One of three things:
1. Is he cumming, and trying to keep going because he doesn't want you to know he came so fast.
(I had a partner who did this, he didn't cum a lot so you couldn't feel him "squirt" and once he came I could tell because he went from hard to soft while thrusting.)
2. He is nervous once he starts intercourse and performance anxiety are making him lose his erection.
This explains why foreplay is fine, but once he's in, he goes down.
3. He is pushing himself past the breaking point because he doesn't want to cum to soon. When a guy learns to hold off cumming, sometimes if they suppress it to long, it goes away altogether and eventhough he didn't cum, his dick will lose erection.
There are fixes for 1 & 3.
1. If he is cumming... when he is about to cum, tell him to pull out, and not to touch his cock with anything or against anything. He will ejaculate but he won't orgasm. Then given a minute of cool down (usually my partner, pulls out and quickly jumps down to oral sex on me while his gun is going off), he will be able to remain hard and will last forever.
3. If he's going to long... have him instead, do the above fix instead of holding on.
* I don't think it's lack of interest because he is hard doing the other stuff.1 0 0 0You can try watching p*rn while having sex or have him masturbate before y'all engage cause sometimes the second erection can last longer. But, try the p*rn while having sex along with dirty talk first then try the masturbating before having sex.
0 0 0 0Does me masterbate a lot than that might be the cause. and tell him to go to the doctor , there maybe other causes
0 1 0 0
Most Helpful Guys
Is he wearing a condom? I ask because I have trouble feeling any damn thing with those on and unless I'm crazed with horniness I run the risk of losing it too.
Cutting out the p*rn and such might help a bit - with the risk that if he's gone without release, he won't last as long. That or a lot of oral and fingers with penetration being the conclusion, not the main event - just to see what happens.0 0 0 0One word: Cialis. Why isn't important. Cialis is a great ED drug: works in 20 minutes for 36 hours. I suspect that once the two of you are back in the saddle, things will be fine. Just have him see his doc.
0 0 0 0
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Related Questions
What Girls & Guys Said
2 10You can try all the things these people say, but I do believe a doctor would solve it once for all.
0 1 0 0Does he do p*rn and mb a lot? If not, see what is up medical / health wise.
0 0 0 0Viagra. Or maybe he's too full, drunk, or uncomfortable to maintain a hard on. You should try just giving him a handjob at first.
0 0 0 0it may be a bit extreme, but you could try putting a butt plug in him?
0 0 0 1Maybe he's getting distracted or bored even. I'm not really sure. Staying hard for 5 minutes (and finishing) is pretty average.
0 0 0 0Seems psychological then, perhaps he is just under stress at work or the such... will pass with time, if not, a doc is ya best bet ^_^
oooor, try cock rings... ya can get ones that vibrate and stuff, they can help0 0 0 0Try having sex less often.
The anticipation and the waiting will make him super hard. Stop him masturbating too if you can, and suggest that he watches less p*rn. I often can't get hard without a porn-like situation if I watch too much.1 0 0 0Cock rings and viagra
0 0 0 0Have you tried Cialis or Viagra
0 0 0 0Anxiety is one of the main reasons. may be he is worried too much about performance
0 0 0 0Does your boyfriend watch a lot of p*rn? If he does tell him to cut that out of his life, that's most likely the cause if he is perfectly healthy. Google p*rn induced sexual dysfunction. Hope that helps.
0 0 0 0Buy him a cock ring.
0 0 0 0
Most Helpful Girls