Research and the Internet. Go to one of the many websites of free p*rn and search Femdom. Go onto other sites like milovana. com and look at the interactive web teases for ideas.
The first key is acting, you need to play the role of hard dominant woman. You can use your embarrassed awkward laugh to your advantage if cannot control it, if you feel silly and giggle claim you are giggling at him. Maybe get an outfit so you can feel the role too, something teasingly revealing and heels so as to be sexy and towering over him when on his knees.
Most submissive people want to be degraded and used to gain affirmation that they done well. Demand he does things for you not to you. You want a back rub he has to do it or get punished. You want oral til you orgasm, he better drop to his knees so fast it hurts. You want to play with him til he is about to explode then just stop so he is denied pleasure well he better thank you for the honour.
My biggest advice though would be to use the power of being in control to make him do the work and make him tell you his fantasies and turn ons. You can do this in multiple ways such as tie him down ride him til you cum then get off and tease him and demand he tells you his fantasies if he wants you to finish him. Make him tell you what is in his head between his whimpers of pained pleasure.
Im a male sub. The subs duty is basicly doing anything you want for your pleasure. One important part is the reward/punishment system. If he does a good job the sub will be rewarded. And if he does a bad job he will be punnished. The reward can be not getting a punishment.
Watch out for what your sub likes and doesn't like. Someone that likes to be spanked will not see it as a punishment. Also watch out so that he doesn't missbehave just to get a punishment. Be sure he doesn't like to get punnished and he will try to make a good job
A good tip is to use safewords. at least when you're feeling eachother out. Some people come up with their own words but a good start is Green/Yellow/Red. Green means that you can go on and do it more intensive or harder Yellow mean that it's fine, but dont go any further Red is a definate stop. Dont go any further
If you dont feel very creative there are lists or different rewards and punishments on the internet.
Make him address you as Mistress or Goddess or something else like that. If he fails at that, punish him. He should always be bellow you when you play. If in the bed he should be at the end of the bed kissing your feet. If you're standing he should crawl by your feet. If you dont say anything else ofc. You make the rules.
Thank goodness for that anon button... I'm a switch who prefers to be submissive but can and will go domme if asked and if I'm in the right mood. Start slow. Get on top. Make sure you have a safe word from the beginning. I don't care how much you trust each other, you need to have a safe word. Then, well, you tell him what you want. Demand he gets you off. Then maybe, get into ropes, but read up on that first. Or blindfolds, those are fun.
I'm not super into the sub/dom stuff but I'm a demanding lover to begin with so sometimes I venture into that side. Being a dom isn't just about control, its also about taking care of the other person. So don't deny him his orgasm or anything like that. I'd suggest you do some more reading into it and go from there. As said, I'm usually the sub, because I have to be in charge and take care of everything in my personal life and I dislike that when I'm in bed.
Oh yeh I know what to do. I have used a strapon on my guy, but I do it because he likes it. And it's a lot more fun than I expected. Kinda hot to see him cum so much more than usual. If your guy says he wants to be dominated this will really test him out. And it's not all bad news for him, rubbing on a guys prostate can give him an amazing orgasm. I guess that's what I like about it, just seeing him get off so hard. My tip is get a long one, easer to use and you don't have to put it all in, but not too thick. And my husband says a vibrating one feels much better than a non vibrating. Let us know what your guys thinks of the idea. Will he run a mile or say yes mistress?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Come up with chores and tasks for him to complete, my Mistress has me email her a report on my daily activities every night, she also gives me occasional tasks to complete. When playtime comes give him orders, tie him up, hit him, stuff like that.
give him what he wants or he will find someone that will
are you phsically big?
On the smaller side, he's not physically big either though, just tall.
no way then you could not be dominant if he's taller than you sorry
Not true though... It's not about physical strenght. It's about Domination and submission. If he submits to you and accept that he is bellow you its fine. Dont worry about strenght
Make him do whatever you want him to do. Throw him onto the bed and undress him. You can use some props like handcuff, wipes, chains. With handcuff, you may want to handcuff him to the bed. Make sure not to laugh, and have a serious, angry face. Smack him on his face a few times while you forcefully undress him. Then have your way with him. Positions that are favorable for a dom female would be cowgirl and the less known amazon position. The amazon position is where he is laying on the bed (facing up), with his feet thrown up to his head. You then straddle him from there. I know it sounds funny, but that's what a dom female does.
Dont ask him what to do. Tell him what to do. You can start of easy by telling him get on your knees. Lick my pussy, bend over slap his ass etc
First off, will the dominance primarily take place as a way of session or as a way to assert yourself as the dominant in your relationship?
I'm a male sub and love to be dominated
Be part of fetlife website. They have a bunch of material there and space to ask questions and read about the subject. I’m a switch with some Domme desires so I play in both sides and has been fun.
Just watch porn lol. He wants to be dominated. He wants you to be strong. You can do this without any knowledge. But honest femdom is garbage in my opinion. It will brainwash your man into a insecure man. Femdom's humiliation culture is disgusting. I'd stick to the dominance and not the name calling. Like don't call him a "loser" maybe say "Your my bitch isn't that right" Or something like that. Something that connects to sex and to you.
I'm not a sub. But I think I can help. Being a Dom is about taking control while caring enough to make sure that both of you enjoy it. You can start slow. From vanilla to dom. Start having sex in dominant positions, like on top. Then try the tease and denial thing. Tie his hand behind his back. He cannot touch his dick. You do all your stripping stuff. Let him do oral and make you cum. But do not touch his cock at all. Make him remain naked and on his knees. Then blow/stroke his cock, but do not let him achieve orgasm. After denying about 4-5 times, make him cum. Make him lie over your lap and spank his ass. The extreme kind of domination is ballbusting (pretty dangerous). Allow him to have a password. blindfold him and make him follow you by holding his cock. Make him lick your pussy like a dog, whenever you are bored.
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