What do I do? My sister loves me. Too much. Please help?

Im 22 and i have a 19 yo sister. My relationship with my sister was always very 'intimate'. We were very close since young because we only had each other. She would ask me for relationship/sexual advise and i always help her. She would always say she would stop dating guys because she wanted to marry me. :D We are very open to each other and would fool around and make sexual comments. Things were all fine. HOWEVER, a few days ago, I wanted to surprise her with a random gift and walked into her room, and saw her masturbating. I thought she didn't see me and I didn't want to disturb her so i walked out quietly. Turns out she knew i went in and called me to join her. Because we were so open to each other, i thought she was joking. But she was serious about it. She walked out half naked and pulled me into her room asking me to join her, again. I'm like 'wtf, im your brother, i can't do that!' and i just left. We didn't talk anymore that day. The following day, when i thought things were back to normal, i thought i should apologize for disturbing her. What happened shocked me. She jumped on me and kissed me intensely on the lips and said she's very horny and wanted to have sex with me. Of course i rejected her, because that's just wrong. These past few days, she would stick to me really closely and would try to turn me on, (rubbing her boobs on me, caressing me, etc), asking me for sex. I know it's every guys dream to have a girl asking sex from you but, no. She's my dearest and i want her to have a happy life with a guy she loves, not have incest! D: Should i call a doctor? Please help!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This is a seriously slippery slope. From the way you speak, I can assume that you're from the United States, and in the US incest is illegal. Also, it is a severe taboo. The fact that you believe that incest is wrong I guess is a good thing. If you truly believe that it is a bad thing then tell her that it is unacceptable for you two to do anything sexual together. If you want me to go deeper into a more psychological standpoint and view then you should PM me.

  • I thought this was some anime love story. Lol.. um, try to have a real, productive conversation with her. Try to sympathize and get your point across. If you call somebody into it, it may make things worse. Has she shown interest in other men?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Something is definitely wrong here. I have 3 brothers and my older bro was closer in age. We used to be curious but we were under 10. We grew out of touching ourselves (no penetration) its obvious she has issues which can only be cured by a professional.

  • Move out. If you can't do it at the moment. Talk to her and male it clear that you don't want her or see her sexually. No need to symphatize. If she still doesn't believe you and keeps bothering, tell your parents.

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  • i guess you should tell your parents or someone else you know about it. and also move out as soon as you can.

  • i had sex with my sister for a couple years,,,, and once after she got married... it was intense,,,,

  • Give into it have sex with your sister have fun with her

  • You should have sex with her I my big sister did the similar things and I got in bed with her and destroyed her I mean I rammed her so hard I made her scream the bed shook hard almost broke the frame

  • Show her the love she needs from u

  • if your in the us no no matter how you feel law says no unless you have want hell and ridicule

  • My situation is the opposite, because I am truly in love with my oldest sister. Through the years we have been close. I got infatuated with her beautiful body and I wanted her to be more than just my sister. It’s a feeling that takes over, but you love it and it won’t stop. As time went, she knew I was obsessed and we eventually fucked around. It was a fantasy come true and she liked the experience. We still have our secret rendezvous and we kept it our secret. I say give into you sister’s intentions. See it from her point of view. You will like it.

  • Go for it! I bet the sex would be unbelievable