Can a girl cum without having an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

Last night my boyfriend and I had sex, it was great, but I didn't orgasm. I don't think I have ever had an orgasm, but people say when you have one you will know it. But I did leave the bed all wet! I hadn't ever done that before! And at one point, between rounds 2 and 3, he was rubbing my clit and I could feel liquid coming out of me. What was it? Was it just extra natural lube or was it the female version of cum? Can a woman cum without having an orgasm?

[lexsus]

I am happy to see this question being asked, as I have been searching Google for proof that such a thing happens. (A friend has a hard time understanding as she has never cum, and showing her first hand would be awfully uncomfortable.) Women can cum without orgasming as well as orgasm without cumming.

The liquid was your ejaculate, different from your natural lubricant. And yes, you would know if you had an orgasm. Not every woman orgasms every time they have sex. Same goes with cumming. For instance, I didn't know anything about female ejaculation before I squirted (came forcefully) for the very first time. After I learned that I didn't just pee during sex, (yikes) I did some self exploring and tried different things with my girlfriend to see if that was a rare occurrence or something I could do regularly when before I just didn't know how to. This was 5 years ago now. And while it took a bit of time fully understand how my own body reacts to different kinds of stimulation and to be fully comfortable exploring that, for years now I have been able to cum repeatedly from clitoral or vaginal stimulation- more so with vaginal- without necessarily orgasming every time, while still being able to orgasm as well as squirt at least once every time I have sex.

But again, every female is different. My girlfriend usually orgasms, almost always cums, but rarely squirts. Still we have been together 6 years and have had time to learn what gets each other there. Either way the bed is always left soaked. Which makes for good times but a significant amount of money spent on mattress protectors. Ha.

My point in all of this is to express that despite the lack of accuracy you'll find online when it comes to researching female ejaculation, its a very normal thing. Unfortunately most women just haven't fully experienced or reported it, leaving those who are curious misinformed or with remaining queries.

Lets get the info out there, ladies! We can't be as rare a breed as it seems we are.

[CheekySweet]

I'm so glad you asked this question. The same thing has happened to me! When I'm on top of my boyfriend - all of a sudden everything gets really wet and it's actually a bit too slippery! I definately don't orgasm and he hasn't cum. It's much wetter/thinner than male or female lubrication and definately isn't urine. This has happened about 5 times now but still without orgasm.

I've only ever been able to come with a vibrator which I guess, is a clitoral orgasm (without cum). I'm hoping I'm getting really close to a G-spot orgasm with cum!

Good Luck!

[Anonymous]

It is possible- I sometimes female come (just during masterbation, not sex.yet) but it is usually like a minute or two before the actual orgasm. It feels like I have to pee, and then a bit of wet stuff comes out- a flood compared to the natural lubricant. Probably like a teaspoon or so total, but I have heard of people getting more. I smelt it too, lol, and it isn't pee. Then I orgasm and my muscles contract pushing out afterwards

[LilMiss]

Either you came or he came inside of you and it was spilling out. If you could feel the liquid coming out, you should've orgasmed with it.

[motorboater]

I can't explain the ins and outs of a woman's orgasm. Since women don't ejaculate semen, I'm not quite sure what you mean by "cum without having an orgasm. " (Guys can do so, btw. Ejaculate some semen without having an orgasm. But that's not your question. )

But, sure, you can leave the bed wet without an orgasm! Its likely your natural lube, possibly combined with his semen.

BTW, in MY experience, women who DO have an orgasm don't leave the bed any more wet than women who DON'T have an orgasm; its primarily an "internal" thing for most women.

[johnsmith2116]

Chances are that was natural lubrication. Just as a guy has precum also.

I've known girls to orgasm without anything coming out, but I've never known of something to come out without having an orgasm ( aside from her lubrication ).

[BackAgain]

i believe so..

[itsmander2u]

i believe it was just "natural lube" there are special G-spot orgasms that I've heard referes to as gushers and that would be a female version of cum. in order to do that youd have to have an orgasm. you were probly sweating!

[Anonymous]

No I think that was natural lube

[Anonymous]

Anything is possible