Guys, do you expect deep throating?

Title says it all really. Seems most guys expect girls to be able to do that. I have heard a few guys say that they don't even want girls to bother giving head if they can't deep throat. What about taking in half of it? Or do you guise really need to put your dick all the way down the gal's throat to enjoy it?
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  • Not at all, I wouldn't want that. I don't like the thought of shoving my dick all the way into her mouth or forcefully thrusting in it.

    I'm pretty small even when fully erect, so I don't think most women would have a problem taking me all the way in.

    However having an extremely sensitive gag reflex myself, I know how upsetting it is to choke easily when something goes near your tonsils, and I think a blowjob should be relaxing like a massage, just lay back and let them do their thing.

    Plus I don't really care about receiving blowjobs in general, I'm a virgin and would much rather experience sex.

  • if you are great with teasing then you are ok... and if you are a great conilinguist then you are ok... but deep throating is for the guys that just dont know how to handle a good BJ so no i dont expect deep throating unless the girl isn't good... so you got to be good at giving BJ's unless you want to choke , which i dont like doing to girls cause it takes away from the really good stuff.

    • thank you for MH* :) :D

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  • If you're good at givibg BJs without deep throating you should be ok.

    I can't deep throat all that well, I can get to just behind my tonsils before my gag reflex gets going and my bf doesn't seem to have any complaints, but then again I use my tongue as well and can constrict the muscles in my throat so its all smaller and tighter giving the illusion of deep throat.

    • had some problems at the beginning too but I trained with a dildo (double dong, soft and not too thick). almost no gag reflex anymore ^_^

    • I have a dildo too, but my bf is longer and has a larger girth than the dildo I have... either way he still likes it so I'm only training cos I want to.

  • I think as long as you are not totally awful at giving BJs then it's more of a nice bonus for the guy

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  • No, I dont

  • bahahah whatever u want baby. I've had one girl get pretty damn close to fitting it down but ill be real with you bc im feeling nice. dont go choking urself with it just properly service it u dont gotta gasp for air and slobber everywhere shit these kicks versace dont get drool on den on fo nem

  • Nope.

    What's important is that I think she actually enjoys giving me head.

    Enthusiasm makes up for just about a complete lack of technique.

  • I've never experienced it.

  • don't expect it but it is very enjoyable. I don't expect a girl to be able to get me entirely down as my penis is rather large but I do expect that she would want to turn me on as long as she was comfortable and able to do so. I don't want a girl choking or gagging (I guess unless she's into that) but I also don't want her to just sort of lazily do it. oral sex is about pleasing the other person so the goal should be to please

  • Deep throat does nothing for me. So when it gets to that point in a relationship I tell them please don't. It seems to me it would choke the woman so that can't be pleasant. So if it does nothing for me why put her through that.

  • I don't expect it, especially considering my size. I'd like it though LOL!!

    Those guys who said that must be mini-mes.

  • Deep is certainly not required.
    Many girls can't do it anyway.
    I have only had two that could.
    It was good, but not a deal breaker if a girl couldn't.
    It either takes a girl with no gag reflex, or one that has practiced that art.
    I don't need deep to enjoy a BJ, plenty of tongue action keeps me happy.

  • I never expect it nor really want it, the most sensitive part is the head, and the underside is the most of all, she only needs to focus on the first inch or so to be effective.

  • No, as long as I am getting head and there are no teeth involved, and she is enjoying it, that's all I care about.

  • I don't expect it, but am grateful if she can.

  • I don't expect it, I've gotten deepthroat before and it feels uncomfortable for me and not that pleasurable. I prefer her teasing the top of my penis more and just sucking it.

  • No, I don't expect it. Cool if she does/can do it, but it's not a deal breaker. The most sensitive area is on the end anyway, if she can stimulate that effectively she's doing fine.

  • I personally dont care. If the girl likes it she can do it. But it doesn't do anything for me. I perfer licking instead :)

  • Anyone guy that expects it is obviously not well versed in sex. Anyone with half a brain knows that not every girl can do that. Even though it is an incredible sensation it isn't required in order for a BJ to be mind blowing. Most guys are happy just to have a woman put his dick in their mouth at all. The people you have heard saying they wouldn't be with a girl that can't deep throat are dumb asses. They are obviously inexperienced and are just trying to sound like they are bad asses.

  • In my opinion it's nice, but definitely not mandatory.

    If a girl can do it and wants to do it, that's nice. If she can't or doesn't wants to, that's her choice.

  • Nope, I'll be impressed if she even manages to get her mouth around the tip.

  • Not really, I never expected it.

  • no i dont expect it. to be honest it makes me feel kinda uncomfortable to think about it (as weird as that sounds)

  • I dont expect it but when this woman did it, wow it was good, then I came right down her throat. I felt so loved.

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