WHY WHY WHY stop sexualizing everything?

[Anonymous]

I Have the same body type at Niykee Heaton, Except she's just tanner lol but why is girls suddenly attracted to the whole hourglass image and big butts? It kinda weirded me out bcs I've just started wearing things that kind hug my shape and I like the way it looks but it attracts the wrong attention, I just want to look professional, I can't even do that bcs it looks like im trying to be sexy when im really just dressing for my body type. and I know, well go back to wearing looser things, I don't want to I've found it more comfortable with clothes that are acutally for petite girs with small chest and bigger butts

[ImaSloth]

Well... I REALLY love curves and am an ass lover :P I try to not get excited and stare at girls, because being in a wheelchair for 13 years I've also been stared at, a lot, I also have surprisingly been stared at by girls who are curious how a good looking, confident guy like me has such shit luck, but I also get that exposed feeling of eyes looking at me, but I understand I am a target for dominant girls.. And turn that into a good feeling (the idea of being defenseless against a dominant girl is SUCH a turn on for me)

[ljrobert]

Well... This is a hard one. Ask someone who knows fashion really well, you're bound to get some help for this issue. At worst, you can just dress sexy and decide the rest of the world can fuck off

[MaskofInsanity]

I'm confused. Wearing tight clothes reveals all your curves, and it makes you feel good, but you don't want others to think you look good? If you dress sexy, you'll look sexy...

[Asker]

Lol no I do feel good but im more kept to myself and don't like the attention however I do like the way it suits my body but men and some women seem to sexualize it, i wore a pair of jeans for an example a few girls were like damn you're a thick white girl, i wish i had that, its flattering but really i don't like being approached like that.

[MaskofInsanity]

I guess the only way to avoid the attention is to stop dressing that way?

[Asker]

lol so sad );

[MaskofInsanity]

Ahh well

[been_waiting]

The female figure has ALWAYS been sexualized. This isn't new.

[Mesonfielde]

Western culture is inherently sexist, so it is to be expected. I'd just wear the looser clothing.

[Falthzel]

Life is all about sex, live with it.

[Petch_from_texas]

it really isn't

[Falthzel]

Yes, it is. We´re born for that. All in life is sex. Not necessary perverse sex, but our biological goal is to reproduce as much and as productive as possible, so everything we do is related to sex.

[Mesonfielde]

I would have said "The primary purpose of biological life is reproduction", but okay. This is however still a cultural question, not a sexual one.

[Falthzel]

Sex, sex, sex xD

[Anonymous]

If you are dressing for your body type, then you are dressing sexy, even if you don't mean to. All animals including humans exist, in order to reproduce, so it isn't like people can just turn off their sex drives at will. They might be able to modify their actions, but they are still going to get aroused from seeing sexy people. If that is your biggest problem you have a blessed life. Just dress in clothes that don't suit you, such as what a man might wear, and it will likely hide your figure.

[Asker]

well that's sad lol