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Does a dildo feel the same as the real thing?

I'm a virgin, but I use a dildo to masturbate. I want to make love but I'm afraid that it might hurt. Does it feel the same as when I put my dildo in or does it feel different?
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  • It will feel different, most notably because of the emotions you experience.

    When on your own, it is just you with yourself, so your mind will concentrate on whatever it is you're getting off on.

    With someone else, especially for the first time, you will be nervous, excited, etc. This will make a bigger difference than the feel of a silicon toy. Like anything, it gets better each time and then you will start learning what you enjoy and don't enjoy.

  • The shape and the feel may feel similar but unless the dildo can give off heat while having the skin feeling, then I don't think it will ever feel the same as the real thing. Sex with a condom feels a bit different than sex with the same penis without a condom. Even the super thin ones, you should be able to tell the difference.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it depends on the size as well. Like if you have the smallest, thinnest dildo but the guy has a thick, long penis it might make a difference. But since you've already stretched it out enough for a dildo to fit it shouldn't hurt that much.

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  • The real thing is always better than substitutes, that goes for a lot of things in life, but who knows, maybe certain toys out there beat sex itself?

  • Whether it hurts you depends on how relaxed you are and the guys ur with.
    If ur relaxed about it, and not getting stressed about it hurting (no need to be, really) and the guys is of average size (too big can hurt, so not an ideal choice for first time) and he's considerate, then u should have a great time. :)

  • I'd feels much different.

  • I suppose
    *-the MOTION can be stronger with a dildo and applied more easily at the best spot because you 'steer' it yourself.

    *- the Emotion will be a lot stronger if it's a guy ( and IF you love each other).

  • It won't hurt you but the real thing is the real thing so much better knowing you have a real cock in you.

  • No they are different
    Think it will hurt you

  • I would imagine it doesn't feel the same. It will be better in that you are in control but it lacks that human touch.

  • Sex toys never make up for the real thing.. it's only temporary, like getting drunk. Temporary fix, to a long term problem

  • depends on a dildo

  • Yoi must taste a penis.

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