interest in a girl if she doesn't have a big butt or big boobs. On this site, I've noticed more guys who are okay with girls who might be flat in both departments, but in the real world, I've encountered many guys who are not sexually attracted to women who don't have curves up top or down below. On bodybuilding. com, you'll especially notice that guys will say a girl isn't attractive if she doesn't have "dat ass" or "dem teddies" and shit like that. Pictures of girls will run their course through the internet and guys will say "wow she has no boobs" or "she has no ass, wouldn't smash." A few weeks ago a girl posted a pic of her body and asked if she was fat (she was slim actually) and a guy said she looked okay but "where r ur boobs u look like a tranny." Bottom line, size queens AND size kings exist. while both hurt the self esteem of the other sex, let's not pretend ONLY women do this. Guys do it too. And preferences are okay! Rejecting anyone solely because of size is shallow, but it is totally natural and okay to prefer your partner to look a certain way or have certain things a certain size. Let's not put people down for either wanting a larger penis or a larger bust size. Even though it makes us insecure.

[disobey]

I think it's because of the insecurities of the people who are being picky on a phsical level. I used to have shallow standards, not necessarily going for junk in the trunk, but rather, going for slender, petite girls with perfect proportions. I felt that if i was truly attractve, i should be able to pull the type of girl that i felt i could show off in public, or brag to my friends about. If other people thought my girlfriend was hot, i would feel vindicated. What i was doing in reality, was limiting my options severely, and making sure that i would never have a ulfilling relationship. People do funny things in their search for identity. We mimick what we see when we don't yet have our own sexual personality.

I think the size king, or queen adopts that standard that society tells them is desirable and uses it as part of their personality, something about them that they feel is envied by the their peers. I've dated several size queens, without even knowing that they were. Though i had no problems bringing them to orgasm with pentration, they still took off and/or cheated. One of them is currently dating a guy who can't even fit his entire penis in her, and she says she likes the feeling of having a bruised cervix and hobbling around in pain. I don't understand how multiple orgasms weren't as good as pain, but to each their own.

Many shallow people are like that because they are unhappy with themselves, and want to escape the idea that they, themselves don't measure up in some way. Maybe they don't feel accomplished in any way, or they have daddy issues. Many of the size queens I've known have had poor relationships with their fathers. A lot of them have battled with drug addiction. I have a soft spot for them, similar to how you would feel about a homeless person sleeping in the cold, if you, yourself have been homeless.

[Red_Dragon]

Oh bodybuilding. com is a bad site for shit like that. I wouldn't get on there if I were you. Don't worry about them.

I agree with you. There are a lot of guys who want that "perfect", hour glass shaped, girl. They need ass, tits, and a tiny waist. Media plays a very vital role in this. Some other parts of the world aren't like that (I assume you are American).

As far as preferences I really don't want to get into that, because I know my view on that is different than a lot of people's view on it. I'll leave all that alone I guess.

Me personally I don't care about all that. Sure I care about attraction, but I'm so open and like a wide variety. Sometimes I like girls with flat butts much better than the hour glass chicks. I get sick and tired of seeing IG and Twitter thots thinking they are the shit because they have a hour glass shape. Makes me think if I was a celeb I wouldn't even want them. They all look the same. Same exact hour glass. I don't know sometimes a hour glass shape is kind of gross to me. It all depends. If I were a celeb I'd get tired of hour glass hoes quickly.

[Asker]

I see it in other places, but yeah, the body building people seem even worse. i agree with you too. I think that Instagram has led to this culture of thinking that the ideal woman is almost impossible to look like. Most of those IG models are photoshopped anyway.

[Red_Dragon]

Those people on body building. com are rather shallow. A good number seem to be anyway. Yeah that's true, or they get implants and say everything is real.

[Asker]

So true. Thanks for commenting.

[Red_Dragon]

You're welcome :)

[Anonymous]

It's only on here I've seen guys say they don't mind girls with no breasts or ass. Every one of my guy friends goes crazy over ass and tits and barely look at other girls apart from when they point out her lack of ass and tits lol.
There's a reason girls go to the extremes of surgery or feel depressed and not like a real woman when they are flat chested or have no ass.
At the same time, tons of these guys will chase tits and ass then end up marrying a girl with none. I think males and females both have their fantasies and will notice "perfect" bodies and chase perfect bodies, but when it comes down to it, most people in the world don't marry there dream man/woman in the looks department and they don't even think about it because the person is so awesome and their body although not perfect is still sexy.

[BuchitaBuchys]

This is so true.

[Blake0048]

Her face and having a body that isn't fat and gross is 1000x more important than her tits or ass. Im an ass guy and nice tots are cool (nice as in BB-D) Im not into real big boobs because they sag. That being said a girl can easily be a 10 and be flat chested (sasha grey) women put waaaay too much emphasis on boobs. However this isn't a good comparison (size of boobs versus size of dick) because a mans penis size doesn't only affect his perceived attractiveness but it limits his ability to give the woman he loves an orgasm which is far more psychologically damaging than a woman not having big boobs. It us directly correlated with the pleasure felt during intercourse.

[indy7]

Bravo. An intelligent post. Few and far between it seems. I agree. They do exist. It's ok to have preferences, but not ok to blast someone for not having the features one prefers.

[playdates]

I like this post as well. *claps*

[serp777]

Ironing board girls aren't very attractive to be honest. I mean girls with big boobs are evolutionarily more attractive since it conveys that the female will be able to provide ample milk for the baby. And a big ass usually means wide hips which means it will be easier for the girl to give birth.

It would be like if a guy had a tiny dick and manboobs

[Asker]

Like I said, preferences are okay... but don't call a girl a size queen if she doesn't want your 4" dick. But just to correct you- women with small breasts provide as much milk as women with big breasts. The reason big asses are attractive is because it indicates high estrogen. And- are you only attracted to women with both big boobs and a big ass, or just one or the other?

