Can petite girls handle a large penis?

I just started dating a 5 foot tall girl she is very thin and small, and I have read some women hate large penises because it hurts them. I am 5'11" with a 8" penis that has some girth to it. Are there any small girls who have experience with large penises? Will I be too big for her?
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Okay I should clarify when I say "handle" it I am asking can she enjoy sex and not be in pain the whole time. I have read some small girls cannot "handle" large penises because it just hurts too much. I would rather her enjoy it, it is sex after all.
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  • Yep Sometimes we can.. I'm 5'2 and my ex was like 6'1 or something he had a very large penis yes there were times he would hurt me. But if she is all wet - even by lube, foreplay or both. Obviously go slow and ease into it. And I know if it does hurt, her kiss her (passionately) it will help her if it does hurt her. I have been with a few who have had large penises, and it actually does depend on the guy aswell and how wet the girl is and in the mood.
    I am sure you'll have no problems and all will be good ^_^

  • I have experience, however I'm just speaking for myself. I have talked with a lot of girls who only prefer 7 inches tops. My boyfriend is close to 9 inches with quite a bit of girth, I'm 5'3, he's never hurt me. Just start out slow and communicate with her.

    • Thanks for the response. Ok so if I go slow I should eventually be able to put it in completely?

    • @SunshineMoonbeam the number of male GaGers that looked at her profile picture after reading her response, is too damn high!

    • Yes. It's not a matter of being able to put it in completely... you could do that no matter what. Its really a matter of comfort. Like I said just communicate with her and have her tell you if its too much.

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  • It really all depends on the girl.

    Me, I shy away from big ones... but my best friend, who is similar in size to me, she is a size queen.

    • That's what BJs are for.

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  • It's very likely, yes. But keep in mind that at some point she's probably going to push a body that's many times larger out of that same spot. Luckily you have many options that don't include stretching her out first.

    • Using birth as an comparison doesn't really help cause that is painful for the woman... I am talking about sex here. I want to know if she can handle my dick and enjoy it without pain. As for "many options" I don't really know what you are referring to, I am pretty sure she couldn't handle a blowjob because I have had normal size girls refuse to do it, and I am not into anal sex and she probably isn't either. So I don't really see what options I have.

    • You're right, it's not a fair comparison. I guess the point I tried to make is that it's not a hopeless situation by any means. Let's say you get married and spend the rest of your life with her. The fact that she can push a rugrat out means she can be conditioned to take your summer sausage without it being unpleasant. I think you're going to need to get some tongue skills. And put those fingers to work. Any woman can give a hand job.

  • I dated a girl such as you describe and I'm very fortunate in the endowment department and it wasn't a problem for us at all. I could bottom out but she liked the way that hurt so it was all really good.

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  • If a petite woman can pass a baby through her vagina she can handle just about any penis size. It may not be comfortable but she could handle it. Vaginas expand in size, lots of foreplay needed.

    • only 50 or so years ago the average height for women in japan was around 4'10 and big families were common. like 5-8 kids.

    • But no girl can fit a penis the size of a baby all the way in her vagina. Yes they can come out very slowly while the woman is in tremendous pain and many times it would kill them. That's not applicable to sex. Plus the issue with large penises and sex is much more often a length issue which makes the giving birth example completely irrelevant. I mean the issue is the penis hitting the cervix causing pain.

    • I mean like if he claimed his thing too thick to fit the pregnancy thing makes more sense. But there are many women out there that are hurt by thickness as well obviously.

  • Handling big is something that chsnges person to person. It is much like luck of penis size to if woman is wide set or enjoys being stretched out.

    While petite women may seem like should be harder to handle due to proportions I've seen petite girls take it easier than larger ladies. Foreplay and lube and talent will all help it is also part luck.

  • I just can't figure out if you're the same guy posting the same stupid questions about dick size, or there's lots of you out there.
    This is really why I rarely post a Q on anything sex related and allow anon responses.

    • It's most likely both. Haha. And personally I never allow anonymous answers on any question I post. Easy way to avoid trolls.

