Why do guys get angry if you won't sleep with them?

I been getting to know a guy and the first date he got mad because I wouldn't give him a blow job. I ignored him for awhile but he kept messaging me apologizing saying he didn't mean it. Then today he asks me if I want to hook up I said no and he called me a lazy b* tch and stuck up and lazy s*ut. Why do men get so mean and angry if you don't put out. I try not to sleep with anyone I'm not in a relationship with and I told him that.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Some guys think they're entitled to sex. That's not okay, and you have a right to say no, because it's your own body after all. If you're not comfortable then don't do it. You don't need him in your life. Cut off all contact with him. He sounds like an asshole. Not worth your time.

  • Um, I hope you are not thinking of giving him a second chance

Most Helpful Guys

  • Because the guy only wants your body. YOU does not matter shit for him as long as he gets to fuck you; which is exactly what he wants.
    Dump the bastard, and leave him in the ditch. He's not worth it.

  • Not all men are like that.
    You found one that is a jerk. I don't know why you continued talking to him after he was that rude on the first date. Block him.

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  • I know people who are like this and it’s scary… They equate money to sex, yet, they won’t spend money for sex on the women who do it for a living… They prey after the ones who want something real. I would avoid him and never look back because he doesn’t want anything serious, it sounds like he just wants sex or just likes your body.

  • This guy sees you as an object and not as a person. Cut him out of your life and find someone better.

  • that guy is horrible he looks at u like a body nothing more he is bitch leave him

  • Some guys just want to get laid, plain and simple. If he takes you out and you don't put out, he feels you have wasted his time. He's an ass hat for that, but thats just how some guys roll.

  • Please don't generalise, we aren't all like this abusive idiot.

    We're not, a lot of men wouldn't speak to a girl like this and wouldn't behave in such away.

  • he's a trsh bag a good man would not even be bringing that up

  • That guys is a jerk. Most of us aren't

    Keep looking...

  • Sounds like an immature frat boy, dump him and look for a man that values you as a human being.