1. FOREPLAY, lots of it. Go until she's practically soaked and begging for you, then go 15 minutes more. Ideas can be to finger or eat her out.
2. Make sure she's completely relaxed and in the mood (if 1. is done right, this is likely going to happen). IF she's not, she'll tense her pelvic muscles, and this can make her too tight (which can hurt her).
3. LUBE! Even if she's dripping wet, use lube. Use as much as you think is needed, then some more. This because there's no guarantee the entire vagina is lubed, so better safe than sorry.
4. Go slowly. Do i need to explain why?
5. Pick a position where she can take some controll. Cowgirl is in fact recomended because SHE controlls the pace, and SHE controlls when, how fast, at what angle etc he enters her. This can help a lot when it coms to 2.
6. Nice guys finish last. This is more of a tip really. Getting her off first (during foreplay for example) can help, since it will generally give her a better experience, and will remove any worry of her not being able to come.
You might also want to toy with her using a penetrating toy like a dildo, this to make her used to the sensation of being penetrated (so that won't take her off guard and make her tense up).
Just a few tips. Girls, anything i missed?
Foreplay don't forget about it. Also use lubricant.
Go slow, very slow. And do whatever she says, if she says stop, stop, if she says slow then go slower.
I would also kiss her a lot while go inside, it will make it more intimate and she'll see that you care.
Enjoy!
It doesn't hurt as much as you'd expect. You could do a lot of foreplay and use a lubricated condom but really she will never remember how it felt after that but if you make it special she'll remember that. But she might bleed a little after but that's just her cherry popping.(it doesn't always happen)
Go very slow and focus on foreplay. It didn't hurt for me my first time because I was very ready and sexually excited. It hurts for women a lot because they tense up, get nervous, and often try to go straight to sex before they're aroused enough. Take your time getting her there and then go slow.
Well, she'll relax more if you spent a lot of time stimulating her, specially with oral; And do not keep asking if she's ready. And when I mean a lot of time, I dont mean 10 min. I mean almost a hour, ok?
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