*Cue name calling*
The real reason, OP, is because females have always been the more desired gender. This is because they put more energy into reproduction.
More than 1.2 billion years ago, female organisms (fungi and such) were producing bigger, more energy-dense gametes. Males produced small, energy sparse ones.
Fast forward more than a billion years, and it's still the same shit, except females have evolved even more ways to put even MORE energy into reproduction! Methods such as: gestation, lactation, egg laying, honeymaking, fruit production, etc.
Energy is literally value. It's the real currency of the world. The laws of supply and demand should dictate that men will desire women more, because of their greater value and shorter supply.
If you don't believe economics can be extrapolated to this, just use natural selection instead. The males that wanted to have sex the most would have reproduced the most. The females that wanted sex the most would have reproduced just as much as the females that didn't care about sex, because women have a low maximum number of potential children.
And since men want women so much, that's why women have impossible standards: they can afford to. They will nearly always reproduce if desired, and it's been like that well over 1 billion years in the making. Don't like it? It ain't going anywhere.
... That goes for you feminists, too!
That's nice and all but I was looking at it from a social perspective instead of a biological one. Besides, I don't take evolution as fact.
If you read a lot of online dating profiles of girls, you'll feel like they are all like that... and there are many girls who want "Mr. Perfect" and dating agencies have picked up on a lot of these types. Ironically if you reject them, no matter who you are, you can scar them for life because their egos are so high.
Overall though, I don't see this as much in real life. I feel like I only really see this online. Like in my day to day life I see girls getting involved with scumbags who beat the shit outta them and overall nice guys. Some girls go from guy to guy and others have been fine with a basic guy for years.
But then I go online and see these "shopping lists" or "laundry lists" of "must have's" and insanely critical "must not have" type lists. I've seen anything from high end college degrees required to not dating guys with specific types of haircuts. They're extremely irrational.
But guess what? I went back years later and still see them logged in crying "There's no good guys left!" They're shooting themselves in the foot by chasing things that won't make them happy. It's their loss.
Best answer IMHO, well put and well thought out.
it is because when we think of our future husband, we think of this perfect guy that has absolutly no flaws, when in realty everyone has flaws and we need to get over that. i feel like only a few girls actually know this, so if you find a girl like this, keep her!!
Ok you do seriously know that not all girls expect that. Yeah they are nice, but as long as he makes me happy I could care less about material shit and looks :P
Sweet Brown's got time for that ;)
The majority of them pretty much fl
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Then honestly dude, you're not meeting the right girls. "Women expect us men to be sooooo outgoing and extremeeeely muscular and goood looking and have a big cock and married with three kids and oh Shiiit he better have money and be a fucking astronaut..." First of all women want a man to be on the same level as them, if I'm shy I want a shy guy and if I'm outgoing I want an outgoing guy. Extremely muscular is not the same for everyone. To me being muscular means having great shoulders, to others it means looking like a young Schwarzenegger. Good looking? Again that is something that is different for every girl, what I find attractive my best friend might not or my cousin or the girl over there might not be into. "a big cock" Again preference. Some girls want a 10" plus dick and some actually want a 4"-5" dick. Money and an astronaut. Again if he has those things that's fine but if he's unemployed at the moment and lives wit his mom and I like him there's nothing wrong with that!
Umm what women do you know. I just want a nice guy, whose kinda cute, can grow a banging beard, and can hold a job. That's pretty much it
Your my kinda girl lol XD
Yay I feel like an every woman now
Ay where you live lol I got a beard and I work for the veteran affairs. Let's get married
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think the unrealistic standards argument can be argued by both sides. But in the end, it's really just an excuse for failure. If you truly wanted to find a girl you'd have found one by now, there's like over 3 billion of them.
i'm a girl.-.
and all i want is an Asexual bf who is ready to read books with me
not all of us have that weird standards
omg me too loool
I know that some of these standards are unrealistic and I don't expect them.
Hahahahahaha well put mate and fair enough. Agreed, some Women do have those ideals in a partner and hell, I haven't come across a bloke with it all yet haha, maybe they have. But then there's other girls, amazing ones out there, find them. Stop chasing after the others, they only make waste of time no one gets back.
Well put mate XD
Cheers buddy, hopefully you find her one day soon :)
You are talking about those girls who watch "deseprate Housewives" or "Bachelor" i totally avoid them. Still there are a lot girls with real standards, and all you have to do is just find them.
Good point
dude you can't generalize it
lol if thinking this is why you aren't getting any helps you sleep better-- i'm all for it
ok that was just mean... Why do girls have to be sooo mean 😢😓
sorry.. i thought you were the same guy who posted anon.. and hating women for calling him skinny instead of.. I don't know what he wants to be called.
if you look at teenagers and students.. most of them only have 2 things of that long list going for them.. and they do get girlfriends.
Not all girls are that way. But the girls that have those superficial standards aren't girls you want to be with. They want you to take care of all the bills, so they don't have to work. Yet still have a lot of time for her.
Those are preferences pal lol. Everybody has them, you do to, don't be a hypocrite.
Because we tend to dream of the most perfect thing/person for us and what we really really want is over the top and most girls want it all and stuff like that you know what I mean? :)
Yeah, no I don't unfortunetly
Awwe man sorry
Nah jk I see your point
I think the reason is that girls are raised with kid gloves by most parents today. They're raised to believe that they are life's precious little angels, and that they can have anything they want in life just because they are so special. I see this a lot at my college, especially among the girls from really rich families. So in short, they have unrealistic expectations because that's what they were raised to have.
Pumping a kid's ego full of sunshine and Skittles from the age of 2 will do horrific things to their personalities.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
That's not true at all. MOdels walking around all day every day.
I'm quite sure those are just preferences not standards.
Same difference
No it isn't. Standards means they aren't settling.
reading too many crappy novels before they hit adulthood
Lmao
RIght... And we don't set standards on women... (Total BS).
No I have standards just not unrealistic ones
No, most men are realistic, for the simple fact that clinging pathetically to fairy tales does not a wet dick make.
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