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Husband offered MFM threesome - free hall pass or bad idea?

My husband and I have been married for 2 years and are in our mid 20s. Our pillow talk and bedroom activities can get pretty wild at times and, lately, my husband has been bringing up the idea of a MFM threesome. His offer: "pick a guy you think is hot and we'll all have fun for a night. No strings, no rules - just let loose and be wild for one night". He has never been the jealous type and has always had pretty wild fantasies, but I'm worried this might backfire. Does this mean he doesn't love me? Does he not protect me like a good husband should? He is an amazing husband and always taking good care of me. Is is just icing on the cake with him and a chance to let loose and be a little crazy? Or is there some sort of catch? Should I go for it? Or is this a bad idea?
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Follow-up question... Is there something I can offer as a warm-up to test the waters here? Something to satisfy my husband's fantasy about sharing me with another guy without opening the entire can of worms?
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  • I took a lot of time and self-confidence for my wife to relaxed in nice MFM, but now especially she enjoys good sex more than ever before, and her so challenging sexiness, more than ever before, if you already relax in it, or something like that, be still faithful to each other, and patiently go to the end, with an agreement, jointly together. Without tiring one another, do not believe in everyone. Do not allow any humiliation of any of you. You have nothing to be ashamed of, but to be proud of you, You do not cheat anyone but enjoy your sexual freedom and a new sexual temptation, and nothing more than that. I am heterosexual man, but I like to enjoy body from my wife in many different ways which i can not write here. especially with more additional and better stimulation for her all horny body. Completely free without setting up some sexual borders of any kind in sexual games with her body from us, from two men's. I love the fact that i can see completely exhausted body from my such horny wife, from the most extreme kind of sex, and most exhausting sex that can be with my own completely harmless and innocent wife. it's hard to understand, but that's the way it is. enjoy sexual freedom, why not if you can? do what you want, at least you have nothing to lose here, except that you get more attention for your so tempting horny body, and your bigger sexual attraction.

  • I didn't vote. It's not that simple. If he had stopped caring about you, HE would pick the guy. He offered you the choice. I have theory about threesomes: they are minefields. I would only have a threesome with my lady and an pro. Otherwise, it's not just one isolated night. It's the start of a history. There are untold opportunities for feelings to get seriously hurt. A pro mitigates these risks. If the man you chose did something you didn't like but your husband was okay with, you'd blame your husband. That's just one example. If you're going to have the threesome (and I recommend against it), use a pro.

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  • When my boyfriend said he would want a FFM threesome for his birthday I was already jealous with the thought of it. I asked him if he'd let me have a MFM threesome and he said he would if I wanted to! Honestly I was so upset that he'd be okay with having another guy have his way with me. I asked him if he didn't care, apparently he hated the idea but thought it was only fair for me to get ''what I want'' if he got his. So maybe he's actually into a FFM threesome but trying to get you warm up to the idea of someone else?

    I think you can try it out a little by having a guy watch you two. You could start with a webcam thing, then invite someone in the room with you to watch. If it seemed like you were both into it and wanted something wilder, you could switch to that.

    • Thanks for the comments. I asked my husband if he wanted FFM and he said "no". He said he would be open to it if that is what I wanted because he understand that there might be some appeal to FFM for me just like MFM appeals to him, but that he didn't ever fantasize about it and just wants MFM. He said he really wants me to be happy and pleased and to be able to let out my wildest sexual needs and know that, at the end of the day, he will always be my husband and love me. It feels too good to be true but, then again, so many things about him are that way. He's such an amazing person and husband.

    • I'd say that if your marriage seems super solid and he's the type to always look out for your pleasure over his own? Then I'd say your in the green! 👍🏻

    • So did you ever go through with the mfm or anything?

