Can having children make a big difference in vagina tightness?

Ok so I've had 2 children and currently pregnant with my 3rd, does this mean my vagina is really loose? My current partner says I'm not but his ex was a virgin or so she says but I read up saying being a virgins doesn't necessarily mean your tight my bf has slept with 9 other girls not including me and I've only slept with 4 guys not including him I've never had any complaints and can feel everything when we are having sex but if I couldn't feel anything does that mean he can't either? :/
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Thank you everyone for your answers it's made me less paranoid now! I will look up on these kegel exercises and start doing them :)
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  • The ex-gf was with her over 5 years, Had 2 babies with her over the 5 years and there wasn't any difference in tightness though she was quite dry when we started doing it again. Texture did change after the 2nd but not in terms of tightness.

    Current gf, she has 3 kids with the youngest one being 20 months old. First did sex with her when she was 6 months pregnant and then again when her youngest was 9 months old. She was tight both times, the 2nd time however she was tighter and she was in pain as I wasn't gentle getting it into her. I highly doubt child-birth has anything to do with vaginal looseness.

    Also 90% of girls who think she is loose or big there usually isn't, probably sometime in the past someone with a small dick entered her and told her so or someone was being spiteful told her something along those lines.

  • Meh... it's more a difference of texture IMHO. My wife tore a little and the scar tissue made her deal a little rough. But then again, by the time she let me back in bed, she could have been lined with sand paper and I'd have been down, so...

    If you're worried about being tight, do kegel exercises. In fact, do them anyway. They'll make child birth easier.

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  • No it does not get loosening. Not in any noticeable sense. Child birth widens the hips. Vagina walls are elastic. That said aging mind effect the elasticity. So do yiur kegels

  • Lul I had a kid and I still can't wear the smallest tampons they make because they rip me open -_-
    Your vagina is a muscle. It goes back to normal, don't worry about it (:

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  • In the USA your vigina after children seem to be looser but in other countries a woman can have a child and it feels like new. Everything is in the food. It is not that other countries eat better, they just do not have the bad things in their food supply that we have. In Brazil I have seen near flat stomach on women after child birth and vigina like new.

  • i didn't notice any difference after the first child, but after the second there was a huge difference. no pun intended.
    still feels good and i wouldn't choose a relationship based on vag tightness. i'm sure you girls wouldn;t base a relationship off dick size and go on welfare because of it