Women have it "worse" hen it comes to casual sex?

I have noticed that a lot of guys on here means that girl have it much easier when it comes to getting laid. But when you think about it girls have just as bad, or maybe even worse when it comes to at least casual sex. This does not ofc something every woman goes through, but i do belive that most women need to have som sort of commitment to the guy she's going to have/having sex with. As a girl you would usually feel used of you just have sex with a guy and thats it. Girls need often, not always, have som sort of relation with the guy, and since girl realise som hormons (cant remember what their called) when having sex, they become more emotionally attached to the guy, if they want it or not. Yeah, girls can get laid easier, but guys can have sex without the emotions, which don't leave them feeling used etc. + men dont have to worry about getting pregnant or birth control (the pill etc) Do you agree or disagree? I really want to have sex, but since im so insecure and i only can really be myself when i have been drinking, i haven't been able to get a boyfriend, ever. So my only option is casual sex, but i know i will end up feeling used or end up with the feeling that i want something more. so i obiously dont. I doubt that most guy would feel bad about getting sex without commitment or emtions, so consider you luck!
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  • No, girls have it easier I this area, at least. If you have high standards for relationships, it's harder to get emotionally attracted to a guy. At least this is how it goes for me. Not just any guy can be my boyfriend.
    And another reason is that I feel like when I am in a relationship with a guy he starts to take me for granted.

  • Its definitely easier for girls to get laid than it is for most guys. Unless you are a really hot hot guy. But comparing average to average, the girl has it better. I have only felt bad about sex when i felt there was something emotional there when there wasn't. Getting laid by a guy because he is hot is fun.

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  • Yes. I post something along these lines several times a week at least.

    Men and women think and work differently, and want different things, and both tend to assume that the other think and work just like they do, which is why so many relationships get into trouble.

  • I agree with you. Guys envy girls the ease with which they could get laid. They don't understand the way you do, that girls don't want to just get laid.

    You explain it very well, even if you couldn't remember the science names for hormones and such.

    • Thanks! :)

    • If guys want to get laid as easy as girls all they have to do is be willing to have gay sex.

    • bullshit !!! many girls sleep around. even then that is still small compared to all the work effort and rejection you have to put up with just to get laid for one simple reason! you can control your emotions. we can't control who we can get laid with if they dont want us!! so if say you end up wanting to get something more, then just get laid a little more , you will find that "something more" sooner or later. the problem is you making it harder. Besides you are contradicting yourself if you say you yourself want to get laid, how can you get used like that then?

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  • Hold on, stop. A lot of guys may be rocks, but I'm not one of them. There's always guys out there that think the same way. I'm never ever gonna 'use' a girl. If I'm with a girl, I'm sticking with her, I know that for sure.

  • I'll agree that birth control can be worry, but that's also worried a lot of men too.

    * Women don't become attached to a man, just over good sex. All those feel-good chemicals wear off in a day or so, and no longer cause attachment.

    * A girl will only feel used if she offered sex to get something else, and didn't get it. ( Like to catch herself a boyfriend). If it's really casual sex, there is no such broken deal. The offer is sex, and nothing else.

    * If you need a commitment before enjoying casual sex, I don't think that would really qualify as casual sex. While there might be some friendship or attraction, by definition there is no commitment.

    Is there anything else?

  • Well, some girls like feeling 'used.'

    But anyway, there are advantages and disadvantages for both genders. Like if you want to bake a cake, you need ingredients and a recipe. For casual sex, girls have the ingredients, guys know the recipe. It does little good to have all the ingredients but not know how to handle them. But it also does little good to know what to do, but have nothing to do it with. The grass is always greener on the other side, eh?

  • so girls regret the guys they sleep with, guys regret the girls they don't sleep with. :o

  • Women can have sex without being emotionally attached though, they just usually choose not to, so I don't know what you're getting at.

  • I think your perception of guys is not very accurate. You're making assumptions based on stereotypes, and a LOT if guys don't meet those stereotypes. There are other factors you're not considering as well, such as the fact that guys are much more driven by sex (damned testosterone!). We essentially need it more in order to be emotionally healthy. That's a generalization but in general it is very true.

    Each gender faces challenges. All things considered I'd say they even out in the end, but I would certainly NOT agree with you that women have it tougher when it comes to sex.