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  • Some guys are really into seeing or knowing their girl being handled by another guy. My ex used to say to me that if I went out without him, I was allowed to do anything I liked with another guy just so long as he got to see pics / vid / or I told him every detail of what happened. Seemed like a win win

  • This is how it worked for me and my husband. when tbe idea had first been brought up we started looking for guys i liked trusted and felt comftable with then we hung out for a couple weekends in a row id let them touch me and vice versa and we progressed fast to oral and intercourse,

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  • The "catch" ... es!
    1. he's not getting enough p*rn from his wife/lover
    2. afterwards, he'll see you more as a p*rn playmate than The Lover
    3. now it's only fair to FMF him - one of the goals
    4. then it's OK to have an open relationship - the end goal (even if he hasn't thought of it yet, his d**k will lead the way)
    5. all the open marriages I know (admittedly very limited) go on the rocks, as hedonism becomes the new game, the new goal

    ... but KNEW all that... DIDN'T you

    • So nice how people can always see the best in things

    • Do you not have the letter "o" on your keyboard? It's pOrn, moron.

  • the best advice that I can give you is.

    1. I might be just 15 years old but I was just having a conversation the other day or last week I think it was with this older woman who was in her thirties she was talking about the same thing that she had a threesome with her husband and that she regrets it now. because the woman is now going to their vacations every time when her husband ask her if she wants to come. and he starts having a lot of arguments because the wife asked him why do you always invite her every time when it our time. And then he gets upset with his wife so that's why I'm telling you now it's a bad idea you're gonna regret it later on unless you are a really horny woman that really likes that type of stuff.

  • As far as the follow-up question is concerned, try watching MFM porn together, and role-playing with a dildo. This alone can be a bunch of fun and then you'll have more ideas about what you both want. X-Art has some really beautiful MFM threesome videos.

  • I wouldn't do it.. You never know how someone will react in those situations until it's to late...

  • If you take the offer.. he might suggest FMF next time. Be sure that you're okay with that too before you say yes.

    • it is possible but this does not necessarily mean that it is so, ask your partner and tell what can be and what can not be in advance. If a woman is jealous of another woman, then that does not have to be an obligation. Many proud men on their wife's, love that their wife's gets relax in hard sex action, with the help from another man. This is a compliment to them for the skill in the experience and ability of their wife. everything is possible, why not?

  • I for sure wouldn't say that "he has stopped caring about you" by any means. The one thing I would caution is that if you do go through with it, make sure that you give him quite a bit of attention during the sex. Even people who don't seem to get particularly jealous can have a problem if they feel like they are being neglected during a threesome.

  • Me and my girlfriend did exactly that with a complete stranger and we both enjoyed it. It was my idea too

  • To test to see is your husband would be jealous or not, you could kiss another guy in front of him or have oral.

  • Bad idea. Just bad idea. Trust me.

  • Try going out to a bar and making out with a guy in front of your husband. Then go back home and see how he feels about it. You can see if he's upset and if it wasn't a good idea kissing is far less involving than full out naked bodies and sex, know what I mean? Then move up from there if everything goes well

  • Is there anything you really want to try in a mfm or are you doing it because he wants to?

  • It's different and fun.

  • Go for it. But I would let him pick the guy.

    • Totally agree.

  • If being kissed and felt up by two guys at once (one behind you, one in front of you), then do it. Maybe bring a male friend you trust? If it sounds scary (even with a dude you trust), tell him no.

    • Maybe men think different than women. He's probably turned on by the fantasy of being with two women. Maybe he thinks you would be turned on by what he's (theorhetically) turned on by. He wants you to have wonderful exciting sex. As to whether or not he's protecting you like a good husband should, express that you want him to be protective. Maybe he thinks you want to be freer. Maybe he thinks "protecting" you is patronizing, or treating you as if you're weak (perhaps he thinks you're strong enough not to need his protection). I don't know him, and even if I could, I can't read his mind. Again, express to him that you need to feel protected, and/or guarded.

    • I meant to say "If being kissed and felt up by two guys at once (one in front of you, one behind you [sounds nice] then do it.

  • mid 20s...
    don't do it.

    wait to mid 40s.

  • Ask your husband if he really wishes this... if yes, go for it...

  • i am bi and love mfm

  • Yes go for it. My girlfriend and I have talked about it for a long time and earlier this year it happened. She had an amazing time as did me and the other guy. We just wanted to get a little crazy and it was 100% just what we both imagined it to be... and more!

  • I think you should try it.

  • IS YOUR HUSBAND BI?

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