[serp777]

But what benefits does extra high levels of estrogen give? And also larger boobs store more milk so you breast feed less, even though the rate of production is the same. But honestly, I would be attracted to girls who have average boobs/ ass, but have a nice face.

[serp777]

Obviously a girl isn't a size queen though if a 4 inch isn't enough for her. That just means she's normal. If a girl thought my 8x6 wasn't enough for her though, then I would probably think she was a size queen.

[TrackisLife]

Ariana Grande is extremely skinny, but i would smash, she is so hot. And i am attracted to thick girls, she booted out my crush on Nicki Minaj.

[Asker]

right. If a girl has the face of an angel guys will say they don't care that she has no T&A. lol.

[TrackisLife]

but it kinda really depends on what a guy is attracted to, i never thought i would be attracted to Ariana Grande because she was flat, but i think Ariana is pretty all over even tho she has no body, why is she so hot? Big Sean is so lucky

[chocolatedragon]

You can't compare a girl liking a big dick to a guy preferring large breats and fat ass. Boobs and ass are secondary sex characteristics while the dick is a primary. You could make a comparison with guys prefering tight girls tho. And there are no that many flat chested girls either they make up a small percentage of the population. When a guy is looking to smash or looking at personality, he can usually overlook some details.

[Asker]

I agree with you actually. I've been saying for a while that a small dick = loose girl. But they are comparable when you see guys saying they only want to date girls with big boobs and girls saying they only want to date guys with big dicks. They're both shallow and overly concerned with size

[chocolatedragon]

I've never met a girl who said that lol. Maybe they keep it on the down low or share it only with their gfs lol. And as for guys, they can say they would rather date big titty and squat ass girls, but competition is fierce and most guys end up dating girls with average body parts. Only hot guys, rich guys, and lucky guys can be true to their words and easily date girls with the body parts that they most seek. Most of us end up dating average girls because we're average guys too lol. Although an average girl can get always get a nice ass through squats :p there's still hope lol

[chocolatedragon]

I'm going off anon. I thought you'd have taken my criticism immaturely, but you seem cool.

[Asker]

lol nah you're fine. I agree with you in a way. Girls also might say they want a guy with a 8 inch dick but obviously they have no way of knowing how big a guy is until it's "too late" and they don't break up with guys over their size. Yet, plenty of guys talk shit about "Size queens." I guess the same is true for guys but no one gives them flak for that.

[chocolatedragon]

I think it's because that guys in general put more pride in their dicks than girls will ever put on their boobs or ass. To girls, boobs and ass are their body parts and that many appreciate as curves, but to many guys, their dicks are their pride and joy. So when a girl comes up claiming a preference for a larger size, it really affects some males.

[Asker]

It affects females pretty bad too, hence plastic surgery. But I do agree that males put more pride into it. I've seen a couple girls on here saying their guy got mad when he asked her what she thought of his dick and she said it was fine. Apparently they wanted to hear that they have the Supreme Almighty Dick or some shit

[chocolatedragon]

Your average girl isn't trying to get larger tits through surgery. It's usually underrated actresses, celebs, rich people with low self esteem, separated women trying to win back their husbands... but I see your point. And yes, guys love getting their dicks complimented lol. I care more about my performance than what she thinks about my dick lol.

[Asker]

Yeah. Performance is more important than penis size!

[Erwen]

Yeah, but if she can't feel how are you going to perform? :)

[Johnnytopside]

Ok I'll be fair and say they probably exist but I have never heard any guy in my life call himself a size king or just heard that term

[RealDedication]

If a her does not like the size of her boobs or butt, she can shange their size with implants, if a guy does not like the size of his penis, what in the fuck can he do about it?

It is offensive you even have to ask this question, because women can at least fix the things us men care about (boobs, butts, even certain facial features like big nose), while it is near impossible for men to change the things women care about (ex. height, penis size, eye color, no surgery or pill can change these features currently) so many of us are forced to suck it up our whole lives with no possibility of becoming the image of sexual attraction that so many women fantasize about.

[Asker]

the fuck? who says women should go under the knife to please men? for a lot of women this isn't even an option. never mind the fact that tons of guys hate implants, and facial plastic surgery looks like shit most of the time. and men can get facial plastic surgery as well.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_enlargement
by the way penis enlargement can be done.

[Asker]

bottom line is that NO ONE should be pressured to change their bodies.

[FootfetishistBoy]

True, thats why I redpect size queens, as long as they reject me or other men with respect.

[COCOCHANEL]

i am a face princess

[Ihav2fart]

As long as a girl looks proportional and healthy I could care less.

[Kshppatel]

Lol don't take bodybuilding. com seriously.

[justaregularguyy]

I am certainly not a size king. I just want a girl I find cute and nice personality wise

[grahamcracka]

I guess girls that have more, it shows through clothes better but whatever I can get a good grip on is perfect. (I have small hands :/ )

[koko124]

Big booty girls are fun to fuck, pretty-faced flat girls are fun to date.

[Asker]

Girls with big butts can be fun to date...

[koko124]

Well, if you like dating them, good for you :)

[Horsemanuk]

If its such a thing maybe i'm a size king, i'm generally arracted to big boobs and big bums

[Kaylee2023]

I’ll give a different definition to size kings. I’m prefer women who have a larger than average vaginal canal. Big pussies are incredible.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, a big boobed, small butted girl to me would be awesome but, honestly, I don't care. At this point, it's just a bonus to me. I'm 25

[Anonymous]

I am happy with what ever my partner has, but my personal preference is and always has been smaller then larger. Male or female.