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My bf came inside his underwear while I was rubbing him. Is it so embarassing for him?

So last night my bf and i were making out (not gone further at the moment, we're 15 and still virgin) . He was still wearing his footy uniform and i just slid my hand inside his shorts but over his skins tights (compression shorts) and started rubbing. That got him really turned on (i could feel through his underwear he was really hard) but after a couple of minuted i felt his penis like twitching and then getting soft and there was a wet an sticky spot. He stopped me, i asked all right, and he told me dont worry but looked embarassed and went to the toilet. Later i asked him if he had an orgasm but he answered not really. Anyway, i guess he came, right? Is it so embarassing to cum inside underwear? (i didn't mind...) And above all, you think he enjoyed it or was just annoying to cum inside his underwear?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yep. He either sprayed his shorts from your handjob, or you made him precum a whole lot and he was about to. If it was the latter, and there was enough to make a wet spot on his outer shorts, he probably makes more semen than your average 15yo.

    I don't think that's the case though, because of your description. It sounds like he came, and wasn't ready for you to know he'd jizzed in his pants. It's nothing to be ashamed of at that age, but teenagers are really self conscious sometimes.

    If you liked it, tell him you did, and he'll probably be more comfortable with the idea.

  • He's embarrassed because he's too young and inexperienced to know that his having an orgasm was the WHOLE POINT of you rubbing him. He obviously thinks that he should have somehow been able to control himself or something, but that's the exact kind of situation where you AREN'T supposed to maintain control over yourself.

    What will help him is to know that YOU were fine with it, and in fact were happy about it and that it's the normal/expected outcome. Once he understands that, he'll be fine.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If you didn't think it was embarrassing who cares what strangers think? You're young, it's not embarrassing and yes he came and yes he enjoyed it. this is new stuff for both of you so just make sure to be sensitive to this matter because he is probably embarrassed.

    • exactly. Be supportive, don't judge him, and just let him be honest and himself. It gets the truth out of him now, and makes him trust you more; which is extremely important later on when sex becomes a topic.

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  • Good work! He should be thrilled!

  • Yeah, he came. I'm sure it's embarrassing for a kid his age. Of course he enjoyed it.

  • I don't think its embarrassing for him. He has next to no experience, so a girls touch will set him right off!

    He will have loved it, don't worry!

    Did you enjoy it? You should be proud you can do good work with your hands :)

  • He's likely embarrassed about it.

    You can help. Next time tell him you want to see him do it outside his underwear so you can watch. Knowing you are into it is hot.

  • yes he came but maybe he enjoyed it and he was embarassed dont worry ask him before doing that if he wants to do it with clothes on or off

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