Girls would you be mad if your boyfriend stuck his dick in your vagina while you sleep?

I have this fantasy that lets say that I have a girlfriend and we are sexually active and one night we are sleeping together (she is asleep and on birth control) and I stick my dick in her vagina or anal hole and just do it really gently without waking her. This is really hot and would love to do this someday! Would you be mad if you ever found out about it? Would you be mad? How would you feel waking up in the middle of the night to a dick up your vagina?
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Oh wow thanks for all the answers! I have been reading them all. Okay then it's rape if I surprise a girl with it. I'll have to talk about it with the girl before I do it.
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  • I would honestly freak out and there is no way I would stay asleep. If someone would put a blanket over me while I was asleep. I will jump and be fully awake. It has taken me years to control that reaction. Now, I can just slightly roll over and pretend I am still asleep till' they leave, then It would take me a long time to fall back asleep. My boyfriend wants to fuck me awake. But I'd have to be passed out drunk for that and I would honestly be ok with trying it. But of course I would wake up easily... I've slid down on him while he was napping, because it was a fantasy of his. You would need to talk about it first and I don't think it's possible to not wake them up...

    • She could pretend she was asleep that would work but I'd have to talk to her about it first I guess.

  • I would honestly punch my husband in the face. Its not my husbands fantasy, he has no interest, but I told him that rubbing my legs sexually, and like very gently grinding against my butt and kissing my next to wake me up for sex is okay, but if I ever woke up and he wants already penetrating me I would feel extremely violated and betrayed.

    Some women like it though. It's something you would need to talk to a girl about first.

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  • That's definitely something you need the go ahead for. I personally would consider that rape.

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  • Hahaha. Don't do that unless (1) you agreed on it beforehand, (2) she already did something like it to you and you didn't feel like it was tantamount to rape, or (3) she's otherwise as sexually non-normative as you are. I'm guessing she's a girl about the age your profile says you are with typical sexual attitudes? If that's the case, seriously, don't do it.

  • That's kinda rape, dude...

    If you want to make that happen, be sure you clear your fantasy with her prior to your adventures. If she's agreeable to it, then you're fine.

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  • It's not rape, it's your partner. I have been woken up by my partner being sexually active on me while I'm asleep. Nothing wrong with that. I've done it to him too. It's a turn on for both of us.

    • This is the best answer.

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  • Sorry, but, what's the thrill of that? Waking her up with oral in one thing, having sex with her without her permission or participation at any point is another. I'd be slightly disturbed. .. cause hell, you're just... using her like a toy.

    • It's just a sexual fantasy that I have.

    • I think you should only do that if you've asked her and she let you do it. Otherwise, that's pretty much rape... you don't want to risk your relationship like that ^^ try to ask her.

    • And if you decide to do it without her knowledge, anyway, I can ASSURE YOU that if your dick is any bigger than a pinky, she WILL wake up.

  • My boyfriends does that kind of stuff. It only really makes me mad when he leaves a mess

  • I would like it, honestly. I had fantasies like that, so I must be the weird girl here. Although, it is rape-ish. But if we were together and agreed about it, I'd be totally down.

  • That is rape. Talk to your girlfriend first about it and she could get into the idea... possibly. But seriously, respect her body and talk about it first.

  • I don't know how I'd react so I wouldn't want him to do that. It might be great but it might be traumatic to wake up like that. If he wants to fuck me he can wake me up and I'll be into it.

  • Although I would find her aggression very cool (if I wasn't sick as hell) on me...
    most gals refuse to consider this as OK,
    especially those that have been raped...
    (you'd be surprised at how many beauties get raped b/c of their attraction)

    Seems like if married and
    precautions are / are not taken depending on child planning agreement
    all should be OK to wake to physical loving?
    Sigh, I'm a guy so...

  • If my partner would want to have sex with me and wake me up with his penis trying to get inside my vagina.. yeah that's hot! I love that :D Being woken up like that is goooooood.

  • can't really speak for all other girls but its actually always been a fantasy of mine, it reminds me of rape role play I guess

    • My girlfriend loves it too

  • I would be angry, yes. I don't think that's okay.

  • it depends on how long weve been together and how good our sex is, eat her out first lol nothing feels better than waking up to a wet warm tongue down there.

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  • That's really rape-y. No, I would not like that at all.

  • OMG. This question really cracks me up, I don't think I could give a straight answer. Seriously, I am constantly amazed by the type of questions on GaG.

  • I would only be okay with that if he asked permission to do so. If he never discussed it with me yes, I would be mad.

  • "Hey, sweetie, can I by any chance stick my dong in your schnitz when you're asleep sometime?"

  • Tell her first this is your fantasy, but don't tell her the night you will do it. Just ask if that would be ok for you to do one time. Pull the birthday card and ask to try it on your birthday or something like that.

  • My boyfriends done it. I wake up confused because I don't remember reacting 😧

  • I'm not sure how you would get it in if she's not aroused.

  • would i be mad if he raped me? yes.

  • I would never do that. I might politely and gently wake her and initiate sex, but never while she's sleeping.

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