Do classy girls hate giving blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

I dated a girl who was classy and hated giving BJs. She said her friends all don't do it except for her. Well, I happen to love them, I mean really really go for them so it was a bit disheartening. When she did it, it was clear she didn't like it, which made it suck. So, do all classy girls hate working the nob?

[Anonymous]

No, unless you equate classy to being sexually conservative, even in the privacy of your own bedroom. I take care of myself, look nice, dress well, etc. and I'm told I'm a very sweet, elegant and lovely girl... but that doesn't mean I act like a prude in bed. I'm pretty sexually adventurous, actually. Here's the thing: there's different sides to a person. You wouldn't act the same in an interview as you would with your friends and family. Similarly, a girl can be classy in public and still love giving good head in private moments with her lover.

[kaylaS91]

Nope, not at all true. I fall under what you would define as 'classy', always making sure I look well put-together, never going out in public in sweats and all scrubbed out, raised Catholic so by association quite conservatively, and I love giving my boyfriend blow-jobs. I actually seem to be much wilder in the bedroom than most of my friends from what they say.

I think whether a girl likes giving blow-jobs depends much more on her personal preference as well as experiences having given them in the past.

[Anonymous]

I think being classy and ladylike goes a little beyond manicuring your looks... in a way it's something innate to a person.
The blow job thing, it sounds more like it's because she's conservative and too self-conscious to low herself to such. It's hard to say what's classy in the bedroom or not though. Perhaps more how you do it then what you do?

[Shpongolia]

I've come to the conclusion that lots of girls tend to fib about what they like or dislike in their sex lives, so they don't sound too freaky, slutty, or easy. It's understandable though. I mean if she tells people about her sex life, they are likely to tell other people and that could gather unwanted attention from disrespectful guys who only want to get into her pants.

[JackKerouac77]

Fine, do whatever you want, but don't expect me to go down on you if you won't go down on me.

Tit for tat!

Seems just... silly. Who's going to know whether she gives blowjobs or not?

[existing_not_living]

I wouldn't say blow jobs make you a whore/unclassy, but my sisters a pretty class/traditional gal and has sworn that she will never give a blow job.

[Asker]

Not saying unclassy girls would do it, but you know the persona I am trying to say right?

[existing_not_living]

Yeah, I get you.

[harakiri]

classiness isn't related to sexual proclivities.

[Asker]

Yes, but it is a persona. Like 10x less likely to want to do it compared to another segment of girls.

[harakiri]

... not empirically proven.

[UlsterScot]

I don't see that as being necessarily true. Paris Hilton, for example.

[Asker]

that could be argued.. PH isn't exactly a "classy" girl in my book.

[Anno_Domini]

@UlsterScot Since when has Paris Hilton ever been "classy"... O_o

[harakiri]

being wealthy doesn't make you classy lol. look at the kardashians.

[ihatethiswebsite]

The kardashians are the epitome of classy. I dont know what you are talking about :p jk

[harakiri]

lmao helll nahh :p

[cr8zychic247]

She can be classy but still be a freak

[bDizzie]

Her friends are liars

[Jerusha]

Naaah, dude... not necessarily

[Klaatu51]

classy girls = AVOID . not a good kind of girls

[COCOCHANEL]

yeah, uptown girls never go downtown

[Asker]

noooooooooooooooo

[Ihav2fart]

Have you not heard the saying: "Lady in the streets, Freak in the sheets?"

Hell no they dontttt.

[Anonymous]

I dont think so. Like, i consider myself a classy girl and i love giving bjbs haha, i think its not important if she is classy, tacky or whatever to like giving bjbs.

[Anonymous]

Not at all, I love sucking my husband, but no one would think I had ever given head to look at me. He never speaks of our sex life to any one so I don't mind doing whatever he asks because I know it stays between us

[Anonymous]

I don't know what being classy has to do with it. It really has NOTHING to do with it! It's a sexual act, some women like to and some don't. It's not a frowned upon thing.

[Anonymous]

How are you defining "classy" ?

[Asker]

See my update.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting definition of classy. Regardless, your gf is your gf and you're going to have to deal with her tastes. Whether they are classy or whatever other label would be applied, whatever "type" she and her friends are, whatever the root of their feelings, they don't like blow jobs. So women like your gf don't like it, and if by some definition they would be considered "classy", then no, that specific group, at least as represented by your gf and her friends, generally doesn't like blow jobs. Classy to me implies something traditional and conservative, along stereotypical caricatures of aristocracy and what not. In any case, I don't consider myself to be "classy" so I can't really relate. You should keep open communication with her and express your feelings if you feel like she's too closed off. Maybe she'll compromise, maybe not. But you should talk about it, if you haven't already. In the end, everyone being comfortable is the best. Good luck! :)