When grinding on a girl, where should I put my hands?

[Mabar]

Homecoming was yesterday for me, and I got the lovely opportunity to grind with my girlfriend for the first time at the dance. I was rather nervous about asking her, but once I got behind her we both settled down a lot (This is the first relationship we have been in for both of us, so this was her first time grinding too) However after the first couple of minutes of just having my hands on her hips I had no idea if she liked them there, or if she wanted me to put them around her stomach, or her thighs or anything I had no idea. This question is directed at girls, but for experienced guys too where should I put my when grinding on her from behind?

[Prettygurl12]

Depends.

Hips is the standard placement.
You could reach around her front and put your hand on her opposite hip and the other on her opposite shoulder so you're holding her to you.
You could put your hands on the inside of her thighs... but that's generally getting too raunchy.
You could hold her hands.
You could put her hands up around your neck and then hold her against you by her stomach/rib cage region.

My boyfriend and I used to get really into it at school dances. We were naughty. We had hands everywhere. Inappropriate or not. Good times at HS dances lol. We're old now so we don't get to dance like that anymore. :p

[LovelyDreamer]

The best option would be to ask her, because everyone has different preferences. But I'd say:

if you want it to be sexy: hips

if you want it to be sweet: around stomach

not thighs... like ever...

[aamy811]

On her hips or waist, or like hug her tummy if it's slower

[Manbot]

Boobs. ლ (ಠ益ಠლ)