    • Yeah anons are often creepers.

    • I just can't figure out why you bother responding to these questions if you are going to be a fucking bitch about it. No I am not "the same guy posting about dick size", newsflash there are lots of young men who ask about their size. I am specifically asking if a small girl can enjoy a large penis without it being painful.

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  • The vagina is a muscle so it stretches to accommodate WHATEVER size is going there. So her size is no big deal. To be sure that you do not hurt her, take your time and pay attention to her reaction so that you know how far to go/or not.

    • That's really not true. There is only so much room

    • @cavmanier Well the chances of someone having like a 2 feet dick is not that likely so the text is pretty correct

    • @cavedude Yeah like a 12 lb. baby comes through. Chances are she can handle Mr. Tiny Dick. XDD

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  • I don't know. How big is her mouth?

  • Dude. Babies come out there.

  • Many petite girls are able if the guy knows what he is doing. Lots of foreplay and giving her oral will tent her.

    There are a few positions that a guy with a long penis can use to go deep bypassing the cervix causing her no pain. When you try these positions communicate with each other until you learn the correct way for you and her. Even using these positions, there is a limit how deep a penis can penatrate. Listen to her.

    I have a big girth in addition to being long. First few times we'll do a cowgirl, a girl on top missionary or similar positions where she is in control of how slow, how deep and if it will fit. By being considerate and relinquishing control to her initially, I have never injured my partner with my girth and very seldom caused pain with my length.

  • They say it makes no difference, but I've never met a tall woman who couldn't accept 8".
    I've met some shorter girls who couldn't, and I've met some short women who could.

  • It shouldn't be a problem, that's not even big so don't worry about it. :)

    • Classic.

    • hahaha

    • im same as this guy's heiight and my penis is 5.2 inches

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  • Lol, I doubt it is its cause tiny girls can be seen as more prone to look like they need to be more gentle with I am pretty tiny small 5"2 so I know. But, I doubt it makes it different. If it did then that would be annoying.

  • It all really depends on how she is built. If she can take a little pain and has a large variety then most you should be fine. But you will be in for a ride of your life. Just saying

    • im same as this guy's heiight and my penis is 5.2 inches

  • no, simply... because my penis won't be large when i see a petite girl, but shrunk.

    you got what i mean eh? hahahha

    • Lol I'm a petite Asian girl but I make my tall white boyfriend super hard, like really hard

  • Of course they can handle it; unless there's some kind of deformity or damage, they can handle pretty much anything. Are you sure this wasn't just an excuse to post your penis size to a bunch of strangers?

    • Maybe I should've clarified I am asking if she can enjoy it instead of just be in pain the whole time.

  • Yes. If girls vaginas are made to push a whole entire baby out of it, she will be able to accommodate your penis.

    • As I explained already to another gal, I know that it is physically possible to stretch a penis into a small vagina. I am asking though from girls' experience, is it enjoyable. When I say "can they handle it" I am asking are they still able to enjoy sex from it or is it just way too painful. Giving birth is painful as hell why would a girl want sex with me if I am giving her that kind of pain?

    • Well if she hasn't been sexually active for awhile then yeah it might be painful but im sure if you guys do it enough shell be able to handle you as shell get use to you. i still have to get use to my fiances size when we haven't done anything in ahwile. its uncomfortable at first but then it starts to feel good

  • no, you will split her apart.. you'd better break up now

  • yes they can. I'm 158cm and have a petite/skinny body and never had a problem yet even tough guys say I'm quite tight. if a baby can get through I don't see why a bigger penis shouldn't

    • very good point. Never thought about it that way

    • im same as this guy's heiight and my penis is 5.2 inches

  • Yes they can. I'm 5'2/5'3 and I've had a few guys who have had 7"+ penises before.

  • and for the 1000th time

    NO correlation between body shape/size/weight/lenth of legs/shoe size and genital size

  • vaginas are designed to have babies come out of them man of course she can "handle" your dick

  • Just try slow.. Then if she can handle it keep going!(; & if she can then don't go in all the way (:

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