My girl wants me to treat her like a slut in the bed... is it normal?

[Anonymous]

my girl is realy sweet and careing person we are deeaply in love with each other , our sex life is great we done some kinky stuff we like and we like to experiment also... im a kind of guy who wil never hit a girl or do somthing that wil harm her... so we ware talking about sex and she told me that she would like me to grab her like im going to rape her then throw her on bed and hold her tight and force myself on her , and also to slap her face while fucking and spit on her face and in mouth calling her drty slut and other bad things... is it normal? it dosent fit with her personality... coud it be that someone allready done that to her against her will and she is now missing it ? could it be psihological problem?

[cobrar97]

First... it's great that she is able to communicate with you like this. So many nice-girls won't communicate to their partner. You know her better than anyone. Does she have mental issues otherwise. If not, then that's no anything to worry about. Maybe this is just what she likes or wants to try. NEVER be concerned with her past relationships, that's just asking for bad feelings to be created. Don't even ask about it.
Other than the spitting on her, I wouldn't have a problem doing any of that IF that's what she's asking you to do. I'm not one that enjoys spitting on someone. If there's anything that you are uncomfortable doing or think would be a turn-off to you... tell her that... as she's not going to want to do anything that's counter-productive to getting excited. Everything else would be worth a shot... see what happens.
If she's a good girl and you love her, you should want to please her. Everyone likes different things. I personally think everything is find and that you have nothing to be concerned with at all.
My girl enjoys being forced onto the bed and help down forcefully sometimes. Not every time though... just as something different. So nothing unusual to me.

[Chappie020]

its just her fetish.. give her that if you love her. :)!

[Anonymous]

Yes totally normal. We all go through this at some stage or another. We want a man to be dominate and totally fuck our brains out like they do in p*rn movies. We all secretly crave this at some point in a relationship. It's safe to do in a relationship because we know that our man loves us and won't really do anything too bad to hurt us. I think your girlfriend sounds like a great person who is really comfortable telling you what she wants. That in turn makes you a great boyfriend because she knows that she can be open with you.

[ChulaLoca]

Lmao... ok. As a female i understand. Im 'sweet', 'nice', and general 'good girl' but im a freak in the bed. I like and want all that minus the spittig unless it's for lube.
She was just being honest which means she trusts you so do as much as you're comfortable with.
Remember its consensual sex. Use a safe word if u like. Just do it a little at a time... i promise you'll enjoy it ;)

[GnarlyQuinn]

Yes, it is normal. You are her partner who she loves and trusts, and you are both in total control of the fantasy. It's normal and healthy. She feels safe enough to act out her fantasies with you.

Women with traumatic pasts typically do not talk about it or re-enact in this way. She is probably just an imaginative and horny girl.

[Weirdstuff]

Most women like their men to be dominant in bed. So if you don't have a problem with doing that, just keep doing it :D

[AnnabelLee]

If she asked for it, it turns her on. I am the same as her. She likes to be dominated. Just do it and if she says "no, stop" then do!

[justme_16]

I like a little talking dirty, but not to that extreme. But its normal some people are kinkyer than others

[Klaatu51]

i believe most girls like that

[unicornsandglitter]

yea its normal.

[abundantlyrich]

Hmm no... The rape fetish sounds disturbing. Has she had a history of abuse under her belt?

[xxxSophiexxx]

It is normal. I'm the same.

[TonyRyan]

My lady loves the same stuff. It's perfectly normal.

[aruragoddessoflight]

To be honest, I'm like that, and I'm a girl. I don't know if she "gets off" from the other things that you guys do, but some girls like to be dominated. Just if you do decide to do it talk about it with her and create a safe word she can use. Second know your own strength, you don't want to leave bruises on her and make people question what happened, be aggressive but also be gentile. So all in all use a safe word and know your own strength.

One other thing, try blindfolding her and tying her hands up if you are going to go with the rape thing. even if you guys want to try something new, try the blindfolding thing and feel every inch of her body; if you don't know already; and have her do the same to you. it will bring you guys closer to each other.