He wants me to dominate him?

My boyfriend wants me to dominate him, how do I do that? I've never played that role before...
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Thanks everyone, it was a bit... well awkward at first, but once I told him what I want him to do and he listened like a little puppy... well it got pretty exciting and kinky very fast. Definitely enjoyed being the dominant one ;)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tie him up in bed.
    Spank him.
    Drive him wild with sexual excitement and tell him he's forbidden to cum.
    Don a strap-on and penetrate him (till he climaxes from the pressure on his male g-spot)
    Put on your high heels and step on his stomach. Or face.
    Chain him up and then pleasure yourself by forcing him to give you oral sex.
    Masturbate him almost to climax, but stop just short. Keep doing it till he can take it no more.
    Call him your slave and ask him to (sexually) do whatever you demand him to.
    Make him walk around the house naked and in chains!
    Tie him to the bed, and then go about masturbating yourself while he cannot touch himself.
    Place him naked on your lap and spank him till his butt turns red.
    Strip him naked, get him down on his fours, and ride him as if he was your horse.
    Handcuff him, and make him watch you strip, lapdance, and masturbate yourself.
    Just some of the things I'd love to have done to myself. Feeling horny just with the thought (s).

    • He gets off work in 2 hours... I'm so not ready... What commands would you like a girl to give you?

    • A man wanting to be dominated likes to be treated like a slave. Command him to do things in the same manner you would do to a slave. Some of the ideas given by others are good too. The idea is: humiliate him, make him feel powerless, stay in control of the sexual encounter, talk to him in a rude and debasing manner. The sexual high comes from feeling powerless, not having to take the initiative each time in bed, and not sure where it's going to end up! I think feeling powerless is a big turnon, sometimes for a man too. I can understand why women like to feel dominated (in bed). A couple of my partners loved even mock-rape... not hard to understand why.

  • Seek GOD for Salvation. GOD Only allows for sex between a man and a woman who are married to each other. Praise CHRIST JESUS!

    There shall be a new earth: this one will be destroyed. Do you want to live on the New Earth? Do you want your loved ones to live on the new earth? If so, get saved. Give your heart to JESUS CHRIST and seek to get your loved ones to do the same. We should all be seeking to be saved and to get those whom we love saved, so that we can all live together forever and be apart of GOD'S Glorious New Creation having escaped the damnation of eternal Hellfire. Praise the Blessed LORD JESUS CHRIST. AMEN. (Revelation 21:1-8)

    • Can't tell if you're trolling or not lol...

Most Helpful Girls

  • bull his hair pin him to the bed spank him with a belt tell him he been a bad boy. Or ask him how he would like to be dominated

  • If you enjoyed that just wait until you get to use a strapon on him. Don't say never, it was a lot more fun than I expected 😉

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  • I laughed so hard reading this for some reason.

  • Cuss, slap, beat, poke, demand, order, choke, etc.

    You are in charge. Be mean, force him to do what you want.

    Some guys are into that, personally, I am into the exact opposite, (me dominate, her submit), but each guy is different!

  • To be dominant:
    Cuss him like he's a dumb fucker.
    Slap him when he doesn't fuck you hard enough.
    Twist his nipplrs.
    Fake choke him when you're riding him.
    Sit on his face and demand he lick you or he'll be punished.
    Sit on his face and yank his head onto the pussy.
    Tie him to the bed post and ride him.
    Give a foot bj.

    Just some ideas to try :p

  • Just do some "research" online.

    • Trust me, I have been all day... Nothing specific there. I need to know the commands, and what to say when he obeys. For example if I tell him to eat my pussy, and he does, what do I say while he is doing it to. Reward him.

    • You're not supposed to "reward" him, that's the point of domination. You FORCE him to give you pleasure.

    • Like I said, I love being on top and everything... But this whole tell him what to do thing... im new to it. Lol. Have you ever been dominated? Did you like it? What did you like and what didn't you?

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  • LOL, you call yourself a tomboy, but you never played the dominant role? That's just ridiculous...