How to spice things up with a friend with benefits?

[c_marieee]

I'm just going cut to the chase here. I have a friends with benefit that I have hooked up with about 10 times now. I am the first girl he's ever done anything with, and whenever we hook up its always in his truck. The most I've done with him was a handjob and little things like grinding myself on his dick (when it was bare and I was on top of him), he's never fingered me though or anything. Lately its been a little too vanilla, which I'm not complaining about but I really want to turn him on and spice things up. he's very insecure and I know he isn't ready for a blowjob (please don't say "hes a pussy just give him a blowjob" because its just not going to happen yet) which I respect. What are some things I can do to really turn him on? I kiss his neck and suck on his bottom lip whenever we hook up because I know that really drives him crazy and I rub his dick , moan for him, you know, the typical hook up stuff. Guys, what are some things girls have done to you/with you in the past (or now) that really get you going? Be specific? And girls same goes for you, what have you realized to be very effective to turn your guy on? Serious answers only please, thank you! (We are both 16 btw) Also, if any of you have any good make out positions for hooking up in cars it would also be greatly appreciated. :-)

[mattsmoski]

Give him a couple of beers, I think he is nervous and doesn't know what to do. Where some loose shorts so he can feel how wet and hot you are. Rub your vagina against him. Suck on his fingers then he should make the connection of mmmmm now if that was my dick and not my finger, he should be able to put it together.

[stevie123]

Lick his neck and suck on his earlobe.
Whisper naughty things in his ear.
I assume that he is playing with your boobs, which is mandatory.
Fingering should be on the short list, serve it up.

[Anonymous]

Pull him on top of you and ask him to kiss you like he's fucking you.

[OpinionnotHate]

Kids wow horrible

[srslyly]

Stick your finger up his butt.