Sex after divorcing a well endowed man?

[imabird2014]

I am almost divorced from a 7 year marriage. I have always cared deeply about another man and it was always mutual. I never ever spoke about it while I was married of course, you're always going to feel connections with other people... just don't act on it. Well after I seperated from my ass hole, neglectful husband I finally spoke about it. The love him and I feel for each other is out of this world. And we have everything in common. But my soon to be ex husband had a huge penis. Huge. And after being with him for so long I guess I was stretched out. This other man and I had sex for the first time recently and he isn't as big, which is in NO WAY an issue for me mentally. But can I find comfort in knowing that I will shrink back down and that my body will adjust to him? I love him so much and being with a different person was... different. I am also one of those woman who have an extremely hard time reaching an orgasm and going to a smaller size makes that more difficult after being used to my ex. I love this man and everything about him, I would just like to know if I can expect my body to get used to his. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

It will depend on how much smaller the new guy is. I have an ex-gf of 3 years still being FWBs with me for this very reason. The irony is we been friends with benefits for double the time we were dating and she has 3 kids with her new bloke now. Mine is on the huge side especially with regard to thickness.

She comes by on average once or twice per month. She isn't short on sex, claims her husband does her on a near daily basis but somehow it isn't fulfilling as she misses that being filled up feel and the deep penetration as well as the roughness to it as I had always been rough during sex with her.

[ilovesexyfeet]

A few stitches to make u feel like a virgin again and get his head down there for some good oral and u won't miss the large penis at all and will never want one again. I knew a girl that had this done (not for me) but OMG it was like a burying and she felt it too.

[0neside]

Your vagina doesn't stretch out from a penis. A baby is meant to come out of there, and that is the only thing that actually permanently stretches you out. So what you have now is the size you had when you had sex with your ex-husband.

[Anonymous]

I don't think that it can shrink any further. :/ my bf has a big one. it usually hurts in the beginning, but not when we do it again the next day. if we have sex again after a week, it hurts again in the beginning.

[madhatters4]

do kegels which will help tighten those muscles and also time will probably reduce your vagina from being stretched

[JustinMMM]

i'm sure you will get used to the feeling of having sex with the new guy and forget about how your husband felt. I think your just used to feeling "more" inside of you during sex. But if he's at least average than you should be fine.. as long as he's not like 2 inches, then i'd see your point lol

[Anonymous]

Yes. Your vagina is quite elastic but has a sort of "memory". You expected a size XL and opened for it. My suggestion is that you don't have sex (or use a wide dildo) for a few months. Do oral instead. When you resume intercourse, you will have "shrunk back". Don't worry about this.

[Anonymous]

Yes your body will adjust later on its own. and if you want to help it along, i suggest Kegel exercises.. they will tighten up your vagina.
(you may need a LOT of it, 7 years of stretching out is a long time lol)

[Anonymous]

I hope it works out I had a ex with a huge thing too and its a little weird to go back to small or average... I do miss that part lol but yeah I worry sometimes too...

[imabird2014]

That does not sound optimistic

[Opinion Owner]

Oh we didn't go ALL the way but i I started to think that his size was normal lmao I dont know a thing about the stretching situation though, I would hope it goes well?