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Should I believe a guy if he says he has no STD's?

Before you have sex, if a guy says that he has no STD's, should I trust him and have sex with him anyway just because he says he's "clean"?
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  • Last year I was fooling around with this girl and we then went on to have a whole drama but we did apparently fall in love with each other. Well one night we were just fooling around and didn't actually have sex just playing around and you guessed it a couple of days later I had to go to the ER because she passed and STD she didn't even know she had to me that she got from her boyfriend that I didn't know about who was fooling around on her. And there was no sex just close to it. Yes I got treated and so did she and I we both got so now I at least know I'm clean but it's nothing to joke around with.
    If you can trust him really trust him but still he might not know so you'll know later.
    Best of luck but I like to air on the side of caution.

  • That depends on how much you can trust him. Thus on how well you know him and his personality.
    If you have the slightest reason doubt, demand a condom ! No condom, no sex.

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  • It depends on how well you know him and how much you trust him. Ultimately though, I would say it's best to ask him to get tested and/or make sure to use a condom. Although, condoms don't 100% protect against all STD's, such as the Herpes virus since that is spread from skin to skin contact and condoms don't cover all of the genital area on men. However, it's better than unprotected sex.

  • NO!!! I had chlamydia and didn't even know it until months and months later! My ex had it as well but didn't show symptoms until months and months after I had figured out that I had it MAKE him go and get tested it's expensive sure! But protection for yourself because trust me stds is no joke! If he really wants the cookie hell do it! And please use protection

  • If he has a letter from his last STD test yes, if not No! Some std's you don't even know you have, so get tested

  • So paranoid about that kind of thing I would make him get tested and make him show me the results.

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  • It's just too easy to get tested to simply take someone's word for it, especially if you're so unsure that you're posting the question to an online message board.

  • Depends on how long you have known him and what your relationship is.

    One night stand? Never trust him, always wear condom.

    Been dating this guy for 3-4 weeks, and you're on the pill? Believe him.

    • yeah pretty much what this guy said.

  • Nope, you can't trust guys.

  • This is always a risk. I once did a test about 20 years ago, to satisfy a partner. The doctor wouldn't provide any written evidence, so she still had to take my word for it.
    Maybe things have changed, since then.

  • Girl, NO! Don't take the risk is what i always say

  • No, always make him wear condoms.

  • don't ever believe him, ask for test results.

    • With 3 months incubation time for hiv , test results are stale: they give a 3 month old health report, regardless of what he did since the test was taken.

  • If you're worried about it, get him tested.

  • My friend had sex with a guy, who said he was clean... she now has herpies.
    Take that story for what you will.
    I'd say if you've known him for a looong time. And can actually tryst him, then his word is probably good. If you've known him 3 weeks. Tell him to get tested with you

  • To a large extent, it is a matter of trust, regardless whether you get him to take an STD test or not. So, he passes an STD test? That doesn't prevent him from contracting an STD the very next day and then infecting you. Luckily, most people aren't cheaters, and most people don't lie about their STD status. But, ultimately, I don't think you should have sex with someone unless you significantly trust that person.

  • That my friend, is why they made condoms.

    • Condom can snap then what

    • Then you better hope he was telling the truth lol.

  • I won't trust any girl. I trust the paper that tells me she is. we both get tested or no comdomless sex

  • Just make sure you both get tested. You don't want to mess up the rest of your life. It's a red flag if he won't do it.

  • No, use protection or get tested together.

  • Fist u got to trust him fully if he a great guy and doesn't sleep around a lot he probably clean but if u have any doubt u can look at his penis to see if it clean and looks good tell him to wear a condom

  • No. Go get checked. You would be shocked at how many people have an STD these days.

  • Tell me you are joking.
    NO DOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM

    • Don't lol XD

  • I would tell him to get a test anyway just to double check

  • Not necessarily. If you completely trust him, then sure. But it's completely reasonable to expect him to get tested.

  • Is he a hoe or something?

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